Virgo guy wont leave me alone

About 8 months ago, I met this virgo man online (I still haven't met him in real life and don't know what he looks like). In the beginning he was really cool and sweet but I saw our relationship as nothing more than a friendship.

We would text about twice a week in the beginning, no big deal right? Well now he texts me EVERY SINGLE DAY. If I didn't ignore him most of the time, our conversations would probably last all day. Sometimes he even carries on text conversations BY HIMSELF if I don't answer! I don't want to be blunt and tell him to stop texting me because I'm sadly just not that type of person.

It had become very obvious he has fallen head over heals for me for two reasons. A) obviously I'm the only person he ever texts B) He only has a few friendships with other girls

What my question is: How can I get this guy to fall out of love with me. Or what is a good way to get a virgo angry or turn him off?

Posted by NocturnalNobody
About 8 months ago, I met this virgo man online (I still haven't met him in real life and don't know what he looks like). In the beginning he was really cool and sweet but I saw our relationship as nothing more than a friendship.

We would text about twice a week in the beginning, no big deal right? Well now he texts me EVERY SINGLE DAY. If I didn't ignore him most of the time, our conversations would probably last all day. Sometimes he even carries on text conversations BY HIMSELF if I don't answer! I don't want to be blunt and tell him to stop texting me because I'm sadly just not that type of person.

It had become very obvious he has fallen head over heals for me for two reasons. A) obviously I'm the only person he ever texts B) He only has a few friendships with other girls


What my question is: How can I get this guy to fall out of love with me. Or what is a good way to get a virgo angry or turn him off?

Stop being so Libran nice...lol

Simple answer:
Tell him you aren't interested and stop responding to him.

Don't see how that was hard to figure out. Shrug

Why even consider playing a mind game on him? Pissing someone off intentionally is pretty fucked up.

😐

Posted by NocturnalNobody
I don't want to be blunt and tell him to stop texting me because I'm sadly just not that type of person.

It's about time you grow some backbone and set your boundaries. There's nothing wrong with being upfront and honest about how this makes you feel. Just say you're uncomfortable with him texting you constantly and say it's very inappropriate for a friend to keep bombarding you with texts. You need your space too.

Posted by NocturnalNobody

What my question is: How can I get this guy to fall out of love with me. Or what is a good way to get a virgo angry or turn him off?

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Respect his feelings. This is not the right way to do it. Y'know, H-O-N-E-S-T-Y is a better approach.

Posted by justagirl
Simple answer:
Tell him you aren't interested and stop responding to him.

Don't see how that was hard to figure out. Shrug

Why even consider playing a mind game on him? Pissing someone off intentionally is pretty fucked up.

😐

+1

Posted by NocturnalNobody

this virgo man online (I still haven't met him in real life and don't know what he looks like)

A) obviously I'm the only person he ever texts
B) He only has a few friendships with other girls

It's not surprising to me that you haven't got the courage, respect or decency to communicate your mind with this man ...... for look how far in la-la-land you are ....

You don't even know this man, never even met him, so really, you don't know shit about this man except for what he has chosen to tell you ..... and then you make such statements as to being in the know of his complete social life.

Every person as ridiculous as you, doesn't have dignity .... and you are the evidence of that.

Look what you said.

@P-Angel...I have to agree 1000% with you on this one.

@justaboredLibra, Girl, you are blowing your own head up. You have no idea if this guy really likes you. For all you know, he could be playing the same game as you. Have you ever thought that maybe he's a bored Virgo, and this is a nice fantasy game you're both playing? On the flip side though, if this guy is so in love with you, what makes you think he won't come looking for you eventually?
IJS...Don't end up being a "Lifetime" Movie

Posted by LIb4Life
@P-Angel...I have to agree 1000% with you on this one.

@justaboredLibra, Girl, you are blowing your own head up. You have no idea if this guy really likes you. For all you know, he could be playing the same game as you. Have you ever thought that maybe he's a bored Virgo, and this is a nice fantasy game you're both playing? On the flip side though, if this guy is so in love with you, what makes you think he won't come looking for you eventually?
IJS...Don't end up being a "Lifetime" Movie

thats the thing, he is! we know what state we each live in and hes always telling me how he wants to come visit mine? I havent talked to him in about 3 days now and he still keeps messaging me. I think I'm just gonna finally tell him to fuck off even though he doesnt have very many friends

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Posted by NocturnalNobody

this virgo man online (I still haven't met him in real life and don't know what he looks like)

A) obviously I'm the only person he ever texts
B) He only has a few friendships with other girls

It's not surprising to me that you haven't got the courage, respect or decency to communicate your mind with this man ...... for look how far in la-la-land you are ....

You don't even know this man, never even met him, so really, you don't know shit about this man except for what he has chosen to tell you ..... and then you make such statements as to being in the know of his complete social life.

Every person as ridiculous as you, doesn't have dignity .... and you are the evidence of that.

Look what you said.

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What the hell do you think we talk about? The new taco bell menu? No. We've been talking for 8 months and I know pretty much most of his social situation in high school. He basically has a couple guy friends that think he is also annoying because he never shuts up so they don't talk to him. Why the hell would someone make that up? That would explain why he constantly messages me because he has no other friends to talk to. That's why I feel like an inconsiderate asshole completely cutting off communication with him because he obivously has no one else to talk to.

To suddenly lose the only person in your life you ever talk to can be EXTREMEMLY rough. To be the person that does that to someone is NOT dignifying whatsoever. Maybe you should ask questions before making assumptions.

^^high school? How old are you guys?