Obsessive Virgos?

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Yeah, this is a well known fact.
Well shit not to me. I thought y'all were the cool calm and stoic ones. I know they say caps can be the same. But I think y'all have us beat by a good bit in calm and cold
yeah coz that's how some of us deal with serious grudges

we leave and pretend you never existed
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Oh that explains a lot. Though one I knew was a bit more attached and didn't leave me be for a good while
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yeah, this is a well known fact.
Well shit not to me. I thought y'all were the cool calm and stoic ones. I know they say caps can be the same. But I think y'all have us beat by a good bit in calm and cold
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We can be calm and cool in daily things. But if it’s something that means something to us, it isn’t over until we say it is

We can be collected but not stoic. That is most definitely all y’all
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Yeah, this is a well known fact.
Well shit not to me. I thought y'all were the cool calm and stoic ones. I know they say caps can be the same. But I think y'all have us beat by a good bit in calm and cold
We are on the outside. We live in our heads...doesnt mean we show whats going on in them.


yep

all that overthinking

our mind is chaotic
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It really is..honestly people have no idea unless they are a virgo themselves.

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Relationship wise, If I’ve waited so long to get my man who is obviously absolutely perfect in my eyes, and I’m not supposed to be possessive ?

I will grab your dick in public. DONT try me.

But otherwise, I can be obsessed about ideas and especially any new topic that catches my attention. I want to learn allll about. I’ll be on the 9th page on Google Idc
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yeah, this is a well known fact.
Well shit not to me. I thought y'all were the cool calm and stoic ones. I know they say caps can be the same. But I think y'all have us beat by a good bit in calm and cold
yeah coz that's how some of us deal with serious grudges

we leave and pretend you never existed
Oh that explains a lot. Though one I knew was a bit more attached and didn't leave me be for a good while


what are your placements?
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Cap with a Pisces moon and a lot of aqua everywhere else
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Posted by sierra_
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Posted by sierra_
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yeah, this is a well known fact.
Well shit not to me. I thought y'all were the cool calm and stoic ones. I know they say caps can be the same. But I think y'all have us beat by a good bit in calm and cold
yeah coz that's how some of us deal with serious grudges

we leave and pretend you never existed
Oh that explains a lot. Though one I knew was a bit more attached and didn't leave me be for a good while


what are your placements?
Cap with a Pisces moon and a lot of aqua everywhere else
cap sun + pisces moon

not surprised lol
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Why’s that? Seems like I’ve dated a lot of virgos in the past.
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Relationship wise, If I’ve waited so long to get my man who is obviously absolutely perfect in my eyes, and I’m not supposed to be possessive ?

I will grab your dick in public. DONT try me.

But otherwise, I can be obsessed about ideas and especially any new topic that catches my attention. I want to learn allll about. I’ll be on the 9th page on Google Idc

For real! Possessive to a point with men and obsessive with data. But I have sun/merc/uranus conjunct with pluto in the 9th house, can't expect much less....
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Posted by sierra_
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yeah, this is a well known fact.
Well shit not to me. I thought y'all were the cool calm and stoic ones. I know they say caps can be the same. But I think y'all have us beat by a good bit in calm and cold
yeah coz that's how some of us deal with serious grudges

we leave and pretend you never existed
Oh that explains a lot. Though one I knew was a bit more attached and didn't leave me be for a good while


what are your placements?
Cap with a Pisces moon and a lot of aqua everywhere else
cap sun + pisces moon

not surprised lol
Why’s that? Seems like I’ve dated a lot of virgos in the past.


pisces moons usually marry virgo suns
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Don't give me false hope 😭😭😭

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Posted by sierra_
Posted by Sn1p3r187
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yeah, this is a well known fact.
Well shit not to me. I thought y'all were the cool calm and stoic ones. I know they say caps can be the same. But I think y'all have us beat by a good bit in calm and cold
yeah coz that's how some of us deal with serious grudges

we leave and pretend you never existed
Oh that explains a lot. Though one I knew was a bit more attached and didn't leave me be for a good while


what are your placements?
Cap with a Pisces moon and a lot of aqua everywhere else
cap sun + pisces moon

not surprised lol
Why’s that? Seems like I’ve dated a lot of virgos in the past.


pisces moons usually marry virgo suns
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Also been a lot of geminis and cancers up in my neck of the woods.
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Posted by crazysioux
Judging by the responses by Virgos in this thread, it seems that they obsess (and suffer) in silence first (i.e. living & loving in their heads). But once the needle point of reality pops the fantasy bubble, it triggers a specific fear - the fear of losing somebody close or the fear of not being appealing, perhaps? - resulting in phones blowing up and it's a mad, mad, mad, mad chase. Once that's obsessive genie is out, there's no putting it back in the bottle.
I managed to my friend. By putting the burden on someone else and blocking them out
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Posted by crazysioux
Judging by the responses by Virgos in this thread, it seems that they obsess (and suffer) in silence first (i.e. living & loving in their heads). But once the needle point of reality pops the fantasy bubble, it triggers a specific fear - the fear of losing somebody close or the fear of not being appealing, perhaps? - resulting in phones blowing up and it's a mad, mad, mad, mad chase. Once that's obsessive genie is out, there's no putting it back in the bottle.
So right, my dude, so right..
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As long Scorpio men still exist, yes.
Don't go there now ... 😆

@sunsetvirgo would probably settle for a Cap just to avoid a Scorpio ... 😄

Or is that the other way around?!? ... 😛
Cap men always there, ready to give Virgal forehead kiss and support when they get hurted by Scorp men.

Such nice guys we are.
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Relationship wise, If I’ve waited so long to get my man who is obviously absolutely perfect in my eyes, and I’m not supposed to be possessive ?

I will grab your dick in public. DONT try me.

But otherwise, I can be obsessed about ideas and especially any new topic that catches my attention. I want to learn allll about. I’ll be on the 9th page on Google Idc

For real! Possessive to a point with men and obsessive with data. But I have sun/merc/uranus conjunct with pluto in the 9th house, can't expect much less....

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I would never directly admit to my man that I’m possessive but I will most definitely show it
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Relationship wise, If I’ve waited so long to get my man who is obviously absolutely perfect in my eyes, and I’m not supposed to be possessive ?

I will grab your dick in public. DONT try me.

But otherwise, I can be obsessed about ideas and especially any new topic that catches my attention. I want to learn allll about. I’ll be on the 9th page on Google Idc

For real! Possessive to a point with men and obsessive with data. But I have sun/merc/uranus conjunct with pluto in the 9th house, can't expect much less....


I would never directly admit to my man that I’m possessive but I will most definitely show it
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Depends on the man, some make you feel more secure than others. I've had friends prowl around my man and I went off on them. F that noise, smack that bitch up!! Like you said, we deliberate a LOT before even getting attached to someone, gotta protect that investment...
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I'm around so many Virgos, and their obsessive nature is not fresh news nor a revelation to me.

For example, I had this Virgo ex-friend, she opened up to me about his high school crush several times. Until now, after everything, she's still obsessing over him. She's had this undying love for him for about 9yrs in a row now. Hitting the tenth mark soon! LMAO props to that, honestly. That's loyalty to a fault and I respect such unshaken love! But then, she tried to get on with my ex while I was in a relationship with him. That didn't last for too long though, she got over it and went back obsessing with her high school crush.

Another one. My former dorm mate, dated this Aries guy for almost 2yrs. They're done for about 2-3yrs now... yet whenever we go out drinking, he's still the same topic she'd nonstop gush about. Somehow, even when she's sober, she doesn't fail to mention him at least once.

I got no qualms about that; such is a natural phase that we all go through (it can be harmful though). Rather, it's their obsession to details and perfection that puts me off sometimes. Useful as it is, but too much obsession on details and perfection is pretty disturbing. Anything 'too much' is unhealthy anyway.
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Do virgos truly believe in space or no? Like if their partner need time to themselves do they feel rejected?


It can depend really. Like if I was in a particular loving mood and my partner is like...get the fuck away from me, I need some time alone (not word for word of course)...I may feel a little rejected but I'd understand because when I want my alone time....I want it now lol.
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Do virgos truly believe in space or no? Like if their partner need time to themselves do they feel rejected?
Yes. As long as my man tells me why he needs some space so I don’t automatically become insecure and think it’s because of me. But I believe in space, just not too much of it or else I’ll get used to you not being around. Besides I need space as well, everyone does.
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Do virgos truly believe in space or no? Like if their partner need time to themselves do they feel rejected?


It can depend really. Like if I was in a particular loving mood and my partner is like...get the fuck away from me, I need some time alone (not word for word of course)...I may feel a little rejected but I'd understand because when I want my alone time....I want it now lol.

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Lol I feel you.. I'm to honest not to tell him before hand but I think he's still feeling rejected like i haven't expressed why I need it a hundo times already.
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Do virgos truly believe in space or no? Like if their partner need time to themselves do they feel rejected?
Yes. As long as my man tells me why he needs some space so I don’t automatically become insecure and think it’s because of me. But I believe in space, just not too much of it or else I’ll get used to you not being around. Besides I need space as well, everyone does.
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I agree because I'm the same way.. just tell me str8 up