So I met this guy, a few years younger than I am, at work. At first I barely cared or even noticed him. Then he contacted me on facebook, and u can tell he was tryna ask me out or get my number so I just offered it because he was taking to long. We've talked all the time since.. It took about 3 months before we did the do. Then he did that whole disappearing act for about a month. He wasn't responding to me so I felt like I shouldn't have to chase him. A month later he contacts me to see if I was ok and asked y I haven't been texting him. (Btw I see him at work all the time). When I did text him he never responded. Anyway We summed it up to a misunderstanding, then continued talking as if nothing happened. I began to like him even more.. Fast forward to present day, after knowing him for about a year and speaking to him every single day.. Without him disappearing. I got promoted so I haven't worked with him for about 4 months but we still see eachother and talk. We aren't dating but he does things for me like he wants to date me. He hates feet but he'll always rub mines, he'll cArry me down stairs, I've met his family, he tells me secrets no one but his dad knows. I asked him if he wanted to stopped seein other ppl, his answer is idk. I have Fallen in love with him now and confessed. Don't know what to do, or how exactly he feels.. His deciding phase is bothering me. I take it as a no be doesn't want to be with me, but he says it isn't a no at all. I don't want to be strung along, I hate to have to chase anyone. Help please
