Please help me Virgo Men and Women

Hello, I am 21 and Libra

I have a long story but I'll try and shorten this up. My ex boyfriend is a Virgo and I made the biggest mistake breaking up with him and taking him for granted last May. I was so sick of him back then and I thought I just wanted something new, he chased me from May until October. I finally thought I was over him so I got into a super fast rebound relationship with a guy and he basically used me and left for college last month in January. I reached out to my Virgo ex bf after realizing he is truly amazing this man literally did everything for me and all I did was ignore him and treat me like crap. I've never had someone there for me the way he was and he's grown into an even better person since we've last talked. First he was openly friendly with me and we talked on the phone for hours like the old days, I've never stopped loving him but I told him before to move on and find a new girl because I didn't love him anymore. But he just stopped talking to me and now it's like if I don't call him he barely replies to my text and never wants to see me. We were together for 3 years before the breakup.

So Virgos, is it too late for me?? I would do anything to win him back, he deserves the best woman and I'll fight for him no matter what—??

He knows how I feel for him, I know he's hurt and the fact that I jumped in a new relationship made things worse but I made a mistake. I've never met a guy like him and I'm afraid he will find another girl, it's funny how life works. He chased me for months and now I can't get him to even look my way anymore. I know he still loves me ?

Yay to him for realizing you're not worth it.

The ONLY reason you are wanting him is because you're trying to use him as a rebound due to you having another failed relationship.

key words: you having another failed relationship

You treated him like shit and now expect him to come sniffing up your ass to cater to YOUR feelings, eventhough you didn't give a rats ass about his feelings.

You deserve to be hurt for what you've done ....... and all of my energy on this topic is with him remaining ignorant of your existence.

People make mistakes

I'm learning love is not a game

Please, you will leave him again no matter what. lol

Most women in their teen and 20s have many options nowadays, so they will fuck up their relationships and try new ones.

Until you reach your 30s you won't give a crap about your virgo type of a guy, it's just in your nature. 😉

OP,

This is a moment of honesty for you and a chance to grow. There is a slim chance he might come back...not because he's a Virgo...that has nothing to do with it...but because he loves you...but he has a broken heart and needs time to heal.

But more important is my original point, you need to be honest with yourself about why you want him back. Is it because of love or you not wanting to be alone? If it's the latter, you'll only end up breaking his heart again. In that case, if you truly care for him you need to let him go. Better that than the alternative.

Id day everything happens for a reason but i dont think you should bother with him. Your only lonely and he is not a good match for you. I know enough Virgos to know they are all the same. He will bore you. Get yourself a passionate man. Virgos dont fight for love. So don't waste any mental energy on him and find a better man for you.

Ill bet my last dollar i know how he made you feel while with him, and its not you didn't appreciate him. He bored you. Just move on. 😄

@Venus-Scorp

He's definitely not boring he's more social than I am, one of the most confident men I've ever known and fine as hell!

But you guys are mostly right, he deserves a better woman than me. I thought I could win him back but I realized that his feelings were shattered by me and I moved on fast because I was running from the pain but now that he's gone for real this time I can see more clearly.

He was so loving and charming, never cheated and anytime I needed him he was there. He taught me more about myself than I ever knew. Despite all that I still didn't make him a priority or give him the love in return he gave to me. This is a hard pill to swallow but I'll learn from this and be a better person.

Thank you for all the feedback positive or negative.

P.S. don't take a good love for granted

Posted by Venus-scorp1
Id day everything happens for a reason but i dont think you should bother with him. Your only lonely and he is not a good match for you. I know enough Virgos to know they are all the same. He will bore you. Get yourself a passionate man. Virgos dont fight for love. So don't waste any mental energy on him and find a better man for you.

Ill bet my last dollar i know how he made you feel while with him, and its not you didn't appreciate him. He bored you. Just move on. 😄

"Virgos dont fight for love. "

I do. But how long and how far do you take the fight. After so many times, a person gives up. Regardless of sign. jmo