LetltB
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Virgo Male : Why did he quit on me? (Page 2)
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Posted by LetltB
"So what do you do when you feel you messed up with a Virgo. Mine always tells me he does not chase. If I mess up, I have to come to him. Annoying."
They don't chase especially if the other person screwed up. So if you screwed up and you're annoyed by having to why bother? He'll see you're annoyed, & insincere anyway, and will be turned off and walk away.
It's one of those things where we have been together for a long time but never defined the relationship. We act like bf/gf so when I brought it up, he said I'm an amazing friend. I haven't responded because I don't know what to say to that.
Just to add... the last thing I said to him was if that's it. He just said good night and lol everything. It's been two days since either one of us msg'd. I know he's stubborn as a mule. So what, I have to give in?
Posted by tigergirl
It's one of those things where we have been together for a long time but never defined the relationship. We act like bf/gf so when I brought it up, he said I'm an amazing friend. I haven't responded because I don't know what to say to that.
Posted by kindleberry
Just to add... the last thing I said to him was if that's it. He just said good night and lol everything. It's been two days since either one of us msg'd. I know he's stubborn as a mule. So what, I have to give in?click to expand
So..why didn't you flat out ask him what he meant by "amazing friend"? Instead of "that's it"? I'm assuming you are having sex? Maybe he sees it as just a fwb? Don't you want to know? Is it hard to ask? Knowledge is power! Can also keep you from going crazy! lol
Also..let me applaud you for showing multiple screennames. Doesn't matter why you have two, it's the simple fact that you have the balls to show them. I respect that. Anyway..good luck. 🙂
I don't know either why.
He did say because he can count on me. He said that multiple times.
I need a hint on how to approach this now. 🙂
He did say because he can count on me. He said that multiple times.
I need a hint on how to approach this now. 🙂
Posted by kindleberry
I don't know either why.
He did say because he can count on me. He said that multiple times.
I need a hint on how to approach this now. 🙂
Count on you for what?? Sex? Approach it directly. Ask him if you two are in a relationship or not and if that is what you want and he doesn't..kick his ass to the curb. COMMUNICATE! He will answer and if he doesn't it's an answer, walk away.
Ok so when I brought it up, that if all's screwed up to just tell me. He hesitated for 15 min. So iI sent him a msg asking if I can call.. he responded right away.
Why the long hesitation. It's like black and white to answer yes or no. I thought Virgos are supposed to be direct and quick in response when they know what they want or dont want.
Why the long hesitation. It's like black and white to answer yes or no. I thought Virgos are supposed to be direct and quick in response when they know what they want or dont want.
Posted by kindleberry
Ok so when I brought it up, that if all's screwed up to just tell me. He hesitated for 15 min. So iI sent him a msg asking if I can call.. he responded right away.
Why the long hesitation. It's like black and white to answer yes or no. I thought Virgos are supposed to be direct and quick in response when they know what they want or dont want.
Virgo's analyze. Maybe he has questions too? PATIENCE! Talk to him not at him, and remain calm! Good luck!
Something's off with him. I'm just going to leave. He used to chase me, now it seems I do out fear of losing him.
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They don't chase especially if the other person screwed up. So if you screwed up and you're annoyed by having to why bother? He'll see you're annoyed, & insincere anyway, and will be turned off and walk away.