
TeddyBearMD
@TeddyBearMD
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Posted by TeddyBearMDFor someone who isn't romantically interested, your really fixated on who she surrounds herself with. I see you.
I really have no interest in her romantically
even though I'm not dating her or anything, I can't deal with the trail of thirsty male followers that revolve around her all the time.



Posted by P-AngelSo you don't believe that platonic friendship can exist between a male and female?
All males who are tagging behind females, in where the females are saying the men aren't being led on are indeed being led on and the women are liars.
Of course, the men are being led to believe they have a shot.
As for why women do it? ... because they're insecure, probably due to not getting enough attention from daddy. (if they even had a daddy)

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by P-AngelSo you don't believe that platonic friendship can exist between a male and female?
All males who are tagging behind females, in where the females are saying the men aren't being led on are indeed being led on and the women are liars.
Of course, the men are being led to believe they have a shot.
As for why women do it? ... because they're insecure, probably due to not getting enough attention from daddy. (if they even had a daddy)click to expand

Posted by TeddyBearMD
all of her "male friends" are over protective of her and up her ass 24/7. And that pretty much disrupts whatever friendship or anything could have come from our conversations because even though I'm not dating her or anything, I can't deal with the trail of thirsty male followers that revolve around her all the time.

Posted by P-AngelUnderstanding your original response more after this explanation. :-)Posted by TeddyBearMD
all of her "male friends" are over protective of her and up her ass 24/7. And that pretty much disrupts whatever friendship or anything could have come from our conversations because even though I'm not dating her or anything, I can't deal with the trail of thirsty male followers that revolve around her all the time.
This ^^^^^^^^^^ is what was said, not a platonic friend
I am addressing the topic, not some other idea that formed in my head.
If a man is defending her, and thirsty for her and up her ass 24/7 .. then he is being led on.
period
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Posted by P-AngelEstablishing whether its possible would clarify the topic question, no?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by P-AngelSo you don't believe that platonic friendship can exist between a male and female?
All males who are tagging behind females, in where the females are saying the men aren't being led on are indeed being led on and the women are liars.
Of course, the men are being led to believe they have a shot.
As for why women do it? ... because they're insecure, probably due to not getting enough attention from daddy. (if they even had a daddy)
that's not addressing the topic
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Posted by P-AngelSo what does that say about the op...that he is eager also to be her friend. Does this make him another thirst monster ready to fall in line at her heels??Posted by TeddyBearMD
all of her "male friends" are over protective of her and up her ass 24/7. And that pretty much disrupts whatever friendship or anything could have come from our conversations because even though I'm not dating her or anything, I can't deal with the trail of thirsty male followers that revolve around her all the time.
This ^^^^^^^^^^ is what was said, not a platonic friend
I am addressing the topic, not some other idea that formed in my head.
If a man is defending her, and thirsty for her and up her ass 24/7 .. then he is being led on.
period
click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by P-AngelEstablishing whether its possible would clarify the topic question, no?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by P-AngelSo you don't believe that platonic friendship can exist between a male and female?
All males who are tagging behind females, in where the females are saying the men aren't being led on are indeed being led on and the women are liars.
Of course, the men are being led to believe they have a shot.
As for why women do it? ... because they're insecure, probably due to not getting enough attention from daddy. (if they even had a daddy)
that's not addressing the topic
Op claims he's not interested romantically in the virgal, however it seems the opposite to me.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's called an observation.Posted by TeddyBearMDFor someone who isn't romantically interested, your really fixated on who she surrounds herself with. I see you.
I really have no interest in her romantically
even though I'm not dating her or anything, I can't deal with the trail of thirsty male followers that revolve around her all the time.click to expand



Posted by TeddyBearMDAn observation you felt urged to share with the whole of DXP. An observation you are asking for others opinions to understand.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's called an observation.Posted by TeddyBearMDFor someone who isn't romantically interested, your really fixated on who she surrounds herself with. I see you.
I really have no interest in her romantically
even though I'm not dating her or anything, I can't deal with the trail of thirsty male followers that revolve around her all the time.click to expand




Posted by TeddyBearMDAt what age did you realize you were an empath?
I feel sorry for her boyfriend too..




Posted by starwarsPosted by Secretdidn't know we were friends
I'm friends with @starwars but there is no romantic interest between each other.click to expand


Posted by starwarsI'm not in the mood now.Posted by Secretgeez... crabs.Posted by starwarsPosted by Secretdidn't know we were friends
I'm friends with @starwars but there is no romantic interest between each other.![]()
its ok u can sit with me
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i stopped having male friends when they dropped me as soon as they got into a serious relationship, than i knew they weren't really my friends but waiting in the shadows for my love.
fuk them to hell, i wasted lots of energy and emotion on my friends.
fuk them to hell


Posted by TeddyBearMDThe thing is, after I've "put them back in the friend zone" as you called it, I did just that. Because I respect them and I respect the relationship I'm in (if I'm in one at the time). What the guy wants to make out of that is his problem, but I know where I stand. I value the friendship the guy gives, nothing else. And honestly, being a Virgo, I'm very picky as well. So if the guy friend isn't my boyfriend before I DO get a boyfriend, there is a very small chance he'll be my boyfriend afterward.
See, here is the thing about these male-to-female "friendships". As most of you with "male friends" have already stated, the guys are only your "friend" because you put him back in the friend zone AFTER he tried to take it further.
This means that he is basically waiting for the day that you decide to "want more" or the day where you come crying to him about your relationship problems so he can take advantage of your vulnerability. So basically, because you friend zoned these guys who wanted more, they are basically on stand-by. They are backup dick for the female as soon as there is any trouble in her current relationship or there is a crack in that foundation, a guy is going to come seeping through it.
Now, as a man, what kinda pussified cuck is seriously going to put up with that shit? What kind of man is going to take her seriously if she has all these "guy friends" around her all the time. Imagine being with your girl and knowing that as soon as you guys have your first fight, she is going to go running to one of her "guy friends" to complain and tell him all about it. You know how many times i've seen this happen? with the end result being, the girl fucks her "male friend" for "comfort"...... TOO FUCKING MANY.
Now there are some exceptions to this. They guy friend could be gay as fuck, could be her bother, cousin, he could be the next door neighbor that she saw everyday and got sick of seeing, so she doesn't desire him. But outside of those SUPER RARE circumstances, don't trust it. That's all i'm saying. I know some of you disagree, but it's only because you're not being completely honest about the situation.

Posted by TeddyBearMD"That means he is basically waiting on the day that you want more"
See, here is the thing about these male-to-female "friendships". As most of you with "male friends" have already stated, the guys are only your "friend" because you put him back in the friend zone AFTER he tried to take it further.
This means that he is basically waiting for the day that you decide to "want more" or the day where you come crying to him about your relationship problems so he can take advantage of your vulnerability. So basically, because you friend zoned these guys who wanted more, they are basically on stand-by. They are backup dick for the female as soon as there is any trouble in her current relationship or there is a crack in that foundation, a guy is going to come seeping through it.
Now, as a man, what kinda pussified cuck is seriously going to put up with that shit? What kind of man is going to take her seriously if she has all these "guy friends" around her all the time. Imagine being with your girl and knowing that as soon as you guys have your first fight, she is going to go running to one of her "guy friends" to complain and tell him all about it. You know how many times i've seen this happen? with the end result being, the girl fucks her "male friend" for "comfort"...... TOO FUCKING MANY.
Now there are some exceptions to this. They guy friend could be gay as fuck, could be her bother, cousin, he could be the next door neighbor that she saw everyday and got sick of seeing, so she doesn't desire him. But outside of those SUPER RARE circumstances, don't trust it. That's all i'm saying. I know some of you disagree, but it's only because you're not being completely honest about the situation.

Posted by TeddyBearMD
See, here is the thing about these male-to-female "friendships".ย As most of you with "male friends" have already stated, the guys are only your "friend" because you put him back in the friend zone AFTER he tried to take it further.
This means that he is basically waiting for the day that you decide to "want more" or the day where you come crying to him about your relationship problems so he can take advantage of your vulnerability. So basically, because you friend zoned these guys who wanted more, they are basically on stand-by. They are backup dick for the female as soon as there is any trouble in her current relationship or there is a crack in that foundation, a guy is going to come seeping through it.
Valid point if it's a fresh friendship, the attraction remains. However, for long term friendships the attraction fades and by then they've been upgraded to the family zone-acceptance. Not only that, but you're talking about a 5+ years wait to have a shot at it.ย Are you willing to wait that long for a one nighter?
Because that is some dedication right there.
Now, as a man, what kinda pussified cuck is seriously going to put up with that shit? What kind of man is going to take her seriously if she has all these "guy friends" around her all the time. Imagine being with your girl and knowing that as soon as you guys have your first fight, she is going to go running to one of her "guy friends" to complain and tell him all about it. You know how many times i've seen this happen? with the end result being, the girl fucks her "male friend" for "comfort"......ย TOO FUCKING MANY.
No dude. That's what female friends are for. And this goes back to putting the whole boundary system in check. Relationship issues should be discussed amongst the two individuals involved. To bring anyone else into it, regardless of gender, will invite in more issues. It's you and your partner's opinions that are relevant not theirs.
Now there are some exceptions to this. They guy friend could be gay as fuck, could be her bother, cousin, he could be the next door neighbor that she saw everyday and got sick of seeing, so she doesn't desire him. But outside of those SUPER RARE circumstances, don't trust it. That's all i'm saying. I know some of you disagree, but it's only because you're not being completely honest about the situation.
Or you're justifying it by twisting it to your view because you may have some underlying trust issues with women.
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If you ever see a Virgo cooking dinner for a group of males she's screwing one of em, or one at a time...sometimes all at once
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In the few conversations I have had with her, it seems like all of her "male friends" are over protective of her and up her ass 24/7. And that pretty much disrupts whatever friendship or anything could have come from our conversations because even though I'm not dating her or anything, I can't deal with the trail of thirsty male followers that revolve around her all the time.
Maybe it's just me, but after some observation, it seems like most Virgo women are like this. They keep a collection of "guy friends" that really want to hookup with them, and let them compete for attention all day. I feel sorry for her boyfriend too, because as a cancer guy, I simply wouldn't be able to deal with so many fuck boys around all the time. I know that virgos are "innocent" and "naive"... but her ass knows better. She's just leading all these dumb ass guys along for the attention. I can't even blame her as much as the dumb ass men that fawn over her daily.
I'm just curious of the psychology behind this and figure some virgo women in here could shed light on this mentality.
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