Virgo - YES again

I know this has been talked about a lot on here - but still.....

So this Virgo and I were together, we had even talked about getting engaged - two days later, he wanted it to be done. First was a list of all the things about me he did not like - then it was things he was going through. Then he wanted to "just get over this hurdle and we would be fine" - then disappeared... gone... MIA

Now the other day, he messaged my best friend to "tell his side of the story" to her... not sure why, she was one of the people that he did not like in my life since I was helping her through a hard emotional time and he felt she was getting too much of my attention. Now mind you, when we are together... he is usually messaging other people or doing his thing... until MY phone goes off.

So the point of this post --- WTF goes through their head? You want done, OK dude, then done we are. Then just get your stuff, give me mine, and pay what you owe... and go bye bye. Why they drama or the need to bring my friends into the drama? Thought they hated drama, but the cause most of it themselves

I love drama.

I just don't want to be the one receiving it.

Yep, if it is that easy for him to leave.. all you need to do is show him the door. BYE!

He sounds annoying. I never been with a Virgo but they're always attracted to me lol. They always end up annoying me and I dip lol. He sounds toxic.

how long have you known each other before talking about getting engaged ? and does he have any Libra in his chart ?

A Lxion - I am not sure to be honest with you now. Now that I had time to think (in peace) I think I was just going with the flow for the most part

Toti - He is in his 40s - think he should have had time to grow up at this point - my bad - was more a man child lol. I agree friends we did great for a couple years, then it went more and he went... weird lol (See I can be nice)

tctao - We have known each other about 2 years before things went down this road

His Mercury is in Libra

Toti - Yeah I get that. They are more logical and analytical to their decisions on things. And I agree, great men.... until you are in the inner circle. They get very cold. I do not know if it is intentional or just how they are, but they ghost you like no other. For days, weeks, months... with NO explanation. Or if you do get one, it is so all over the place you are left scratching your head.

I do not think they WANT to be alone, they just want perfect - or someone that they think could be close to perfect, with a little help from them of course LOL

Posted by moonbaby76
So this Virgo and I were together, we had even talked about getting engaged - two days later, he wanted it to be done.

When you say you talked about getting engaged did you initiate the conversation? Or did he?

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by moonbaby76
So this Virgo and I were together, we had even talked about getting engaged - two days later, he wanted it to be done.

When you say you talked about getting engaged did you initiate the conversation? Or did he?

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He did...out of the blue