Long story short our whole relationship was a lie , our entire relationship he's been cheating. We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup. I called to confront him he got mad and hung up on me. Do virgo players come back . I need to have the last say so... And yeah I don't care it's my ego .. P angel please don't comment on this post you're a bug
So I got played

What a pos. Go get laid a lot and make sure he figures it out.

You can't really be this fucking dense.
You withhold oral sex from the guy, while he's telling you that he can no longer maintain a relationship with you without it.
You continue to withhold it saying that you feel something isn't right in the relationship .. but, you fuck him.
Keeping in mind here ... that you opened your legs and let him eat you.
If you were really concerned about the condition of the relationship, then your actions would have supported it. Instead, your still letting him have intercourse with you, and eat you.
so, then he holds true to his words, and leaves you for someone else.
You're shocked that he leaves you which only proves how psychotic you must really be because you even made a thread here to tell everyone that he will leave if you don't do it. so, why you feign being shocked can only be because you're deluded.
So, then you want to run over to his house to confront him, you say you want an apology.
an apology for what, exactly? for leaving you?
Are you a total moron, or just one in this case.
He doesn't owe you anything ... he told you straight up that he can no longer take a relationship with you under these terms ..... and you're so far out there in la-la-land that you think that means he loves you, and thinks about you 24/7 and is constantly thinking of ways to make you happy.
so, now here you are moaning about it still?
still?
for you to make this thread it means you really really want this man. You even have people in here counselling you that it's going to be ok because he'll come back.
Like seriously ... there are this many stupid people? You are actually coaching her on getting the satisfaction of revenge?

Posted by Virgonique29
Long story short our whole relationship was a lie , our entire relationship he's been cheating. We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup. I called to confront him he got mad and hung up on me. Do virgo players come back . I need to have the last say so... And yeah I don't care it's my ego .. P angel please don't comment on this post you're a bug
You fucked this up.
You let him give you sexual affection, while refusing to reciprocate.
You drove him into another woman's arms.
The lie is you. You played him every time you let him eat you, because you had no intentions of responding back to him with like affection.
You deserve this, you earned it ..... now, instead of whining and acting lke a victim .. put your big girl pants on and step up to the plate to admit that you fucked this up with being such a bitch.


Posted by Virgonique29How can someone cheat on you if you are no longer together? Explain to me how that works.
We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup.
Posted by Vixen2Posted by zFlavorI was with a Virgo 14 years...Posted by Vixen2Virgo the player does not dwell on errors of past played women. Even if he knows your happy he's still a highway chile and sees you as a rolling stone. The virgo playa is never 'on that killing floor'.
They will come back...but it's not immediate. You'll be moved on by then. The best way for revenge is to move on be happy...they will constantly dwell on their error and you will be the one who got away.
Seriously...you getting the last word in? That's laughable, that won't faze him in the least.
Seeing you happy and your life progressed without him, is crushing to them. The can be megalomaniacs for sure..
There is maybe only 3 women in his whole lifetime that want get get played. However that does not say I'm a playa guy. These woman are the ones that would make him cry on the inside and no one person would ever know it. These are the ones a virgo may write about?
The women that get played are playas themselves indeed, as they front themselvs to virgos as that. It's the womans personality.
Your second sentence is rightly correct. Yes, your right about coming back but only if the woman lets it happen.
So many women come to the virgo forum wondering what happened...they tried to play the the virgo guy from the start and they got caught.
😉
He came back crying...still can't let go.
But I've way moved on...and forgiven him...
He can't forgive himself...
...it's been over for 9 years.
I don't think of myself as a player 🙂
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Well, there you go the virgo stereotypes☺
When you said something you find was bad about this virgo, they wont see it as bad...instead they turn it back to you & now you're the bad one☺

Posted by Virgonique29P-Angel is more of a spider than a bug.
Long story short our whole relationship was a lie , our entire relationship he's been cheating. We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup. I called to confront him he got mad and hung up on me. Do virgo players come back . I need to have the last say so... And yeah I don't care it's my ego .. P angel please don't comment on this post you're a bug
I say this because she keeps the pests around here under control.

Posted by Vixen2I thought you were a Princess?Posted by zFlavorI was with a Virgo 14 years...Posted by Vixen2Virgo the player does not dwell on errors of past played women. Even if he knows your happy he's still a highway chile and sees you as a rolling stone. The virgo playa is never 'on that killing floor'.
They will come back...but it's not immediate. You'll be moved on by then. The best way for revenge is to move on be happy...they will constantly dwell on their error and you will be the one who got away.
Seriously...you getting the last word in? That's laughable, that won't faze him in the least.
Seeing you happy and your life progressed without him, is crushing to them. The can be megalomaniacs for sure..
There is maybe only 3 women in his whole lifetime that want get get played. However that does not say I'm a playa guy. These woman are the ones that would make him cry on the inside and no one person would ever know it. These are the ones a virgo may write about?
The women that get played are playas themselves indeed, as they front themselvs to virgos as that. It's the womans personality.
Your second sentence is rightly correct. Yes, your right about coming back but only if the woman lets it happen.
So many women come to the virgo forum wondering what happened...they tried to play the the virgo guy from the start and they got caught.
😉
He came back crying...still can't let go.
But I've way moved on...and forgiven him...
He can't forgive himself...
...it's been over for 9 years.
I don't think of myself as a player 🙂
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Posted by SensitiveBluesPosted by Virgonique29aren't you glad now you didnt' suck his dick, im so glad i never helped my EX financially
Long story short our whole relationship was a lie , our entire relationship he's been cheating. We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup. I called to confront him he got mad and hung up on me. Do virgo players come back . I need to have the last say so... And yeah I don't care it's my ego .. P angel please don't comment on this post you're a bug
that was the only saving grace. That would have hurt me immensely, different strokes for different folks
can't separate me from my money. Nope. Crab rule #1click to expand

Posted by P-AngelWas just about to ask if this was the oral sex girl xD
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-man-and-oral-sex-situation-6504777/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-man-oral-sex-update-i-forgot-my-username-login-info-btw-6560812/
Posted by P-AngelI told you not to comment, if can read he never stopped fucking other bitches
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-man-and-oral-sex-situation-6504777/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-man-oral-sex-update-i-forgot-my-username-login-info-btw-6560812/

Posted by Virgonique29Your ego is already shot to hell, pissed on, beat and battered if you are seriously considering taking his ass back...let alone possibly pandering him to WIN him back JUST to play him.
Long story short our whole relationship was a lie , our entire relationship he's been cheating. We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup. I called to confront him he got mad and hung up on me. Do virgo players come back . I need to have the last say so... And yeah I don't care it's my ego .. P angel please don't comment on this post you're a bug
Girl, don't you have a life? Respect? A sense of maturity? Go do some adulting and fuck him.

Posted by LadyNeptuneThey broke up. She discovered he cheated on her in their relationship AFTER she had already been broken up with him.Posted by Virgonique29How can someone cheat on you if you are no longer together? Explain to me how that works.
We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup.click to expand
Get it?

Hid my post cause I realized I had the OP's story confused with another posters story.

Posted by zFlavorThis is the dumbest shit I have ever read. Virgo males can play games just out of their sheer need to overthink, over analyze and be stuck in constant 'paralysis-analysis.'Posted by Vixen2Virgo the player does not dwell on errors of past played women. Even if he knows your happy he's still a highway chile and sees you as a rolling stone. The virgo playa is never 'on that killing floor'.
They will come back...but it's not immediate. You'll be moved on by then. The best way for revenge is to move on be happy...they will constantly dwell on their error and you will be the one who got away.
Seriously...you getting the last word in? That's laughable, that won't faze him in the least.
Seeing you happy and your life progressed without him, is crushing to them. The can be megalomaniacs for sure..
There is maybe only 3 women in his whole lifetime that want get get played. However that does not say I'm a playa guy. These woman are the ones that would make him cry on the inside and no one person would ever know it. These are the ones a virgo may write about?
The women that get played are playas themselves indeed, as they front themselvs to virgos as that. It's the womans personality.
Your second sentence is rightly correct. Yes, your right about coming back but only if the woman lets it happen.
So many women come to the virgo forum wondering what happened...they tried to play the the virgo guy from the start and they got caught.
😉
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You have way too much pride in your damn zodiac sign. For one it is a sign, there are PLENTY of Virgo players, not all of you all are going to be saints. Two you have no logical reason to assume the OP played any games or did anything to be cheated on.
Like what an asshole.

I've never been cheated on that I know of but my ex slept with someone on a break we were on. I can't tell you how disgusted I was with him. I could even look at him for the longest time. No one that does that to you should ever be blessed with your time or presence again. I know it's hard to just stop caring about someone but you need to understand that he never cared. People don't cheat on people they take serious.. especially multiple times.
Have some dignity and walk away. You would look so much stronger just leaving him in the dust like it never phased you.
Have some dignity and walk away. You would look so much stronger just leaving him in the dust like it never phased you.

Posted by zFlavorNo one is being a bitch but YOU, you have added insult to injury by insinuating that the OP did something to deserve the fucked up behavior and cheating of the ex.Posted by malloryorYou just like to b i t c h about things dont you? Now I'll be that a s s you claim I am... If it was the dumbest shit you ever read then why reply to the post? Psycho pisces....here she comes..Posted by zFlavorThis is the dumbest shit I have ever read. Virgo males can play games just out of their sheer need to overthink, over analyze and be stuck in constant 'paralysis-analysis.'Posted by Vixen2Virgo the player does not dwell on errors of past played women. Even if he knows your happy he's still a highway chile and sees you as a rolling stone. The virgo playa is never 'on that killing floor'.
They will come back...but it's not immediate. You'll be moved on by then. The best way for revenge is to move on be happy...they will constantly dwell on their error and you will be the one who got away.
Seriously...you getting the last word in? That's laughable, that won't faze him in the least.
Seeing you happy and your life progressed without him, is crushing to them. The can be megalomaniacs for sure..
There is maybe only 3 women in his whole lifetime that want get get played. However that does not say I'm a playa guy. These woman are the ones that would make him cry on the inside and no one person would ever know it. These are the ones a virgo may write about?
The women that get played are playas themselves indeed, as they front themselvs to virgos as that. It's the womans personality.
Your second sentence is rightly correct. Yes, your right about coming back but only if the woman lets it happen.
So many women come to the virgo forum wondering what happened...they tried to play the the virgo guy from the start and they got caught.
😉
You have way too much pride in your damn zodiac sign. For one it is a sign, there are PLENTY of Virgo players, not all of you all are going to be saints. Two you have no logical reason to assume the OP played any games or did anything to be cheated on.
Like what an asshole.
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But oh wait, you are a Virgo, you are so perfect, no fault can ever be done by you and fellow Virgos.
What bullshit. You are only proving my point. You are full of it and cant handle that you got called on it. Get the fuck out of here with your sweeping grand characterizations.

Posted by zFlavorI was at work. You're pretty pathetic for clocking my replies.
@malloryor its pretty bad it took you two and a half hours for you to think so hard about what you posted... troll much?

Posted by zFlavorI called you names yet you called me a bitch? See what I mean? You like to play the blame game. You did it to the OP? You did it to me.Posted by malloryorPosted by zFlavorI was at work. You're pretty pathetic for clocking my replies.
@malloryor its pretty bad it took you two and a half hours for you to think so hard about what you posted... troll much?
a women that runs around like you calling other people names like you do here on dxp will never get any respect from me. one just needs to see ya posts... especially your first quote back to me...wash your mouth out a bit with some soap...that should do the trick for a virgo.
you will get back what you put in...put that aries moon in your head mermaid..its hanging out.
night my lovely mermaid
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Stop trying to act like the victim, that will not get you respect on here my sweer Virgo.

Posted by Virgonique29Posted by P-AngelI told you not to comment, if can read he never stopped fucking other bitches
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-man-and-oral-sex-situation-6504777/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-man-oral-sex-update-i-forgot-my-username-login-info-btw-6560812/
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And here you are, giving him so much credit that you honor him with a whole thread to give him power.
And I told you that you're being a moron .. bcausse you are.
He is fucking other people .. but, here you are trying to make him a Prince. You even go over to his house, and call him, text him trying your damness to get him back.
What a sorry ass you are. You don't even know your worth.
You'll probably continue on like this for years, making thread after thread to try and convince other people that you're a victim ... when in reality, you're just a desperate and pathetic douchebag who hasn't a clue what is valueable.

What has really happened here .......
You attempted to manipulate him by using the withholding of a sexual favor that he wanted. In your puny mind, you thought you had one over on him, and that you could USE this as a tool to get him to do what you wanted.
It backfired, because you are too stupid to realize that it wasn't going to work ... so, now you're in here playing victim. I wouldn't be surprised if you made up this about him cheating on you, just so you could continue to be a douchebag.
But, if it is true ... still, here you are continuing to cry over milk that YOU spilled, and acting like someone else spilled it.
You think you're fooling people, and maybe some people are stupid enough to be fooled by you. Not me. Your game was obvious the first time you made a thread to talk about how you are withholding sexual favors for a certain outcome.
Grow some fucking integrity, already ..... and step away. But, I believe you won't. You will no doubt, continue to wallow in the milk that you spilled all over your fucking self because you don't have the honor nor dignity to even know what is in your best interest, much less do it.
You're not going to make it here. I'm going to trash you everytime I catch wind of you being here. Because pieces of shit get treated like pieces of shit.
Posted by P-Angel
What has really happened here .......
You attempted to manipulate him by using the withholding of a sexual favor that he wanted. In your puny mind, you thought you had one over on him, and that you could USE this as a tool to get him to do what you wanted.
It backfired, because you are too stupid to realize that it wasn't going to work ... so, now you're in here playing victim. I wouldn't be surprised if you made up this about him cheating on you, just so you could continue to be a douchebag.
But, if it is true ... still, here you are continuing to cry over milk that YOU spilled, and acting like someone else spilled it.
You think you're fooling people, and maybe some people are stupid enough to be fooled by you. Not me. Your game was obvious the first time you made a thread to talk about how you are withholding sexual favors for a certain outcome.
Grow some fucking integrity, already ..... and step away. But, I believe you won't. You will no doubt, continue to wallow in the milk that you spilled all over your fucking self because you don't have the honor nor dignity to even know what is in your best interest, much less do it.
You're not going to make it here. I'm going to trash you everytime I catch wind of you being here. Because pieces of shit get treated like pieces of shit.
I bet you're an old slut with ten cats , you make your cats lick your pussy don't you?

Posted by Virgonique29You don't need P Angel for this!
Long story short our whole relationship was a lie , our entire relationship he's been cheating. We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup. I called to confront him he got mad and hung up on me. Do virgo players come back . I need to have the last say so... And yeah I don't care it's my ego .. P angel please don't comment on this post you're a bug
You crap over your cheater man and
you want him back?
You give bad name to every woman!
It's called stupid woman!

Posted by P-AngelWow! It's the first time I agree with PA.
What has really happened here .......
You attempted to manipulate him by using the withholding of a sexual favor that he wanted. In your puny mind, you thought you had one over on him, and that you could USE this as a tool to get him to do what you wanted.
It backfired, because you are too stupid to realize that it wasn't going to work ... so, now you're in here playing victim. I wouldn't be surprised if you made up this about him cheating on you, just so you could continue to be a douchebag.
But, if it is true ... still, here you are continuing to cry over milk that YOU spilled, and acting like someone else spilled it.
You think you're fooling people, and maybe some people are stupid enough to be fooled by you. Not me. Your game was obvious the first time you made a thread to talk about how you are withholding sexual favors for a certain outcome.
Grow some fucking integrity, already ..... and step away. But, I believe you won't. You will no doubt, continue to wallow in the milk that you spilled all over your fucking self because you don't have the honor nor dignity to even know what is in your best interest, much less do it.
You're not going to make it here. I'm going to trash you everytime I catch wind of you being here. Because pieces of shit get treated like pieces of shit.
And what does it mater if he does have cats
For sex? How does it make you OP less stupid?

Posted by libraqueenPosted by LadyNeptuneLmao I thought I was reading that wrong, glad I wasn't the only one that caught itPosted by Virgonique29How can someone cheat on you if you are no longer together? Explain to me how that works.
We ended things , but I realized he was cheating after the breakup.click to expand
Are you serious? He cheated during dating.
She found out about it after break up...guh!
Posted by CancerGirl25
I am a cancer woman going through the same. My virgo ex seems to get disturbed when I ignore him. Cut him loose. Don't call or text. He will come back. And once he is back, the ball will be in your court. Accept him or ditch him.
Even if he was the one that left and got caught up?? How long did it take your guy to come around?

Posted by Virgonique29
Even if he was the one that left and got caught up?? How long did it take your guy to come around?
Here you are still stuck up his asshole, waiting and wanting him to come back.
And that's because you have no values, nor standards ... and present yourself like a piece of shit laying on the ground ready to be walked on.
since you are sitting there waiting for a cheater to come back to you .... it means you deserve what he does to you. You've earned it.
Since you're wanting him back .. it means you are in a constant state of earning disrespect.
You're worthless, according to your actions of pining for him.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Virgonique29
Even if he was the one that left and got caught up?? How long did it take your guy to come around?
Here you are still stuck up his asshole, waiting and wanting him to come back.
And that's because you have no values, nor standards ... and present yourself like a piece of shit laying on the ground ready to be walked on.
since you are sitting there waiting for a cheater to come back to you .... it means you deserve what he does to you. You've earned it.
Since you're wanting him back .. it means you are in a constant state of earning disrespect.
You're worthless, according to your actions of pining for him.
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Awww thank you for you deep and meaningful feed back .You failed to tell me when he'll be back though...
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