Okay let me get his straight

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Reiniba-Chan on Tuesday, March 11, 2008 and has 16 replies.

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

does a virgo show feelings for you before or after sex?
don't expect someone to have sex with you without you showing them emotions..who wants to have sex with a robot anyway?

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@itsunotme
18 Years

I don't think virgos are cold at all, just very guarded. they are very passionate souls who are just waiting for the right person to share themselves with, and they have a lot to offer.

But just like VirgoKitten said it depends on the person, i suppose not all virgos are the same huh 😛

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

well if the only time they let their guard down is during sex with the "right" person..what then would they look like?

maybe virgos are passionate, they just don't know how to show it like other signs do-the normal way. =)

or maybe because I'm pregnant he's trying to be as gentle as possible...bleh..I'm done thinking about this...i give up.

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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

RC, I'm confused.....since when did an aqua care about seeing a Virgos passionate side?....lol this is an statement that I never expected to come from an aqua....feelings usually aren't big on the aqua's list of priorities (or at least that's what I hear....)

However as a Virguy,I'd feel a little weird about having sex with my pregnant girlfriend....don't want to 'brainwash' the baby!!!!! lol 😛

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@Reiniba-Chan
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lol VE I was a little disappointed when the doctor said that sex was unrestricted..but kinda happy at the same time because I can have sex and not worry about getting pregnant *twice* X_X and he wouldn't have to worry either..>_>

the second he tries to get rough with me, I remind him that there is a baby in my stomach, poor thing has to use his brain just to do it lol

but it's not easy to do it while pregnant. he has gotta understand.

and feelings are important to see from a partner *During Sex*... lol I wouldn't mind showing emotion to someone who I am committed to and that I know is committed to me. otherwise I wouldn't have sex with them period.

other than that, emotions won't surface, but they are there.

and if you are a random friend and someone who I can trust with feelings. you may never see an Aqua's emotions..

emotions come with trust..same way as a virgo..duh 😛

who wants to have their feelings shot down by people they don't trust. One has to become a lot stronger and have high self-esteem and full security in order to tell just anyone how they feel.

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

which I may have come to that point. But I don't like to tell people who have no knowledge or understanding of a female's emotions. only people with experience and those people who have actually overcome life's battles..

if not, there is no point in showing people these emotions. that's why Aquas feel misunderstood all their life, cause it is very hard to find those people who have overcome life's battles. very hard to find people who have it all together.

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@Twilight Fury
18 Years

Virgo men have a LOT of emotions, but they supress them. They're paranoid. My ex smoked rope in order to be able to let go and say things he really wanted to say.

They will second guess and triple guess their statements before uttering a word. They never stop thinking, their minds are equal only to Gemini's in 'busy-ness'.

They want to be taken away from it all....they want to forget their earthly chains... but they don't know how....and they doubt themselves way too much.

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@marchgirl80
18 Years1,000+ PostsAries

"lol VE I was a little disappointed when the doctor said that sex was unrestricted..but kinda happy at the same time because I can have sex and not worry about getting pregnant *twice* X_X and he wouldn't have to worry either..>_>"

Dont shish-ka-bob the bebe.. J/k mine came out no worries at all. I think I had more sex than I've ever had in my lifetime, while I was preggers. Free balling flat out love fests. I mean loveeeeeee afternoons, turning into night. My bebe is the such a happy baby. Happy go lucky always smiling. Maybe there is something to that 😉

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

aren't emotions dramatic?

now how emotional does a virgo get..a small tear here and there? (actually my stepdad is that cold to his own daughter)

I've seen my husband cry believe it or not, several times. Especially when he hurt me and realized how hurt I was. One time I cried and he said if I don't stop crying he may kill himself for being such a jerk...

Poor thing, thought my crying was just too much for him to handle..

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@VirgoHero
18 Years5,000+ Posts

or maybe because I'm pregnant he's trying to be as gentle as possible...bleh..I'm done thinking about this...i give up.

Random thought:
How much thought and energy does he put into pregnancy? He may be very focused on the forthcoming child, hence distracted when it comes to pleasure. I've read in this forum that us V's are VERY VERY serious when it comes to providing for our loved ones and kids. I know if my chica was having my baby, it would consume my thoughts in making sure everything was provided for.

OR...
He's just weirded out about having sex with a pregnant chic.

Either way!

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

would the consuming thoughts overwhelm you to the point that you virgos would give up?

just wondering 🙂 in which I would see it as being the virgo's fault for being a virgo. not the changing of the situation.

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@VirgoC
20 Years

Forget about the star sign...if he is emotionless after sex with someone he loves or at least likes...then the word 'Humanoid' comes to mind. Do you really want to be with someone like this, when you could demand (and get) reciprocation of your emotional investment?

As us Cockneys say: Don't be a mug, mate :-) (I am not Cockney btw haha)

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@VirgoC
20 Years

— C*o*c*k*n*e*y is a person from East London, not a swearword! Why was it censored to chickenney—

This site should take a big chill pill and invest in a bloody dictionary haha