Really annoyed with Virgo man

I’m a Libra woman 32 years old. Dating is getting really annoying. Started talking to this dude online (virgo/35) almost three weeks ago. Had our second date yesterday. Now we’ve sexted here and there, lightly. But we both agreed hopefully it’ll happen down the line. We’re both looking for a partner and best friend. He came back to my place after brunch. I figured some coffee and football would be nice since he was engaged with the game during brunch. We go down to basement to smoke a cig. Start making out. It gets kinda heavy. He asks for a BJ. I say no. He leaves. He says he’s too horny now and has to go do something about it. He doesn’t text me when he gets home as agreed upon. I text him 2 hours later “is everything ok?” “Yea sorry just on the phone with car insurance” “ok are we good?” “Yea but idk if I want just sex or not” “well I don’t I’m looking for more than that” “me too let’s just roll with the punches” “hmu when you wanna see me again or whenever” and then he leaves me on read. Not only does he leave me on read, but he actually literally just before reading that text, turned his read receipts on, and then left me on read. I’m so sick of this childish BS

Turning receipts on is petty lmao. If he's thinking he doesn't know what he wants, it's probably safer to assume he wants sex. If he wants more than that or to still get the buns from you, he'll at least put more effort in lawl

Posted by Solo
Turning receipts on is petty lmao. If he's thinking he doesn't know what he wants, it's probably safer to assume he wants sex. If he wants more than that or to still get the buns from you, he'll at least put more effort in lawl

Right?! Like excuse the fuck outta me for not wanting to give a BJ to someone I’ve met twice in my freaking basement. If he ever texts me again, best believe I’m doing the same exact thing

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Turning receipts on is petty lmao. If he's thinking he doesn't know what he wants, it's probably safer to assume he wants sex. If he wants more than that or to still get the buns from you, he'll at least put more effort in lawl

Right?! Like excuse the fuck outta me for not wanting to give a BJ to someone I’ve met twice in my freaking basement. If he ever texts me again, best believe I’m doing the same exact thing

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You're excused, but you know.. next time.. you could do it on the first meeting.

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Turning receipts on is petty lmao. If he's thinking he doesn't know what he wants, it's probably safer to assume he wants sex. If he wants more than that or to still get the buns from you, he'll at least put more effort in lawl

Right?! Like excuse the fuck outta me for not wanting to give a BJ to someone I’ve met twice in my freaking basement. If he ever texts me again, best believe I’m doing the same exact thing
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You're excused, but you know.. next time.. you could do it on the first meeting.

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Nah lol I’ve done that before, but it’s only when that’s the relationship that’s agreed upon before hand. I was actually excited with this one to be more than that

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Turning receipts on is petty lmao. If he's thinking he doesn't know what he wants, it's probably safer to assume he wants sex. If he wants more than that or to still get the buns from you, he'll at least put more effort in lawl

Right?! Like excuse the fuck outta me for not wanting to give a BJ to someone I’ve met twice in my freaking basement. If he ever texts me again, best believe I’m doing the same exact thing
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You're excused, but you know.. next time.. you could do it on the first meeting.

Nah lol I’ve done that before, but it’s only when that’s the relationship that’s agreed upon before hand. I was actually excited with this one to be more than that

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I'm just messing with you. I would advise not playing games back as it's likely going to make things worse. Let it breathe and let him come to his conclusions then move offa that? Don't expend any effort

Posted by Solo
Turning receipts on is petty lmao. If he's thinking he doesn't know what he wants, it's probably safer to assume he wants sex. If he wants more than that or to still get the buns from you, he'll at least put more effort in lawl

It’s almost more funny because I literally did that to someone two days prior. This dude I never care to talk to again texted me about a month ago and when I read his text my first thought was “damn I should have turned my read receipts on..I will if he texts me again” and I got the glorious opportunity to a few days ago. I know exactly what it means but didn’t think I did anything to deserve it 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

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Turning receipts on is petty lmao. If he's thinking he doesn't know what he wants, it's probably safer to assume he wants sex. If he wants more than that or to still get the buns from you, he'll at least put more effort in lawl

Right?! Like excuse the fuck outta me for not wanting to give a BJ to someone I’ve met twice in my freaking basement. If he ever texts me again, best believe I’m doing the same exact thing
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You're excused, but you know.. next time.. you could do it on the first meeting.

Nah lol I’ve done that before, but it’s only when that’s the relationship that’s agreed upon before hand. I was actually excited with this one to be more than that

I'm just messing with you. I would advise not playing games back as it's likely going to make things worse. Let it breathe and let him come to his conclusions then move offa that? Don't expend any effort

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Yea that’s probably best. Just let things unfold organically

Smooth

Posted by Saturn_Returns
While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

I had the same thought lingering. He stated he didn’t have condoms and I was kinda like “whatever I wasn’t expecting anything anyway” then asked for BJ which to me was def not much better

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While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

I had the same thought lingering. He stated he didn’t have condoms and I was kinda like “whatever I wasn’t expecting anything anyway” then asked for BJ which to me was def not much better

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Would you have preferred if he had asked to eat your coochie? Genuine question

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While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

I had the same thought lingering. He stated he didn’t have condoms and I was kinda like “whatever I wasn’t expecting anything anyway” then asked for BJ which to me was def not much better

Would you have preferred if he had asked to eat your coochie? Genuine question

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No. He had some boob action going on too that I wasn’t exactly comfortable with. In all honesty, I would have preferred him to hold my hand before anything. Maybe make out session on the third date

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While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

I had the same thought lingering. He stated he didn’t have condoms and I was kinda like “whatever I wasn’t expecting anything anyway” then asked for BJ which to me was def not much better

Would you have preferred if he had asked to eat your coochie? Genuine question

No. He had some boob action going on too that I wasn’t exactly comfortable with. In all honesty, I would have preferred him to hold my hand before anything. Maybe make out session on the third date

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Holding hands ♥ that shit is so sweet.

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While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

I had the same thought lingering. He stated he didn’t have condoms and I was kinda like “whatever I wasn’t expecting anything anyway” then asked for BJ which to me was def not much better

Would you have preferred if he had asked to eat your coochie? Genuine question

No. He had some boob action going on too that I wasn’t exactly comfortable with. In all honesty, I would have preferred him to hold my hand before anything. Maybe make out session on the third date
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Holding hands ♥ that shit is so sweet.

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All I’ve been wishing for but here I am left on read because I refused a BJ

Posted by IceStorm
Ewww, no.

This man is about one thing and one thing only. Lol his motives are so transparent. I would be all the way turned off and wouldn’t care if I never heard from him again. It certainly would NOT be your loss 🥴

35 year old man-child just wants to get his dick wet, then throws a temper tantrum when he’s rejected. Then pulls a manipulative tactic to try to get you to chase after him like “are we ok?” Stop checking for him. See him for what he is and consider this a clear sign of what a relationship with this man would be like.

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Thank you! I’m def getting there but it still hurts. I’m not hurt by him exactly, but more so the fact my search isn’t over

Posted by Kachi
When you met him online, what was the intention of both parties?

“Best friend and partner” and we both have “long term relationship” in our profiles

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Ewww, no.
This man is about one thing and one thing only. Lol his motives are so transparent. I would be all the way turned off and wouldn’t care if I never heard from him again. It certainly would NOT be your loss 🥴
35 year old man-child just wants to get his dick wet, then throws a temper tantrum when he’s rejected. Then pulls a manipulative tactic to try to get you to chase after him like “are we ok?” Stop checking for him. See him for what he is and consider this a clear sign of what a relationship with this man would be like.
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Thank you! I’m def getting there but it still hurts. I’m not hurt by him exactly, but more so the fact my search isn’t over
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I hear you.. the dating world sucks right now but let me tell you, it’s better to be alone than to be in an unhealthy “relationship” or situationship just for the sake of having someone.

I mean if you think about it honestly, he does not exactly sound like boyfriend of the year. This is how he handles conflict in the beginning? He did you a favor by showing his true colors this early in the game before you’ve slept with him. Be grateful that you haven’t wasted too much time or energy on this douche canoe.

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Thank you for this clarity!

Posted by Saturn_Returns
While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

He was just being appropriate for the setting, blowjobs go good with basement's and cigarettes. He's a Virgo he understands the importance of aesthetics.

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Posted by Saturn_Returns
While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

I had the same thought lingering. He stated he didn’t have condoms and I was kinda like “whatever I wasn’t expecting anything anyway” then asked for BJ which to me was def not much better

Would you have preferred if he had asked to eat your coochie? Genuine question

No. He had some boob action going on too that I wasn’t exactly comfortable with. In all honesty, I would have preferred him to hold my hand before anything. Maybe make out session on the third date
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Holding hands ♥ that shit is so sweet.

All I’ve been wishing for but here I am left on read because I refused a BJ

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Both men and women's problems suck when it comes to dating and shit. Rough out here. Hate it for all of us.

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Posted by Saturn_Returns
While I don't know what women think about this, IMHO, whenever a man wishes to initiate sexual intimacy via (just) a blowjob, that's a red flag right there.

I had the same thought lingering. He stated he didn’t have condoms and I was kinda like “whatever I wasn’t expecting anything anyway” then asked for BJ which to me was def not much better

Would you have preferred if he had asked to eat your coochie? Genuine question

No. He had some boob action going on too that I wasn’t exactly comfortable with. In all honesty, I would have preferred him to hold my hand before anything. Maybe make out session on the third date
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Holding hands ♥ that shit is so sweet.

All I’ve been wishing for but here I am left on read because I refused a BJ

Both men and women's problems suck when it comes to dating and shit. Rough out here. Hate it for all of us.

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May we all know exactly what we deserve, and refuse to settle for less 💞✨

So you gonna suck his dick or what?

He would have never heard from me again once he left that basement. He was never interested in more than a blow job. C'mon Libra.

Posted by DonnaLibra
He would have never heard from me again once he left that basement. He was never interested in more than a blow job. C'mon Libra.

I’m learning.

Lol is this fake? He got pissed that you didn't give him a bj on the second date and afterwards u were worried about his feelings and still wanted to see him 😭. What kinda Libra are you. If you are actually a Libra you're not one of color are you? or you're a september one. Libra women have tons of self respect so I'm thinking this is probably fake

But for any actual real Libra women out there Virgo IS NOT the one for a Libra woman so don't waste your time. Unless you have some other planets that help. But I wouldn't recommend it either way.

Virgos will do nothing but piss off or annoy Libras in the end. You'll end up constantly cussing him out or worst. I know how Libra women get when those scales get too tipped they get violent. Libra women are genuine assertive and direct and love the same in their partners. Virgos are into BS-ing and lying. Especially to cover themselves up. Virgos are also super sensitive and scared to own up or admit they're wrong, which will be a good amount of times and you'll find all of that stuff weak. Your directness and telling it like it is will hurt his feelings.

Not to mention libra woman's high sex drive won't be satisfied. You see what happened with Cyn Santana and Joe Budden 😭 they're a perfect example of how most virgo male libra female romantic relationships will end up. The most you'll get out of that relationship is long deep talks but a libra woman can get that with her girlfriends. He's the total opposite of Libra woman's core and everything she's about. Run while you can. You'll waste days weeks or years out of your life.

I feel like even though a lot of Virgo men are attracted to libra women they should be no more than friends with them. September virgo male does not have what it takes to keep or satisfy a Libra woman. Maybe a Leo August virgo would be better when it comes to romance and strength because of their Leo side but the dishonesty and BS-ing will still be there. Something that will totally turn libra woman off. She won't put up with it and despises it. Keep virgos as friends only. And that's only when and if they don't mess up and do something shady and snakelike

He got pissed that you didn't give him a b lowjob on the second date and afterwards u were worried about his feelings and still wanted to see him 😭. What kinda Libra are you. If you are actually a libra you must either be a September one or certain ones who I wont say so this won't get deleted who aren't the usuals. Libra women have tons of self respect so I'm thinking this is probably fake

Posted by DoublesTrips
He got pissed that you didn't give him a b lowjob on the second date and afterwards u were worried about his feelings and still wanted to see him 😭. What kinda Libra are you. If you are actually a libra you must either be a September one or certain ones who I wont say so this won't get deleted who aren't the usuals. Libra women have tons of self respect so I'm thinking this is probably fake

No need to question what brings you here 🤣

Posted by DoublesTrips
But for any actual real Libra women out there Virgo IS NOT the one for a Libra woman so don't waste your time. Unless you have some other planets that help. But I wouldn't recommend it either way.

Virgos will do nothing but piss off or annoy Libras in the end. You'll end up constantly cussing him out or worst. I know how Libra women get when those scales get too tipped they get violent. Libra women are genuine assertive and direct and love the same in their partners. Virgos are into BS-ing and lying. Especially to cover themselves up. Virgos are also super sensitive and scared to own up or admit they're wrong, which will be a good amount of times and you'll find all of that stuff weak. Your directness and telling it like it is will hurt his feelings.

Not to mention libra woman's high sex drive won't be satisfied. You see what happened with Cyn Santana and Joe Budden 😭 they're a perfect example of how most virgo male libra female romantic relationships will end up. The most you'll get out of that relationship is long deep talks but a libra woman can get that with her girlfriends. He's the total opposite of Libra woman's core and everything she's about. Run while you can. You'll waste days weeks or years out of your life.

I feel like even though a lot of Virgo men are attracted to libra women they should be no more than friends with them. September virgo male does not have what it takes to keep or satisfy a Libra woman. Maybe a Leo August virgo would be better when it comes to romance and strength because of their Leo side but the dishonesty and BS-ing will still be there. Something that will totally turn libra woman off. She won't put up with it and despises it. Keep virgos as friends only. And that's only when and if they don't mess up and do something shady and snakelike

I’m seeing an Aquarius now instead and it’s going swimmingly 😊 but yea I know a couple libra woman virgo man. The virgo has cheated on the libra since the very beginning of their relationship, and has continued to after their engagement. I can’t believe the libra has put up with it as long as she has, she does know, but I almost think she has ulterior motives in staying. Probably money and owning his balls

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He got pissed that you didn't give him a b lowjob on the second date and afterwards u were worried about his feelings and still wanted to see him 😭. What kinda Libra are you. If you are actually a libra you must either be a September one or certain ones who I wont say so this won't get deleted who aren't the usuals. Libra women have tons of self respect so I'm thinking this is probably fake

No need to question what brings you here 🤣

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I didn’t realize you were the same person 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but for real leave me alone. Don’t be rude. I was 7 months sober at the time, I’m learning the whole self respect thing and I def wouldn’t have seen him again

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He got pissed that you didn't give him a b lowjob on the second date and afterwards u were worried about his feelings and still wanted to see him 😭. What kinda Libra are you. If you are actually a libra you must either be a September one or certain ones who I wont say so this won't get deleted who aren't the usuals. Libra women have tons of self respect so I'm thinking this is probably fake

No need to question what brings you here 🤣

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I didn’t realize you were the same person 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but for real leave me alone. Don’t be rude. I was 7 months sober at the time, I’m learning the whole self respect thing and I def wouldn’t have seen him again

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Relax my last comment didn't show up on screen so I had to write it again. I see now it was already posted.

However you wanna take it what I said still stands. The average Libra woman is just born like that 😩 they don't have to learn self respect

Adult Dating With Very Stupid People

Wow why even entertain this!

The Virgo I was with had a Libra Venus. I was not sexually fulfilled at all but he treated good until he cheated on me with the Aries he ended up marrying. I always wondered about their sex life and if she was fulfilled. I hope so. They are still married, but again he does makes a ton of money. He is a September Virgo.

I hope you dumped him...he showed you what he wants and who he is. 2nd date bj...gtfoh 🙄