How do you know when Virgo cares for you?

So . actually my question is: what is a Virgo's love like? Of all the mysteries of the signs, this one escapes me. 😄

White heat love, singleness of purpose.

So subtle you'll miss it lmao.

They do little sweet things for you. Like how a cat brings you a dead mouse.

And, they want to spend alot of time with you at a time.... like long dates.

That was to the title.

This is for the post.

Love is like having your own stylist, psychologist, body guard, gardner, cook... they try to be your everything.

Posted by VenusAquarius
They do little sweet things for you. Like how a cat brings you a dead mouse.

And, they want to spend alot of time with you at a time.... like long dates.

I read somewhere that cats only do that because they think we're terrible hunters and therefore incapable of taking care of ourselves. 😆

He'll message you after 5 years of no contact to give condolences for your loved one dying then disappear again.

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They do little sweet things for you. Like how a cat brings you a dead mouse.

And, they want to spend alot of time with you at a time.... like long dates.

I read somewhere that cats only do that because they think we're terrible hunters and therefore incapable of taking care of ourselves. 😆

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Hey... still fits

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They do little sweet things for you. Like how a cat brings you a dead mouse.

And, they want to spend alot of time with you at a time.... like long dates.

I read somewhere that cats only do that because they think we're terrible hunters and therefore incapable of taking care of ourselves. 😆

Hey... still fits

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I know, lol. It made me laugh harder once I realized 🙂

We try to be your everything, just as someone had commented before.

We try our best to understand everything about you, your ticks and what makes you tock.

It's almost like we can't get enough of you. Always trying to figure you out.

Because virgos usually use logic, when we're in love, idk about any other Virgo but I become blinded by it. Logic is thrown out the window completely. I'm so naive with emotions I tend to just love wholeheartedly (once I've analyzed and calculated whether or not I should fall in love).

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
We try to be your everything, just as someone had commented before.

We try our best to understand everything about you, your ticks and what makes you tock.

It's almost like we can't get enough of you. Always trying to figure you out.

Because virgos usually use logic, when we're in love, idk about any other Virgo but I become blinded by it. Logic is thrown out the window completely. I'm so naive with emotions I tend to just love wholeheartedly (once I've analyzed and calculated whether or not I should fall in love).

^ I think this is spot on.

Correct me if I'm wrong on this, I think -

Virgos will pay attention to everything you do, how you move, how you talk, how you look that day, if you are wearing new shoes/clothes. If you look out the window they will say "what are you looking at? What do you see?"

They will mirror like nobody's business. You stretch, they stretch, you yawn, they yawn. You will notice them using similar vocabulary if you used it earlier.

They will always be willing to spend time with you even last minute. They will spend money on you. They will un-compartmentalize their life and include you (even work). They will join you on your wild adventures.

They will give you practical advice like your parents do. Ie., sleep earlier, don't drink so much, don't walk alone at night.

They will be overly protective about you and your safety.

They take a LONG time to get there though. Probably years. During that time they will be analyzing and observing you for consistency, details, how comfortable they feel with you. All that stuff.

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We try to be your everything, just as someone had commented before.

We try our best to understand everything about you, your ticks and what makes you tock.

It's almost like we can't get enough of you. Always trying to figure you out.

Because virgos usually use logic, when we're in love, idk about any other Virgo but I become blinded by it. Logic is thrown out the window completely. I'm so naive with emotions I tend to just love wholeheartedly (once I've analyzed and calculated whether or not I should fall in love).

^ I think this is spot on.

Correct me if I'm wrong on this, I think -

Virgos will pay attention to everything you do, how you move, how you talk, how you look that day, if you are wearing new shoes/clothes. If you look out the window they will say "what are you looking at? What do you see?"

They will mirror like nobody's business. You stretch, they stretch, you yawn, they yawn. You will notice them using similar vocabulary if you used it earlier.

They will always be willing to spend time with you even last minute. They will spend money on you. They will un-compartmentalize their life and include you (even work). They will join you on your wild adventures.

They will give you practical advice like your parents do. Ie., sleep earlier, don't drink so much, don't walk alone at night.

They will be overly protective about you and your safety.

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Your very right actually. What's your sun sign?

I know for a fact that I've been told that I'm much like a co-pilot haha. I'm willing to just get on board and do whatever. My happiness is based off of my lovers happiness. So honestly, if it makes them happy, it makes me happy. Even if I have to let them go to experience their own happiness. Without me.

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We try to be your everything, just as someone had commented before.

We try our best to understand everything about you, your ticks and what makes you tock.

It's almost like we can't get enough of you. Always trying to figure you out.

Because virgos usually use logic, when we're in love, idk about any other Virgo but I become blinded by it. Logic is thrown out the window completely. I'm so naive with emotions I tend to just love wholeheartedly (once I've analyzed and calculated whether or not I should fall in love).

^ I think this is spot on.

Correct me if I'm wrong on this, I think -

Virgos will pay attention to everything you do, how you move, how you talk, how you look that day, if you are wearing new shoes/clothes. If you look out the window they will say "what are you looking at? What do you see?"

They will mirror like nobody's business. You stretch, they stretch, you yawn, they yawn. You will notice them using similar vocabulary if you used it earlier.

They will always be willing to spend time with you even last minute. They will spend money on you. They will un-compartmentalize their life and include you (even work). They will join you on your wild adventures.

They will give you practical advice like your parents do. Ie., sleep earlier, don't drink so much, don't walk alone at night.

They will be overly protective about you and your safety.

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Yeah...rings true for me...I get a bit motherly

I'm Saggy Sun, Leo Moon, Aqua Rising, Venus/Mars Libra.

The men imo, are critical when they like you OR they become fussy/critical to show their displeasure about something you said or did. If they don't like you or care, they usually don't bother.

When it's because they like you, they do it with affection and humour. Like, "you forgot XYZ..you're so cute" "...you need someone to take care of you", "you're like a little girl".

When it's because they are unhappy, they have a frustrated tone and a tell tale sign is when it's about really small petty stuff. Like you offer them a snack and they just won't take it, or they nit pick at what you say even if it's just your personal opinion about something insignificant. Ie. "I want to go on a RV trip someday" him: "what for? It's hard to drive an RV, it's expensive, it's XYZ, you think it's so simple..it's not, etc.".

What they really want is for you to notice they are unhappy about something else but they don't really know how to express that.

Also, I think regardless of how cold Virgo seems, they like to have someone to be devoted to and take care of!

I should include a disclaimer, I have never been with a Virgo guy. These are just my observations based on the ones I know. No idea what they would be like after they get the girl.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
The Boy isn't messy with his emotions, but nor is he afraid of them. To show them or to say them. I feel loved.

I can also see where someone more emotionally needy might feel in the weeds. And I don't mean that as a dis or anything. I feel he and I have a similar love language and, if we didn't, some of his subtleties would have possibly flown over my head. Just like they pay attention, you have to as well.

The paying attention to small things is no joke. I'd gotten a CC replaced and the color was different. We went out and I paid the tab with the new card. He asked me if everything was ok, because that's not the card I usually use.

Do Caps like it when their partner pays attention to the little things?

There's a warmth to Virgo women that is impossible to miss when they care for you.

Men posting about Virgos being cold...you either run into one that cares but has no idea how to embrace emotions to the point the anxiety that runs in all of us just overshadows any display...or one who doesn't care at all. Understand you are still gambling with the first one, even if she had feelings. As enticing as the challenge might be for you or the art of drawing it all out....you'll get depleted fast.

When they buy you stuff.

They don't easily part with money... they work

even when they don't want to work.

We would notice everything about you, hair style hanged, new clothes. We would also give you unwanted advise as we are sinplyi trying to help you to improve like we constantly want to improve ourself.

Our week off, celebrating his birthday, is almost over. I'm going to be love sick and completely out of focus for a while.... completely spacey and distant.... melancholic euphoria.

He said to me yesterday when I told him I didn't think he would have approved of me buying two expensive pair of boots, looked me deep in my eyes, and said, "when have I ever denied you anything."

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We try to be your everything, just as someone had commented before.

We try our best to understand everything about you, your ticks and what makes you tock.

It's almost like we can't get enough of you. Always trying to figure you out.

Because virgos usually use logic, when we're in love, idk about any other Virgo but I become blinded by it. Logic is thrown out the window completely. I'm so naive with emotions I tend to just love wholeheartedly (once I've analyzed and calculated whether or not I should fall in love).

^ I think this is spot on.

Correct me if I'm wrong on this, I think -

Virgos will pay attention to everything you do, how you move, how you talk, how you look that day, if you are wearing new shoes/clothes. If you look out the window they will say "what are you looking at? What do you see?"

They will mirror like nobody's business. You stretch, they stretch, you yawn, they yawn. You will notice them using similar vocabulary if you used it earlier.

They will always be willing to spend time with you even last minute. They will spend money on you. They will un-compartmentalize their life and include you (even work). They will join you on your wild adventures.

They will give you practical advice like your parents do. Ie., sleep earlier, don't drink so much, don't walk alone at night.

They will be overly protective about you and your safety.

Your very right actually. What's your sun sign?

I know for a fact that I've been told that I'm much like a co-pilot haha. I'm willing to just get on board and do whatever. My happiness is based off of my lovers happiness. So honestly, if it makes them happy, it makes me happy. Even if I have to let them go to experience their own happiness. Without me.

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Oh man, this is all so right & so Virgo in love

Nice question !

But what you also need to consider is : YOUR VENUS sign , it does have an impact on how you react in relationships .

I have my sun in virgo and my venus in leo and mercury in virgo. And trust me you can definitely guess . I like to think that we are a bit like Beyonce with " cater 2 u " .

When I'm in love I take care of my man , I want him to feel satisfied . I'll ask things like " do you need something from the store " . Or I'll buy him this new shirt he talked about 4 months ago cause I know that he only have old ones and it could go with that blue jean from levis that he's worn on a date night. I'll be helpful and I want him to feel like I'm the best in everything that I do .

I'm VERY detail oriented and thoughtful , I remember every single thing , and I like to collect facts . I'll often act as if I'm detached sometimes but I never want to come too strong .

I might like a bit of drama here and there . I just expect the same from my partner , and if things are not the same .. After bottling up and holding back , I get upset and just say everything without notice . and lose interest and act in a dramatic way . I just give so much that I need someone with the same intensity . But being criticial is just me trying to improve things .

Basically you'll know for sure if we want you to know . People think I'm playing hard to get , but until I overanalysed things , and asked myself 10k questions . I'll decide wheter or not I want to engage . I'll just be flirty and sacarstic as hell , I'll pay attention to details , but it would be very subtle . I think the signs that can "see" what we are doing are scorpios .

^ Yes, Virgos are huge flirts! And they don't really give up any important info about themselves but will analyze and probe you as much as they can. I see you doing it! 🙂

It's like a dance with Virgos, they are always watching you and seeing what you do and what you want. If they like you, they will adapt to you...slowly at first and then stronger and stronger until they are in your everything if you let them. Just give them their own TV to watch alone at night and they're good 🙂

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Nice question !

But what you also need to consider is : YOUR VENUS sign , it does have an impact on how you react in relationships .

I have my sun in virgo and my venus in leo and mercury in virgo. And trust me you can definitely guess . I like to think that we are a bit like Beyonce with " cater 2 u " .

When I'm in love I take care of my man , I want him to feel satisfied . I'll ask things like " do you need something from the store " . Or I'll buy him this new shirt he talked about 4 months ago cause I know that he only have old ones and it could go with that blue jean from levis that he's worn on a date night. I'll be helpful and I want him to feel like I'm the best in everything that I do .

I'm VERY detail oriented and thoughtful , I remember every single thing , and I like to collect facts . I'll often act as if I'm detached sometimes but I never want to come too strong .

I might like a bit of drama here and there . I just expect the same from my partner , and if things are not the same .. After bottling up and holding back , I get upset and just say everything without notice . and lose interest and act in a dramatic way . I just give so much that I need someone with the same intensity . But being criticial is just me trying to improve things .

Basically you'll know for sure if we want you to know . People think I'm playing hard to get , but until I overanalysed things , and asked myself 10k questions . I'll decide wheter or not I want to engage . I'll just be flirty and sacarstic as hell , I'll pay attention to details , but it would be very subtle . I think the signs that can "see" what we are doing are scorpios .

I'm a Leo Venus also 🙂

And this sounds a lot like me. The little things and attention to detail of the things my man needs or wants. From emotional, physical or mental.

I guess I just put a lot of thought into things.

Posted by RoseLenses
So I just recently have been doing well with a virgo woman and this is what I have noticed.

Before they are warmed up they will analyze you and research you to a T. As everyone was saying earlier, they will look for consistency in your actions and that you're being genuine in your character. They are really cold sometimes and will disappear for a while if they like you because they need time to think. If they really like you, they'll eventually evaluate the options and come back. They will try not to like you or not make it obvious when you're with a group of friends. They will even flirt with your friends a bit to make you jealous..they will like to see if you get a bit jealous in return to see if you like them back. They will drop subtle cues that only you would really understand. You really have to be a good listener and pay close attention to these or you'll miss them!

Once they are more warmed up and are starting to realize you may share the same feelings she does. She will take the time out of her day to hang out with you and get to know you. She may also disappear even if everythings been well because a) you somehow fucked up or b) she thinks she's getting too close and not know how to react to her feelings. If she knows you like her she will actually become a bit more flirty with subtle touches, maybe even sexual jokes. She will also tend to seek you out in conversation. Lastly, I think the main indicator is in the eyes i think. She will sometimes avoid your gaze but if she locks eyes with you..they will literally soften up and it really is very beautiful to catch. You need to be patient with these women and although they're a pain in the ass to read..if they really like you and you pay attention you'll know.

you have the patience of a saint

It'll be subtle esp. if a woman, lil cutesy flirting, greeting you with wide eyes and excitement, maybe even a little Arien like playful bullying. They'll go out of their way to get your attention, but never really let on they're being more than friendly unless they are certain you are interested.

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^ Yes, Virgos are huge flirts! And they don't really give up any important info about themselves but will analyze and probe you as much as they can. I see you doing it! 🙂

It's like a dance with Virgos, they are always watching you and seeing what you do and what you want. If they like you, they will adapt to you...slowly at first and then stronger and stronger until they are in your everything if you let them. Just give them their own TV to watch alone at night and they're good 🙂

Yup, this would be 100% spot on for me if it wasn't for the TV bit. I don't watch tv. But you have a good idea of how we operate 🙂

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Posted by cheekyfaerie
The Boy isn't messy with his emotions, but nor is he afraid of them. To show them or to say them. I feel loved.

I can also see where someone more emotionally needy might feel in the weeds. And I don't mean that as a dis or anything. I feel he and I have a similar love language and, if we didn't, some of his subtleties would have possibly flown over my head. Just like they pay attention, you have to as well.

The paying attention to small things is no joke. I'd gotten a CC replaced and the color was different. We went out and I paid the tab with the new card. He asked me if everything was ok, because that's not the card I usually use.

I do the same thing. I try to be observant and intuitive with time and place considered as well. I think that's one of the reasons they always try to come back after things are over..when they realize things aren't so effortless, where everything seems to magically fall in place, and the timing ensures safe passage.

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My Cap Aqua cusp guy is the same way. Is this why he is not spontaneous at all? He HATES it when someone springs something on him last minute. He will 99.9% not go or do the thing.

Do you like being careful and observant or do you resent it? Do you want to share those duties with your partner or do it by yourself?

Sorry, a bit off topic.

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^ Yes, Virgos are huge flirts! And they don't really give up any important info about themselves but will analyze and probe you as much as they can. I see you doing it! 🙂

It's like a dance with Virgos, they are always watching you and seeing what you do and what you want. If they like you, they will adapt to you...slowly at first and then stronger and stronger until they are in your everything if you let them. Just give them their own TV to watch alone at night and they're good 🙂

Yup, this would be 100% spot on for me if it wasn't for the TV bit. I don't watch tv. But you have a good idea of how we operate 🙂

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Thank you! I have many Virgo friends, and I think one is nipping at my heels because my observations are mainly based on how he is towards me.

I notice that Virgos decompress by being alone with either the tv, a movie, or app game. They don't need to be with the person when they get home but they enjoy knowing they are in the other room and will occasionally check on them to see if they need anything.

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^ Yes, Virgos are huge flirts! And they don't really give up any important info about themselves but will analyze and probe you as much as they can. I see you doing it! 🙂

It's like a dance with Virgos, they are always watching you and seeing what you do and what you want. If they like you, they will adapt to you...slowly at first and then stronger and stronger until they are in your everything if you let them. Just give them their own TV to watch alone at night and they're good 🙂

Yup, this would be 100% spot on for me if it wasn't for the TV bit. I don't watch tv. But you have a good idea of how we operate 🙂

Thank you! I have many Virgo friends, and I think one is nipping at my heels because my observations are mainly based on how he is towards me.

I notice that Virgos decompress by being alone with either the tv, a movie, or app game. They don't need to be with the person when they get home but they enjoy knowing they are in the other room and will occasionally check on them to see if they need anything.

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Yes, I don't know about other virgos but that's how it is for me. After spending a long day at work/dealing with lots of people all I want to do when I get home is to have a nice shower, and relax or like you said " decompress" on my laptop/phone. I usually watch documentaries, funny stuff or listen to music. I don't really need anybody around me during this time because this is " me time" . It's important to me to have it as it allows me to recharge for the next day.

(However , I'm currently dating a Gemini that never leaves me alone lol. But I don't mind it most of the time. )

Nightcap2, yes, he's spontaneous when it comes to his own rhythm and surroundings. However, when it's surprises from someone else, he really hates it and will complain/be negative. Are you female or male?

This thread has been done a lot. How hard is it to see their gentle care of people? Just pay attention and let them worry about all the details.

I can see why someone would be unsure about how a Virgo loves. My Virgo girlfriend is cold as ice when she doesn't like a guy. They are picky ass people! 🙂