OPINIONS ON THIS VIRGO MALE PLEASE

Some ppl shut down when they're having job or family issues or both .. it easier for them to deal with their issues at hand by shutting ppl out, even ppl they care about .. not necessarily a Virgo thing, more like a ppl thing

Drogan yeah I guess I get it. I mean it's not like it's bad chemistry between us. Whenever we see each other it's nothing but positive chill vibes. Each time we've had sex it's been better than the previous lol and each time I see him he discloses a bit more about himself. He always acts as if no time has passed between the previous time he sees me when we meet up. We always chill at his crib too, cuddle and watch movies. First time I spent time with him he was very distant physically. He's opened up since. The last time I saw him, I went to say bye ... I went to give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek( previously I kissed him before I left but I saw he wasn't ready for it so I switched up this time) but he went to hug me and actually kiss me but it got awkward for him I guess but I grabbed him back and gave him a kiss to reassure him. He's like "might as well do it the right way right" So idk. A lot of mixed signals.

Lml Do what I do best?? And wow really lol, I'm not really about the drama tho. Just communication I don't like being clueless

The fact that he disappeared after your open relationship ended makes me think that he wasn't serious and was worried that you would think it was. He might not have wanted you to latch on to him and get serious or be in a relationship with you. Then he comes back in and after little resistance, the two of you are at it again then he disappears again...yeah he's setting the tone for the relationship and you going along with it is going to stop it from becoming serious.

I also think that the real life issues haven't made it easy but the cynic in me wonders.

When people really want to be there they are. No ifs ands ors or butts. They show up they respond they give effort. The fact that he hasn't meant either he doesn't trust the bond with you to lean on you, i.e. not serious or its time to realize that this might not be a romantic choice and find someone else.