Virgo brokeup and asked space

I am a Pisaries man, my sun is Pisces, moon in Leo, Gemini rising, mercury in Pisces, Venus in Pisces and Mars in Gemini. I was dating a Virgo woman for about 3 months.

Until, recently when she ended the relationship. She gave me reason that she was going through alot in her life and it would be a burden to continue this relationship.

This caught me by surprise as I thought we were slowly getting on to something. So I asked her to keep the communication but refused.

Now me being a Pisces, I kept on thinking I did something wrong to hurt her. Though she some how agreed to it but she was never clear on what I did wrong. I asked her if that's what she wanted and she replied with a one word 'yes'.

So I said good bye and wished the best for her and told her that I will never forget her. Now, one week later on I feel like I cannot do without her so I'm thinking of getting her back.

So I made rule to myself that if she does not contact me, I will initiate the communication after 2 or 3 three months. This is to help me with closure cause I have some more questions which were left unanswered.

How should I go about this? Should I just let her be or Should I follow my Pisces instincts and contact her? If so when would the best time to contact her?

By the way I don't even have her number cause I deleted it after we brokeup. So my only option of contacting her is through Facebook of which we unfriended each other after this breakup.

For more details about my situation please read the post "Virgo girl gone quite after love confession".

She did it first. I asked her to keep the communication but she insisted that I should distance myself from her. She said she didn't want to ghost me around.

Posted by sierra_
who unfriended who first?

maybe she thought things were going too fast and you'd expect a lot more from her when she's occupied dealing with a lot of other things.. that's why she broke it off

I believe this might be the cause. Because she mentioned that she could n't keep up with me. Because I was too clingy and demanding at times.

Well, I am going through this right now with a Virgo woman. Feel free to read my posts and see what I am dealing with at the moment.

I can help you with a few things for sure. First, she will not contact you (mine did but it was a shocker). I would be there often but keep it very light. As soon as you go deep, you may scare her off. I am a very impatient LEO and needed to slow my role with her a lot. She tamed me for sure. If you contact her and she is very put off, then you are done. Mine was very open to communication but I am in "friends" zone. Good Luck!

Posted by 4evercharm
Well, I am going through this right now with a Virgo woman. Feel free to read my posts and see what I am dealing with at the moment.

I can help you with a few things for sure. First, she will not contact you (mine did but it was a shocker). I would be there often but keep it very light. As soon as you go deep, you may scare her off. I am a very impatient LEO and needed to slow my role with her a lot. She tamed me for sure. If you contact her and she is very put off, then you are done. Mine was very open to communication but I am in "friends" zone. Good Luck!

I have read one of your posts. Your experience is kind of similar to mine. It was really helpful.

She would dissappear and reappear on different occasions. I would then use the tactic mentioned by ufo by just offering a presence and usually it would work. But this time she time she mentioned that she is leaving for good.

I think she was overthinking our relationship because we are also in a LDR. I am using the tactic mentioned now by ufo by offering a presence. I just hope she comes back.

Okay - here is an update from today.....

So this morning, I sent a short note of Good Morning and a picture of a nice breakfast in a restaurant with a view.

She replied, I want this breakfast in your bed. So, I replied with a breakfast tray and a man holding it.

She replied - Perfect.

I am not trying to give you false hope. All I am saying is as long as there is a response, I do think there is a chance.

Posted by 4evercharm
Okay - here is an update from today.....



So this morning, I sent a short note of Good Morning and a picture of a nice breakfast in a restaurant with a view.



She replied, I want this breakfast in your bed. So, I replied with a breakfast tray and a man holding it.



She replied - Perfect.



I am not trying to give you false hope. All I am saying is as long as there is a response, I do think there is a chance.

There is no response with my Virgo. Normally, it would take a week before she starts responding and things would get back to normal.

The thing is sometimes she would completely ignore me on purpose. She even mentioned this before we broke up. I don't know if she does it to test me. Cause she asked me If I don't get frustrated by this behavior.

Now my life is in a mess right now. I am trying to rebuild it now but I don't want her to forget me. I just want to keep her under my radar and hopefully try the relationship again.

Virgo men = the hermit of the zodiac

Not sure about the women?

Mine will respond every day. May not be a long text but I do get something back from her. My problem all along is I was expecting a HUGE response and got disappointed when it was a one liner. So last night, she left me a message on skype but I thought would read it this morning. Apparently she deleted it and now I am disappointed for not looking at it last night. I can only imagine what she said.

Keep the faith...go get her...

you think asking is such a good idea? She deleted for a reason and I am pretty sure she will ignore me.

Plus, today is 29 weeks since we met... i sent a deep message...which may just get me in more trouble. I am a LEO so this is how i do it.

Okay so I'm a cancer guy, knowing this virgo very well from 3-4 months. Until the last month everything was going fine. She has every single bit of information about me my family infact she did talked to them(both sides did though). Always taking my suggestions. Much much more than suggestions . Like she was very near to form a relationship. Anyway, since from the last month, she doesn't talk like she used to talk before. I tried to ask her is why are you so silent all of a sudden? She says me she was really busy with her things and said me her "boyfriend doesn't understand her, and we will never talk about this ever again because are a good friend" . I agree I made a mistake too, I texted her too much, which made her annoyed. Basically she doesn't have a boyfriend (I think she's lying) because If I don't talk with her for say 5 days she texts me or calls me with a excuse out of the blue and ask me about myself my day with a happy voice, it feels very weird. "AND WHY WOULD A GIRL TALK/BOTHER YOU OF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND". i later found out she was really busy and she says me we will meet soon. She still hasn't deleted all contact, she talks with not regularly. Plus, during this period she offered me a job and she tells her friends that I'm the guy who always supports her no matter what. The only thing is she doesn't give any explanation why she does it oftently. She knows I'm a good guy, she believe 100% in me. I think she is taking her what so ever time or just think me as a friend? Is she analysing me? Just give her space? When she's cooled down and decided is there a change of her coming back?

All I know is this with my Virgo, every days is a surprise. When she is busy, I do not hear from her. I know she reads everything but does not always reply. I know this is frustrating. Maybe she got cold feet as mine does all of the time. All I can say is this to you, be patient and stay in contact. No long communications as I think Cancers like to do.

Posted by NemDeux
goddamn treetrunking pisces donkey.

you sound like the male equivalent of eva the diva.

jfc.

I will tree trunk it. I'm also an Aries sign so I don't give up easily especially when it comes to love

. she even mentioned that's sometimes she feels like my spirit is watching over her. As you may know Pisces are mystical. So her soul is mine. We devour souls, that what Pisces do.

I know this girl loves me but she has a few doubts about our relationship. I just want to prove it to her that she made right choice in the beginning. I agree with her that is no way to keep a relationship in. the state we were. So I decided to go with the break up. If anything she is right.

You know maybe you are being harsh here but there is some truth to it. After all there are different kinds of advice here its up to me to weigh and choose the right one.

I'm the one in this whole situation so I know it better than anyone here.

I'm sure I am going to write it. Its an adventure, the. One I like the thrill of it.

But at the end of if it all I am a man in love.

Don't contact! Because of the profound polarity of the 2 signs, her detachment will only irk, annoy, and depress u in the long run, please trust me on this one, save yourself the headache/heartache. They're love language ( how they express love and affection) is foreign and tiring to us Pisces. Initially, u prob thought she was a dream come true and she probably was coming on with the same level of aggressiveness that u only just reciprocated. But instead of embracing and growing with it.... She came to a hault and start going in her head to process if u are up to her level of perfectness....Us Pisces feel thru love, while Virgos think thru it. But experience is the best teacher as I had to learn myself. But definitely don't call. Any impression of clingy will turn them off....completely. Good luck?

Posted by PrettiPisces
Don't contact! Because of the profound polarity of the 2 signs, her detachment will only irk, annoy, and depress u in the long run, please trust me on this one, save yourself the headache/heartache. They're love language ( how they express love and affection) is foreign and tiring to us Pisces. Initially, u prob thought she was a dream come true and she probably was coming on with the same level of aggressiveness that u only just reciprocated. But instead of embracing and growing with it.... She came to a hault and start going in her head to process if u are up to her level of perfectness....Us Pisces feel thru love, while Virgos think thru it. But experience is the best teacher as I had to learn myself. But definitely don't call. Any impression of clingy will turn them off....completely. Good luck?

Great advice, I had a similar experience with another Virgo about 2 years ago. The difference here is that the Virgo was the one chasing me during that time. But after we ended our relationship. I never bothered to contact her. She came back to me after a year but I lost interest in her. Which is one of the reasons I avoid Virgos.

Last year I managed to avoid another Virgo who had interest in me. I also liked her but wasn't ready for a relationship.

Then this one came along. So I decided to give it a try because I thought I was missing out a lot by restricting myself from dating especially when it comes to Virgos.