VirgoVixxxen
@VirgoVixxxen
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Posted by CLCNY30
Lol, now I want you to meet a Pisces guy 😆
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ROTFL!!! FOH!!! Not happening!! Hahahaha, the fish I like are fried, baked, or sushi. 😉

Speaking of Pisces, I can't stand that Rihanna....UUUGGGHHHH...she makes me sick. I think Chris Brown (Taurus) should stay far, far away from her manipulative, vindictive butt. Real talk. If he gets back with her, I think he could kiss his career goodbye. I'm gonna say a prayer for him.
That is all.


Posted by bluesky
I read once: Only Virgo and Pisces could understand each other and that's why they go along...


Posted by CLCNY30
In all honesty, Pisces and Virgo CAN work, if both can step outside of themselves enough not to be so freakin' stereotypical.
The two signs compliment each other, but only when done properly.
They're that science experiment where you have to measure accurately--not a smidge over or under, in order to get a great effect. Anything over or under will produce the usual ground up glass in the food effect, and one partner will end up killing the other.
It's a rare match, in my honest opinion--but I can see how it could work IF both are willing to leave all pretenses behind, not whine/btch/moan/bellyache at each other, try to change the other, and really enjoy what the other person brings to the table while still maintaining their own identity.
I call it the Elusive Unicorn.

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Onix,
I just got this great book today--Astroanalysis (Virgo) and I love it!
Your many inquiries have just given me a really good excuse to share a few of my favorite passages 🙂 and maybe this might give you better insight but remember, this is just a general description and doesn't necessarily apply to all Virgo males (don't forget about all of the other placements in a chart) as a whole so take what applies, and throw the rest away.

Posted by Nightstar
thought virguys were super anal and moody...

Posted by onix
but a li'l more warmth from Virgo person would make us feel a lot more comfortable!

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
The Virgo Man
"He'll either fascinate you or bore you to death.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
The Virgo Man
This man loves mostly with his mind.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Passion and exquisite pain of sensuous longing is something he very seldom experiences. He doesn't know the agony and hopelessness of surrender to unrequited love or the insane abandonment of the lover who gives up all just to get his woman.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
His blood doesn't race, and his heart doesn't pound. Or he is adept at hiding such intensity!click to expand

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
He just doesn't know how to deal with passion.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
He can't take and he can't give-he's emotionally straightjacketed. He's too selfish to offer himself and too cautious to demand the surrender of another. Frankly, he wouldn't know what to do with a woman who gave him her soul as well as her body.click to expand

comfortable with that, we —grant?? them access to deeper levels of ourselves. This is done slowly, with MUCH deliberation, and over a period of time so that once we consent to this, we're far more at ease than we were at the beginning. Once we feel betrayed or taken for granted after this point, on goes the straitjacket again (in fact, CLANG goes the vault door!) . . . either until the issue has been reconciled or permanently, depending on the situation.
—He's too selfish to offer himself and too cautious to demand the surrender of another.?? Lemme tell ya right now if he's too selfish to offer himself, you've got yourself a bum deal and you need to let go of him QUICK! (If you think he's worth the effort, you may attempt to help him open up, as he may simply be in Reserved Mode. If multiple attempts at this have failed, however, pitch him back in the water.)
And lemme tell ya something else, we DEMAND your surrender unequivocally! 😄 We??ll wind up giving you our whole heart if we deem you worthy, so you better be prepared to give yours, b/c it's for sure we??ll settle for nothing less!!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
He is acutely embarrassed if a lover kisses or hugs him in front of his friends. He'll never speak to her again if she persists in such demonstrations. He reckons romance is something only two people share-and that they should express it in privacy.
Huh— I've never minded PDA's and have instigated many myself, as long as they're discreet and "tasteful" (lol, pardon the pun). No french-kissing in front of others, but embraces, pats, and socially-acceptable kisses are right up my alley!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
He mightn't say much if you've offended him, but you'll certainly feel the temperature rapidly dropping to zero minus five.click to expand
LOL! (True!)
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by onix
but a li'l more warmth from Virgo person would make us feel a lot more comfortable!
Have you outright expressed this? If a (mature, emotionally-evolved) Virgo knows that his withholding emotion is putting you in deficit, this will likely leave him feeling "insufficient"--which we hate, and for his need to be "up to par" alone, he's likely to want to satisfy the deficit.click to expand

Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by onix
but a li'l more warmth from Virgo person would make us feel a lot more comfortable!
Have you outright expressed this? If a (mature, emotionally-evolved) Virgo knows that his withholding emotion is putting you in deficit, this will likely leave him feeling "insufficient"--which we hate, and for his need to be "up to par" alone, he's likely to want to satisfy the deficit.click to expand
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by onix
but a li'l more warmth from Virgo person would make us feel a lot more comfortable!
Have you outright expressed this? If a (mature, emotionally-evolved) Virgo knows that his withholding emotion is putting you in deficit, this will likely leave him feeling "insufficient"--which we hate, and for his need to be "up to par" alone, he's likely to want to satisfy the deficit.click to expand
Posted by RealTalkPosted by bluesky
I read once: Only Virgo and Pisces could understand each other and that's why they go along...
LMAO!!! Where? When? On November 43rd at 316 Dreamland Avenue? Hahahahaha, yeah ok.click to expand


Posted by capbabyPosted by **StringsAttached**
Have you outright expressed this? If a (mature, emotionally-evolved) Virgo . . . he's likely to want to satisfy the deficit.
-agree!
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by **StringsAttached**
Have you outright expressed this? If a (mature, emotionally-evolved) Virgo . . . he's likely to want to satisfy the deficit.
Wow...this is deep. I agree.click to expand

Posted by MoonMan
If we're scoring the

Posted by onix
I have often given him hints about this .... I thought I might sound like am accusing him if I say it directly ... now I think I should tell him this in a friendly way ...

Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by onix
I have often given him hints about this .... I thought I might sound like am accusing him if I say it directly ... now I think I should tell him this in a friendly way ...
We respond well to words like: "I appreciate [it when you . . . ] . . . It makes me feel . . . " That way, we feel appreciated and not reproved, and we can identify with the fact that you you feel good (and that we're making you feel good) and that we have something in our person that you need/want. So if he has opened up in the past--even a wee bit--point that out [*see below] and let him know how good it made you feel and how much you appreciate it and love that aspect about him. Then continue to open up more yourself and, if he's got any sense, he'll follow along. It's a matter of luring the cat out of the box with the string. 😉
*Not preferable: "I appreciated it when you opened up the other day and shared your innermost feelings with me and let me see who's really in there. It made me feel closer to you and like I wanted to see even more."
*Preferable: "I appreciated it when you shared with me the other day about how [losing that job opportunity affected you, etc.]. It felt nice just to know how you were feeling; I really enjoy getting to know you better/seeing that side of you."
CAUTIOUS VIRGO WILL APPRECIATE YOUR EFFORT TO REVEAL MORE OF YOURSELF FIRST! It will help to lay a foundation of security so he won't feel so jeopardized for divulging his secret self if you haven't already. We fear being taken advantage of after exposing our "treasury," and your willingness to do so first (or at least to take the torch after we've walked that planked part of the way) will help comfort our mind that you're in it for love's sake and not to get what you can from us and hike outta there. This may not seem fair, but it's incredibly calming to us (and aphrodisiacal, lol). Plus, I hear most men prefer this order anyway, being more naturally prone to closure than disclosure.
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Posted by onixPosted by **StringsAttached**Posted by onix
I have often given him hints about this .... I thought I might sound like am accusing him if I say it directly ... now I think I should tell him this in a friendly way ...
We respond well to words like: "I appreciate [it when you . . . ] . . . It makes me feel . . . " That way, we feel appreciated and not reproved, and we can identify with the fact that you you feel good (and that we're making you feel good) and that we have something in our person that you need/want. So if he has opened up in the past--even a wee bit--point that out [*see below] and let him know how good it made you feel and how much you appreciate it and love that aspect about him. Then continue to open up more yourself and, if he's got any sense, he'll follow along. It's a matter of luring the cat out of the box with the string. 😉
*Not preferable: "I appreciated it when you opened up the other day and shared your innermost feelings with me and let me see who's really in there. It made me feel closer to you and like I wanted to see even more."
*Preferable: "I appreciated it when you shared with me the other day about how [losing that job opportunity affected you, etc.]. It felt nice just to know how you were feeling; I really enjoy getting to know you better/seeing that side of you."
CAUTIOUS VIRGO WILL APPRECIATE YOUR EFFORT TO REVEAL MORE OF YOURSELF FIRST! It will help to lay a foundation of security so he won't feel so jeopardized for divulging his secret self if you haven't already. We fear being taken advantage of after exposing our "treasury," and your willingness to do so first (or at least to take the torch after we've walked that planked part of the way) will help comfort our mind that you're in it for love's sake and not to get what you can from us and hike outta there. This may not seem fair, but it's incredibly calming to us (and aphrodisiacal, lol). Plus, I hear most men prefer this order anyway, being more naturally prone to closure than disclosure.
Thanks a lot dear for sharing this much needed guidance about approaching him properly ... am gonna try it 🙂click to expand

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