Pisces & Virgos (Page 2)

Night Haffo!!! Thanks for playing!!!

Oh I do too!!!!

Ok . . . as much as I hate to get off here . . . I must get to bed. Goodnight everyone . . . and I must say, I thouroughly enjoyed myself!

Lost cause. The only time it can work is if the Virgo is a pansy and his Pisces broad walks all over him.

It can be torrid in the beginning, but in time it will rot like compost.

The Virgo is just too practical for the dream world of the fish, along with the blatant procrastination and unrealistic expectations.

The sex will be great for both though.

Virguy62 . . . . and what if the Virgo is female and the Pisces is male— and if the Virgo tends to be a bit of a dreamer also??

same thing Innamorato

Message posted by: Virgo_Innamorato on 2/8/2007 8:29:13 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.17
I love my Pisces, he's so amazing.


VI .. don't forget that this is how YOU feel.

Well, I don't imagine my relationship "rotting like compost" solely because I am Virgo and he is Pisces. We have never had any problems due to our signs, infact, we both feel that is part of what has always drawn us to eachother. . .

"I don't imagine my relationship "rotting like compost" solely because I am Virgo and he is Pisces"

This is normally a pretty good match because there's an understanding between these two that go beyond any other combo .. however, it's likely that in time, probably a short amount of time .. the Pisces will begin to discover that the relationship is rotting like compost .. with this coupling, the Virgo usually isn't aware of this condition because they don't have the "feeler" that the fish does and usually remains oblivious to anything except duty .. that's not to say that the Virgo doesn't eventually sense this .. it's just usually the Pisces does long before and will then begin to treat you differently, because they comprehend that the Virgo does because they are instructed, instead of because they desire ..

Right now, you feel good .. go for it .. but, there is wisedome in VG's words .. over time, these two derail .. crash and burn.

Can't speak for other Pisces, but, I know myself, I'm low-maintanence in most areas of my life. I require a tremendous amount of space, which my partner enjoys because it affords him his own time away .. emotionally, I'm overflowing so this isn't something I need tons of from the other .. financially, I'm far from in need .. as for logic and reasoning, I'm very self-sufficient, on and on with being pretty secure within myself.

My areas of need with assistance comes with technical stuff .. a complete idiot sometimes, with even a remote .. my mind just doesn't grasp this stuff.

Virgo's and Pisces can work .. however, the fish becomes bored, like Branh said. From my experience with the Virgo, this boredom comes mostly from having to live without much variety and practically no spontenuity on the V's part. When Branh said we get bored and create drama or issues .. it's because we start drowning with the same old, same old, same old, every frigging day. The Virgo could spend a lifetime without experiencing new stuff, rather, just becoming experts in their limited interests. Perhaps, this is seem as creating drama from the Virgo's perspective .. but, from the Pisces', it's creating something new to do, something new to experience and embrace.

"rotting like compost"

That's a pretty fair analogy of how it feels after a lot of time, if the Fish doesn't find avenues in which to spark an interest into the Virgo, other than just the established regime.

"P-Angel, everyone gets bored with their partners. The reason why the relationship fails is because usually one partner don't have enough interest outside of the relationship. They are looking for their partner to provide all the excitement, which is co-dependence."

Yes, that's what I said above .. thank you for re-iterating.

Read it all word for word .. the first two sentences was the subject of the text.

In fact, by saying, "everyone gets bored with their partners. The reason why the relationship fails is because usually one partner don't have enough interest outside of the relationship. They are looking for their partner to provide all the excitement"

IS the same thing as saying, "The Virgo could spend a lifetime without experiencing new stuff, rather, just becoming experts in their limited interests .. it's creating something new to do, something new to experience and embrace."

Just different possession and verbage, for it was two different people talking in their own style .. same point.

Don't be silly and fiegn ignorance with me .. for I know better, I know you're not stupid .. the only part I highlighted WAS the part that was agreed upon, so logic would dictate that this was the part in which prompted my response to in the form of agreement.

Geeeeezzzz, Virgo's .. I swear .. they'll argue even when someone is "with" them on something.

"They want a partner who maintains some consistent mood and temperment. Which is impossible to have with a Pisces. They can't keep interest in anything long enough."

As in .. agreeing upon the difficulties of the V/P relationship?

Seems to me that's an interest of yours that I maintain, pretty consistently .. been interested in it in here for as long as you have ..

Seriously, can you even acknowledge beyond each little thought that pops in her brain? lol, Branh .. THINK about it ..

Actually, when I hear you talk out of your ass .. it makes me feel so good about myself because it makes my awareness of being more logical than you quite apparant .. and I love it, I do !!!!!!

philosophy, god. the more i am forced to read about it, the less and less interested i become.......

"My areas of need with assistance comes with technical stuff .. a complete idiot sometimes, with even a remote .. my mind just doesn't grasp this stuff."

The Virgo women can be no different. I know one. She cannot use the dictaphone. She doesn't get it. How hard it could be? Just press, speak and relase. Listen to what being said, if want to say more, then press speak and relase again. She doesn't get it. About 10 times she did wrong. She press, relase and speak. The other side cannot hear her. And this is a Virgo female I'm talking about.

"Pisces are annoying in the respect that everything is an extreme with them. Yeah, they need "space", but they are also very clingy and want a partner to be under them 24/7. Their need for attention is very random, and typically don't understand why they aren't being paid attention to. It is one thing for some guy to ignore you in some premeditated fashion. If he ignores you when he has the opportunity to give you attention, then it is understandable to be upset. A Pisces is different. They look at the fact they want attention, but really don't consider the fact that the guy is probably working and can't pay attention to them. Pisces expect people to inconvience themselves for whatever whims they have. I won't inconvience myself for anyone."

Not true. All the Pisces I know could leave you to your own hell (even neglect you), without seeking your attention. The only reason why Pisces continiously need attention of their partner, is because they suspect something about them and test them. Other than that, they are not attention whores at all.

"Pisces admire and worship their partners as if they are some demi-god. Other signs don't assign a God-like status to their partners. They are perfectly aware that their partners are human. Virgos know that the Pisces is human. but Pisces can't love someone whom they can't worship and idolize. So to me, being with a Pisces is, again, just playing on fantasies or trying to control them. Very easy to control a Pisces, but who the hell would want that. Virgos don't seek to control partners, because they crave an intellectual partner who thinks. Pisces don't want to actively do anything but be in love. Again, annoying."

Pisces is passionate. They get excited with almost everything. Maybe you see it as if taking people as god. Don't make mistake. They will neglect you completely when they finish with you.

"Not true. All the Pisces I know could leave you to your own hell (even neglect you), without seeking your attention. The only reason why Pisces continiously need attention of their partner, is because they suspect something about them and test them. Other than that, they are not attention whores at all."

Haffo . . .I totally agree with you here. In my relationship, I am the attention whore . . . my pisces doesn't seem to have anywhere the need for attention that I do.

Anyway . . . I am aware that anything is possible in the future. But I honestly can't imagine every being without my Pisces . . . we understand eachother . . . we compliment eachother . . .we have extreme passion for eachother . . . we want the same things for our future . . . we have many interests in common however, we both have our own unique interests also. . . I do not believe my relationship will ever "rot like compost".

I'm happy . . and i plan to be happy for a long time . . .

P-Angel,

I may be mistaken, but isn't your husband a virgo and you have been together for quite some time— Do you feel your relationship has "rotted like compost" eww that is such a vulgar analogy!!

I am noticing that there is a difference between Virgo-Pisces relationship depending on who is the male-female. In this post the female Virgo / male Pisces seems to work well. But with the female Pisces / male Virgo, you get the 'rotting compost' affect?

I dated a Virgo male once, it was a disaster; although I do have some good Virgo male friends.

"But with the female Pisces / male Virgo, you get the 'rotting compost' affect?"

It would appear that most relationships where the male is the Virgo eventually comes to this if the woman sticks around long enough, that's why we have these women in here who come to bitch about their men .. they're wondering why their relationship is starting to smell like shit, so they come in her to inquire ..

Well I have never dated a male Virgo . . .

There's one Virgo woman in here who's with another Virgo, I forget who and she says that it works out for her, I guess because she can understand another of her kind so well. Most women who date the males of your breed have serious issues, if you stick around for a while .. they come in here on a regular basis, feeling completely broken and at the end of their rope. It's a shame, really .. cause love isn't suppose to leave a person in this kind of condition.

The (f)Virgo/(m)Pisces match can actually work .. that is, if the Pisces can handle the extreme ethics (seems way boring to the fish, btw), and the Virgo can handle the bottomless directionless energy .. this seems to be the main issue with a pairing of female V and male P, from what I've gathered from people's experience in here .. the male Pisces flutters around, seemingly disconnected to the union, while the female V, seems to be sitting back being a total bitch, nit-picking him to death .. however, I don't believe this is the case, for if you strip away appearances .. it boils down to an aimless energy on one end, and a sense of morals on the other .. however, it's not a reflection on how the two feel about each other and doesn't leave the other to feel like they are rotting like compost, like this match with gender reversal.

It's a matter of understanding the motives and intentions of either. But, it sounds from what you've said .. you two have already found that the pairing is bringing joy to both of you .. and that's what really matters.

uhm, i'm so confused about this combination....I'm a Pisces with Virgo Ascendant so does that mean i could be in love with myself? nah, actually what i ment was that i'm more of a Virgo rather than a Piscean.... I'm less emotional than any other Piscean and my previous relationships were with Air and Fire Signs.... I've had it once with a Scorpio and a Cancer but it's just that they crave so much security that i'm getting too choked up with their needs... I want a lover that could provide me my indepence or else, ill go nuts! I want a lover that is more of a friend than a lover himself. One thing, i can never get along with water signs.... most likely, i could be with Air or Fire signs or Earth Signs....

About the combination, i think so... there's this Virgo guy in school that keeps on getting close to me and drives me insane, or rather annoys me... no, wait, more like scares me sometimes coz he always stays close to me.... and one time, we argued, more of like having a debate... he's like this know-it-all balddy blah blah schmuck and can't accept a single fault (You and your being perfectionists virgos)... Is this his idea of flirting? I'm really enjoying it actually...we can ride on with our humours, but there's something in him that doesn't feel right...Some repulsion, i think... You know like you find each other compatible, but you feel it just wont work out... and lastly, most people who wanted to get close to me were Virgos... Pls dont get this wrong... I find Virgos humorous at first, but when you begin to praise them, they become jerks...

But for me, my most compatible sign is Aquarius...mind you, I have many Aquarian friends and I could just feel right with them. No kidding.

"there's this Virgo guy in school that .. annoys me... more like scares me .. and one time, we argued ... he's like this know-it-all balddy blah blah schmuck and can't accept a single fault ... Is this his idea of flirting? I'm really enjoying it actually... but there's something in him that doesn't feel right... Some repulsion, i think... Pls dont get this wrong... I find Virgos humorous at first, but when you begin to praise them, they become jerks..."

lol, pretty much common census ..

"I'm really enjoying it actually" .. got find fun somewhere in life.