Politely Saying F--- You

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by hopelessdreamr on Monday, April 10, 2006 and has 10 replies.

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@hopelessdreamr
20 Years

So u wana know something...and u ask...if you're not given a straight up answer...is that your answer in itself..??..

this by the way ladies n gentleman is in reference to "clarifying relationships"

if one is in a position where they are trying to see just where do we stand and whom ever they r talking to is not willing to reciprocate...i mean for the sake of examples He just straight up does NOT answer.. isnt that just politely saying f--- you ..!!..??..

If someone tells you how they feel and wat they want n that INCLUDES you and u say NOTHING...wat type of ISH is that!!??!!

Despite how long ive known the gentleman im speaking of...im going to conclude that things just arent as they used to be and it may just be that he isnt that into me...no way...things are just too different now

wat say the jury

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@hopelessdreamr
20 Years

i dont think the Sagg in my blood wood ever allow me to submit..lol..but seriously its tragically exciting...these ways people have... I just don't understand y ONE cant just be Straight up..??.. put the cards on the table and save the bluffs and shit talks for the next hand.. wats so compromising about that..??..

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@hopelessdreamr
20 Years

no matter how scandalous the act... i always respect a person who is straight up.. watever the circumstances...and watever the consequences.. to me this is the difference between the Hunters and the Hunted.. lol wat an analogy

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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Wait!!...can a person politely say F*** you? I mean if you say it, you should mean it right? I think you should anyway! Anytime F U came out of my mouth it's never been polite!!; It was gory, bloody, angry, agrevated, warm, sensual, hot, hard, powerful, and .....gotta go!!

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@dreamer 25
20 Years

I'm not the only one who has had this kind of behaviour from a Virgo, hopeless dreamer I can understand you completely.

Why can't they just say what is on their mind even if it's harsh? Silence is the absolute worst thing for emotional matters.

I'm a Capricorn and I just cannot understand the Virgo manner. It's rude, awful and downright ignorant!

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I can't say for your Virgo, only mine . . . and, when he does this (which he absolutely does), it's for a certain reason.

My Virgo man is pretty perceptive of people around him and he learns quickly, by paying attention, who is weak, who is emotional, who is strong, who is aware of theirselves; and the only time I ever find that he remains silent when somebody has asked him a question is when he wants to be honest because they are asking him a question, but, the truth is too hard to take because the person is too emotionally driven.

Rather than hurt somebody's feelings, he elects to remain silent.

Thinking about my Virgo friends, I can see this same thing. If it is determined that the person asking the question can't handle the truth, they will do whatever is necessary, not to tell them the cold hard facts.

That's not meaning f...you in my book, it's using manners and not wanting to offend someone.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I guess that's better than preaching about something you know nothing about, right?

Still, that doesn't sound like f...you.

I think the person who started this, is just too emotional and has a Virgo friend who is looking out for her feelings. Instead of seeing it as a good thing, she elects to see the bad in the situation. Unfortunately, a lot of people do that with Virgo's. They get a bum rap.

He's probably just trying to protect her feelings, but, she's too into herself to notice.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Actually, what it really sounds like, is the Virgo is being prompted to talk about feelings in a relationship when he isn't ready. She says, "if one is in a position where they are trying to see just where do we stand and whom ever they r talking to is not willing to reciprocate".

You can't force someone to open up and talk about feelings when they aren't ready to. Then go and make the assumption that he's telling you to screw yourself. If you really cared about this person (and not just your own feelings), you'd give him some space and let him think without being smothered with emotions.

If you want to date a Virgo . . at least try to understand him. The only your accomplishing is making him withdraw away from you because you're not even trying to understand him.

Another failed Virgo relationship and like most others . . it's not the Virgo's fault.

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@arieswoman
20 YearsAries

ALV: "I've had to learn patience, and it's not a vurtue..its fricking DEATH to an ARIES! lol."

lol...Sooooo true. Not just death. Slow death...slow painful, screaming at the top of your lungs silent death.