Virgo man Gemini woman - isolation edition

Hi guys, hope everyone is OK with the current craze! I've recently started chatting to my friend's flatmate I met a few times and before the lockdown I tried to organise catch ups a couple of times, but we couldn't find time (at that time it was more just friendly).

We started chatting a bit more recently and as things worldwide escalated we decided to hold off meeting up. We've both established that we are romantically attracted to each other. We chat here and there and he sends me snapchat's and sometimes other stuff but I don't often find him that engaged, more just chatty.

I'm the kind of person who can talk all bloody day so I try not to reply to some things but I'm bored asf and I like him so it's hard for me not to send him memes and stuff or try and keep the convo going.

Considering we are unlikely to see each other anytime soon how can I keep the momentum without being too needy and pushing him away? What's the best approach to build a good friendship/potential relationship with a Virgo? Halp xx

What your looking for is deep meaningful conversations.

A lil Intellectual romance.

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What your looking for is deep meaningful conversations.

A lil Intellectual romance.

We've had them in the beginning and he was saying thing like, you really get me, I can open up to you etc, but feels like we lost the momentum. I pull back here and there and he will reinitiate but we're on shallow convos atm

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Posted by Weeds

What your looking for is deep meaningful conversations.

A lil Intellectual romance.

We've had them in the beginning and he was saying thing like, you really get me, I can open up to you etc, but feels like we lost the momentum. I pull back here and there and he will reinitiate but we're on shallow convos atm

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I think that's pretty normal.

That start stop between earth and air.

and it's kinda important to have mutual breaks inbetween I think that is important to communicate early on. Once you find that rhythm you should be fine. Don't force or try to stretch out those moments they have to come organically.

Posted by Weeds

Posted by Gemsgem

Posted by Weeds

What your looking for is deep meaningful conversations.

A lil Intellectual romance.

We've had them in the beginning and he was saying thing like, you really get me, I can open up to you etc, but feels like we lost the momentum. I pull back here and there and he will reinitiate but we're on shallow convos atm

I think that's pretty normal.

That start stop between earth and air.

and it's kinda important to have mutual breaks inbetween I think that is important to communicate early on. Once you find that rhythm you should be fine. Don't force or try to stretch out those moments they have to come organically.

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Thank you ❤️