Virgi Guy update with Gem gal

Soooooooo some of you may know my story with my Virgo guy. As most Virgo relationships, they go hard at first, make you fall for them and then they disappear or become.. well, distant.

Anyway from the last conversation and the whole stack of games, I decided that I need to have some pride. My last message was saying that I miss him and too old to play games and that he knows how I feel, I miss him and that was it.. he didn’t reply so I left it at that.

That was a month ago.

The last 2 weeks I have seen him twice for work. Kept it all professional and I am so happy to say that the first time a I saw him, I had no feelings for him. Yesterday when I saw him again, I could say they were very minor, but I truly miss spending time with him. I texted him saying that it was great seeing him and thanked him for making time for me. Kept it all professional.

He then said that I looked as beautiful as the last time that I saw him, said it was great seeing me again and wrote work stuff, asked a question, I replied and said awww thank you, that’s sweet and answered the other work stuff. He then replied starting with “what can I say....I miss you” arghhhhhhh I wanted to say that I missed him too, then wanted to say that we should catch up, then thought to play it cool and I was so confused that I left it.

Should I just play it cool and leave it to wait until he messages me again? I am so proud of myself for not sending him 100msgs as I found it so hard before when I was infatuated by him.

I just feel like it’s been a month. Oh and when I saw him the first time last week, I was so professional and nice and didn’t bring anything up. He just said that he was sorry he didn’t call or msg me but he couldn’t because they were monitoring his texts. I said it was fine and he didn’t need to apologise but if he wanted to text me, he could’ve whatsapped me but either way it was fine..

Please fellow virgos or Virgo experienced people, what do I do—

@squishy_Marshmallow you are 100% right! I thought that he should earn it a little if he truly wants to be with me. Or even if he wants to spend time with me. He tried so much and was so sweet before he knew that I liked him and then it went south. I looked like a desporato always settling with how he treated me and I’ve never been like that before.

He messaged me last night so I guess it’s too late for a reply from me now but if he mentions something again, then I could play around and flirt with msgs. I wanted to ask how his day was today but no, I’ll leave it for him to make the first point of contact. I don’t want to become too clingy.

What is it with these Virgo’s? We weren’t even together for long. IN fact, not even a relationship because trying to see him even once a week was apparently a big ask. And just having him reply to my msgs was a big deal. EVen after all of that, I Stilll do miss him. They make you hooked!!

And you’re also right. Although I was extremely nice to him, I left his office early. Usually I would hang around in the hope that he wanted to chill afterward. So he may very well think I’m over him so that antenna is up lol

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
If you’re over him why are you texting?

I saw him for work yesterday and just texted saying it was good to see him and messaged for work related stuff. He messaged me last week about work and I replied back about work. We are mature and can still do the work thing whatever is happening with us. I really genuinely do miss him a lot. I would be happy to be friends instead of being together as I love his company. When I say I’m over him, it took me weeks of headfucking and weeks of thinking about him, playing everything in my head for wtf I did. So yes I’m over all of that but will I ever get over him completely even though it wasn’t serious? Probably not. Virgo’s have a way of hooking you into their spell.

@Sagicorn I’ve heard this. I still feel like if I didn’t message to say that it was great seeing him, I never would’ve heard from him.

Funny enough I started speaking to another Virgo within this month that I didn’t hear from I’m and that is purely speaking and flirting but nothing else. I Just love that when I msg him, he always replies so fast. And he will randomly message me if i don’t msg him for a few days. It’s a nice feeling to actually feel like you’re being missed.

It’s just lip service while he maintains the professional relationship with you. If he really missed you why didn’t he pick up the phone and call? He has your number.

Actions speak louder than words and all that.

So many women named Jessss that has graced the virgo forums with their presence ! Gems at that too!