haylz124
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Virgo guy came on strong then vanished
He said the reasons for his fleeting messages beforehand were some of the things I'v said like I have loads of male friends I hang around with more males than females. He said he found this worrying because men are only friends with women if they want to sleep with them which I found odd and i told him the only way it all works is because they don't fancy me.
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As a woman who has always had numerous male friends, who have zero interest in my sexually as I'm very happily married and they have their own relationships, I couldn't disagree more with you NineAvenue.
The PROBLEM isn't the woman's, or in this case, the OP, haylz124. It's the guy she was going out with who has the problem. Many men, not all, simply are so jealous and have insecurities, they can not fathom the woman they are attracted to with another man, even on pure platonic levels.
My husband doesn't have a jealous bone in his body. He knows I love sports and love to banter with my guy friends. It's never been a factor that affected our marriage nor will it ever become one. I could even go out with one of the guys alone, have a few drinks and give him a hug goodbye and my husband wouldn't be concerned about anything. Because women, MOST, are very capable of having platonic only relationships with men. It's like having a bigger brother you can rely on and chill with. Noting more, nothing less.
THIS isn't on women, this is on men who are extremely insecure, possessive and have a fragile ego.
If this OP is smart, she will see through his manipulative "concerns" and find a guy who has a backbone and self esteem.
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As a woman who has always had numerous male friends, who have zero interest in my sexually as I'm very happily married and they have their own relationships, I couldn't disagree more with you NineAvenue.
The PROBLEM isn't the woman's, or in this case, the OP, haylz124. It's the guy she was going out with who has the problem. Many men, not all, simply are so jealous and have insecurities, they can not fathom the woman they are attracted to with another man, even on pure platonic levels.
My husband doesn't have a jealous bone in his body. He knows I love sports and love to banter with my guy friends. It's never been a factor that affected our marriage nor will it ever become one. I could even go out with one of the guys alone, have a few drinks and give him a hug goodbye and my husband wouldn't be concerned about anything. Because women, MOST, are very capable of having platonic only relationships with men. It's like having a bigger brother you can rely on and chill with. Noting more, nothing less.
THIS isn't on women, this is on men who are extremely insecure, possessive and have a fragile ego.
If this OP is smart, she will see through his manipulative "concerns" and find a guy who has a backbone and self esteem.
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