fieryearth
@fieryearth
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FE, I'd probably just write him off. I know after 5 months, that wouldn't be easy, plus you have feelings for him .. but, thinking about this logically, it would be reasonable to assume that if you tolerate this behaviour of neglecting you NOW, then it will continue. You know what I mean? People don't change .. however, they will exist in a relationship within the parameters of what conditions are set, what's acceptable, what's tolerable .. you know?
fieryearth,
give him one last chance with a question....and if he doesn't respond appropiately then let it go and move on like train with a better destination!! 😉
that one last question, should be one that would involve him taking an action to either see you or speak with you...or plan something in the near future, if he comes up with excuses (which is kinda inmature of his part i must say) then you'll know it...
if you decide to comfront him, be careful with how...but personally i would take the sublimal approach of understanding this dilemma.
if he really really misses you and likes you fieryearth, he'll come back...give him few days after a last try...that is the testing time.
vll
give him one last chance with a question....and if he doesn't respond appropiately then let it go and move on like train with a better destination!! 😉
that one last question, should be one that would involve him taking an action to either see you or speak with you...or plan something in the near future, if he comes up with excuses (which is kinda inmature of his part i must say) then you'll know it...
if you decide to comfront him, be careful with how...but personally i would take the sublimal approach of understanding this dilemma.
if he really really misses you and likes you fieryearth, he'll come back...give him few days after a last try...that is the testing time.
vll
fieryearth,
give him one last chance with a question....and if he doesn't respond appropiately then let it go and move on like train with a better destination!! 😉
that one last question, should be one that would involve him taking an action to either see you or speak with you...or plan something in the near future, if he comes up with excuses (which is kinda inmature of his part i must say) then you'll know it...
if you decide to comfront him, be careful with how...but personally i would take the sublimal approach of understanding this dilemma.
if he really really misses you and likes you fieryearth, he'll come back...give him few days after a last try...that is the testing time.
vll
give him one last chance with a question....and if he doesn't respond appropiately then let it go and move on like train with a better destination!! 😉
that one last question, should be one that would involve him taking an action to either see you or speak with you...or plan something in the near future, if he comes up with excuses (which is kinda inmature of his part i must say) then you'll know it...
if you decide to comfront him, be careful with how...but personally i would take the sublimal approach of understanding this dilemma.
if he really really misses you and likes you fieryearth, he'll come back...give him few days after a last try...that is the testing time.
vll
thanx a bunch guys! Yes I am going to call and see what happens from there on.
It reminds me of this virgo i dated on and off. He's ever so confusing. One minute he misses you the next minute he wouldnt return your calls or always stood you up. So I got tired of his acts we broke up. Then funny thing is this great guy I'm dating right now turned out to be a virgo too and is the totally opposite of my last virgo. He's so caring and attentive to my emotions and would do what he promised to do with me reminding him. I think it's very simple, only if the man truely loves you he'll respect you and not hurt your feelings in any way. I love my virgo so much. Good luck to all the ladies with virgo guys 😉
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