Trying for a Mature relationship

Posted by shiinelikethemoon
Cancer && Virgo!
6 Months & 2 weeks

Congratulazione!

Me being Jealous and Virgo being Jealous!

What do you do, to make him jealous?

What I have learnt is to keep my kool and rather than yell and start argument and carry on with a argument its actually best just to express what I feel whether I think virgo is listening or not!

Great

It actually turns out that if im upfront virgo DOES listen! May not agree on the spot!

This is the key!!!
Just be upfront and explain things without being overly emotional.
Be straightforward and make your desires and needs clear to him.

( so know I ask him if there is anything? If there are things I can work on to imporove us? But he tells me everything is fine and if he doesn't like something he will let me know)

This is excellent.

All I want to do is make everything perfect for him!

How very sweet of you.

So the following day I made sure he went out with his friends to have some fun! While I just had a cosy one at home! I mean this was hard for me because of my possessive nature but if virgo can bite his tounge and not complain when I step out its about time I work on doing the same!

I believe this is a difficult thing for all couples.
Knowing that our companion can go out and have fun without us, is often disturbing and unearths insecurities within us.

what I have noticed is he goes out of his way to please me!
So im teaching myself to stay calm and understanding!

Because he believes you are worth it.

To also HAVE trust in him. Virgo has a Flirty Nature! Which drove me up the wall!

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Tell him how it makes you feel, ask him to put himself in your shoes and question whether he is able to deal with such things.

I believe Virgos and Cancers can make wonderful couples!

your title says Trying for a Mature relationship.
mature relationship with a 22 yr old virgo?

lol

Posted by Jason2213

Posted by Imagination
your title says Trying for a Mature relationship.
mature relationship with a 22 yr old virgo?

lol

I believe it can be done. Just unlikely.
Age and maturity aren't one in the same. They are compliments.

Just like how there is an incentive to buy socks when you have shoes. But of course you can always just wear shoes without socks or socks without shoes.

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I'm no Psychic, but the probability of this happening is likely high.
so here's how its gonna go:

this Cancer chick is gonna put her heart at her sleeves and give it to the virgo.
SHE will love him completely to the point of she will do anything for him.
then, the obvious reaction will take place... when love burns too much he will need to take some time to think/analize.
he will "disappear" as people say, and she will go crazy, she will worry, she will wonder what happened, she will get hurt.

and from that point on.. who knows whats gonna happen.

Imagination's description if fairly accurate. However, if the Virgo were one like Jason or many of the Virgo guys on this board, it would not be so.

Posted by Jason2213

Posted by Imagination

this Cancer chick is gonna put her heart at her sleeves and give it to the virgo.
SHE will love him completely to the point of she will do anything for him.
then, the obvious reaction will take place... when love burns too much he will need to take some time to think/analize.
he will "disappear" as people say, and she will go crazy, she will worry, she will wonder what happened, she will get hurt.

and from that point on.. who knows whats gonna happen.

That may be the trend. But we don't know the guy at all. Just his sign. Who are we to discourage her from what could make her happy for a long time?

Hmm. Is there any Virgo with a Cancer moon in here? I wonder what thats like?

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yea a new user on here said he had one i had asked a question about wats thats like lol

Posted by Jason2213

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

yea a new user on here said he had one i had asked a question about wats thats like lol

Did you get any input?

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nope nothing zip zero lmfao

Posted by Imagination

Posted by Jason2213

Posted by Imagination
your title says Trying for a Mature relationship.
mature relationship with a 22 yr old virgo?

lol

I believe it can be done. Just unlikely.
Age and maturity aren't one in the same. They are compliments.

Just like how there is an incentive to buy socks when you have shoes. But of course you can always just wear shoes without socks or socks without shoes.

I'm no Psychic, but the probability of this happening is likely high.
so here's how its gonna go:

this Cancer chick is gonna put her heart at her sleeves and give it to the virgo.
SHE will love him completely to the point of she will do anything for him.
then, the obvious reaction will take place... when love burns too much he will need to take some time to think/analize.
he will "disappear" as people say, and she will go crazy, she will worry, she will wonder what happened, she will get hurt.

and from that point on.. who knows whats gonna happen.

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That describes the actions of a cancer quite well 🙂 though common sense tells me with any man not matter what sign you must gently keep them on there toes. i have known my Virgo for 3 years! the first Year he was here then he was not! ( to this day he still won't explain that)..

Over the past year and a half (ALMOST 2 YEARS)
EVERYDAY he has been there!.. i like to hold off him before he gets the chance to hold of me! That way he gets his space. and has that head of his thinking so i haven't really experienced the whole where is my boyfriend it has been a week? It's more like Ok i haven't heard from him and it after lunch! That's as far as it goes really?

Posted by Imagination
your title says Trying for a Mature relationship.
mature relationship with a 22 yr old virgo?

lol

LOL