Virgo man and mid life crisis @ 50

My ex will be 51 soon. We are on good terms now. I have had one cousin call me and ask if he was going through a mid life crisis because of his new gf he bought to a family cookout. She first apologized and had no idea that we were broken up and then proceeded to tell me the girl looked ghetto, like a hoochie mama, weaved hair, tons a make up and nails done. How she described her was not good at all. Last week, I was invited to a party by a mutual guy friend, I asked if my Ex was going. The guy proceeded to tell me that he ran into my Ex and that his new girl looks like she lost a couple of rounds in a fight and that she looks a little beat up. He said he has known my ex for 20+ years and this girl is not him. This past weekend, I went to a wake/funeral of a cousin of my Ex who passed away. Yes, she looked just like what people described. The family was very happy to see me and said that they are not happy about her at all. They all think he is going through something and are concerned. My question, how long does a mid life crisis last for a Virgo, when do they see the light?

My quarter life crisis lasted 2 yrs. I don't even want to imagine what a mid life one does to a virgo

wow, sounds like you have a strong opinion about what an ex does with his life ... don't you think that's pretty fucked up, considering it's his life?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and even though you are so shallow and superficial that you would judge her by her cover ... she may be a very sweet and nice person to him, who cherishes him.


You obviously didn't cherish him, or he wouldn't be an ex.

For his sake ... don't you think you should pass on your superficial judgments about the color of her skin (meaning her looks) ... and at least attempt to be happy for him?


Hopefully, you're not saying things like this in front of his children (if you have any)

The description of her was given to me by a family member and a friend of his. She maybe very nice indeed but, she looked just like what they said. If my Ex was so happy, he would not be saying not so nice things about her behind her back. Like she is a broke ass. I do not know her from Adam but, his family does not have anything nice to say about her.

I know... suprised but, I know one thing for sure, he never said those kind of things about me. I am broke too, just like the rest of us.. I mean I can pay my bills and take a vacation here or there.