Virgo is not reliable

So my boyfriend is not reliable at all!!

He got sun, venus, moon, mars and mercury in Virgo with Gemini rising

Says he will give me a Wine bottle because he doesn't drink wine and forget it 3 times.

Says he will tell me his free days I should wait... he would never tell me if I wouldn't ask again

We wanted to videochat.. he calls me but without and when I ask for video he says he can't he has to shower first. He will call me again but fells asleep.

Otherwise, he is very sweet

do you have experience with unreliable Virgos?

If mine says he’s gonna do something, he does it. Some people are just shitty people.

Is this an online/long distance relationship?

Mine doesn't make promises he can't keep. I've never had him tell me something and not do it.

He does fall asleep on me a lot tho.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Is this an online/long distance relationship?

it's a long distance relationship now.

yeah the thing is.. he said i should be honest and tell him... but he does unreliable stuff all the time and of course I tell him..

But nothing changes. I don't know what to do. I hate gemini rising. Can't i have a normal relationship? Guess no with my 7th house in pisces

Posted by PhoenixStorm

Is he forgetful in general about other things? Is it a memory issue versus a reliability thing? Or do you think it’s intentional?

I really would like to know that

Posted by iteza

yeah the thing is.. he said i should be honest and tell him... but he does unreliable stuff all the time and of course I tell him..

But nothing changes. I don't know what to do. I hate gemini rising. Can't i have a normal relationship? Guess no with my 7th house in pisces

Get you a local boyfriend that meets your needs.....and wants.

Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

Posted by Jules-ll

Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

thanks! i hate gemini ..how to handle that

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Posted by Jules-ll

Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

thanks! i hate gemini ..how to handle that

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I don't know, I have virgo sun/venus/mercury too but no gemini/3rd house stuff. Don't get your expectations up too high for an LDR...that wouldn't even be a possibility for me unless I'd been with someone a long time and it was a temporary separation.

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Posted by Jules-ll

Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

thanks! i hate gemini ..how to handle that

I don't know, I have virgo sun/venus/mercury too but no gemini/3rd house stuff. Don't get your expectations up too high for an LDR...that wouldn't even be a possibility for me unless I'd been with someone a long time and it was a temporary separation.

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his stellium is in the 4th house.. and seems like he is ok with long distance since he had one before for 1 year

Long distance relationships suck. I don't know why anyone would agree to them unless you were already with the person and one of you had to leave for work temporarily for an extended amount of time. Otherwise, I don't feel that it is really a relationship....more like pen pals.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Is this an online/long distance relationship?

it's a long distance relationship now.

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How long were you dating/together before it became long distance?

If he moved and is starting a new job and getting settled into his new place a bit of flakyness is forgivable, he has a lot on his plate.

But if he’s starting to do the slow fade with the communication something could be up. Has he met someone new? Is the distance getting to him where he’s wanting to break things off?

You don’t know cause he won’t call you 😬

Unless there is a solid plan to get both of you living in the same place, ld doesn’t pan out ime.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Is this an online/long distance relationship?

it's a long distance relationship now.

How long were you dating/together before it became long distance?

If he moved and is starting a new job and getting settled into his new place a bit of flakyness is forgivable, he has a lot on his plate.

But if he’s starting to do the slow fade with the communication something could be up. Has he met someone new? Is the distance getting to him where he’s wanting to break things off?

You don’t know cause he won’t call you 😬

Unless there is a solid plan to get both of you living in the same place, ld doesn’t pan out ime.

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he writes a lot and sweet stuff.. we are on the phone but he says something but doesn't do it. that's the problem here

Posted by the_verdictofkiki

well do virgos like to plan? i would buy him an agenda...... write random stuff in it allllllllllllllllllll over... like text me hi.... sext me something... say u love me... call me.... visit me.... buy me food.... get mad at me for no reason so i can kiss ur butt to make up... things like that....

then send it to him...

see what he does😏.

Lmao I told mine "tell me something nice" randomly one night. He automatically looks at me and says "you're pretty"

It works.

Posted by iteza

So my boyfriend is not reliable at all!!

He got sun, venus, moon, mars and mercury in Virgo with Gemini rising

Says he will give me a Wine bottle because he doesn't drink wine and forget it 3 times.

Says he will tell me his free days I should wait... he would never tell me if I wouldn't ask again

We wanted to videochat.. he calls me but without and when I ask for video he says he can't he has to shower first. He will call me again but fells asleep.

Otherwise, he is very sweet

do you have experience with unreliable Virgos?

my ex husband is a virgo and he always broke ever promise he ever made to me. i feel for you. stuff that was important me was not important to him. it was weird he would keep his word for everyone else but me. He would talk how important a man's word was but yet never did it for me.

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Posted by Sassysailorscout

Ohhhh this is normal.

He's a VIRGO if he didn't like you

You would know !!! 😆 😆

If you wanna break up criticise him that should speed up the end.

Also send funnier stuff that interest him.n like articles and ish. I love assertive go getters I'm sure he does too. Just be the initiator if you can handle it.

He's your boyfriend !!! You can do what you want. Except whine.

Virgos hate that. love appreciation ." Thank you for calling I was hoping to ask your advice on xyz "

Oh and love freedom .

Cause some low key problems so he can fix them.

Hahahah my crazy is showing

How would you know.

Would they tell you?!

Yesssss I would like to think so !

Also calling your boyfriend unreliable rather than trying to figure what's causing this behavior and trying to help with it, is prob the wrong way to go.

He said tell him, he tell him.

If you can't do long distance and are unhappy and unwilling to communicate and work on the relationship, maybe break up.

He is whatever type if boyfriend you believe him to be.

Be careful what you think and say about him.

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thank you 🙂 I think it became better now

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Posted by Jules-ll

Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

thanks! i hate gemini ..how to handle that

Lol.. pretty sure ya can't blame ALL of his behaviour on his rising.. Lmao

And it honestly just sounds like he is forgetful and your expectations are out of whack. He forgot to bring the wine means he is forgetful. If he wasn't reliable he wouldn't call you when you wanted to video chat.. he did call but needed to shower.. that doesn't make him unreliable.. it means he wants a damn shower.

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so forgetting it 3 times i forgetful?

fed that Gemini rising