Virgo Man with Venus in Libra——

Anyone out there with this placement that can tell me more about how you see loyalty and commitment in a relationship—?

I am a Leo with Venus in Virgo and fell madly in love with a Virgo with Venus in Libra about a year and a half ago. He has always been a flirt, but when we fell in love it was in a different kind of way -- he really made me feel that he was just as in love with me as I was with him. It was magical between us -- but little by little as ou relationship progressed the magic started to fade a bit with just the everyday routine of the relationship. About a year in I started noticing him checking out other women (a lot) and he has always been somewhat flirtatious with women he finds attractive. I chalked it up to both of our insecurities, I was insecure that he may be looking for another and I assumed he was insecure enough to constantly need attention from women to know he still "had it". But now there is a new girl at work that he looks at the way he used to look at me. ?!

We've discussed and he says he is committed to me -- but with time, I sense less commitment from him, not more and I doubt his sincerity. Is he falling out of love with me -- or just appreciating beauty as he says and "making people feel good" (which is why he said he flirts with others)—

Please help! Soooo very confused. I don't want to sabotage this love by being insecure -- but something isn't adding up for me either.


I also just posted on this thread...
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/to-virgo-men-3145891/

Hey Moondream,

Luckily I'm too, virgo sun, venus libra - even libra mercury(communication) and libra 7th house (relationships) so perhaps I could help just a tad... First off, libra in venus will make any dude a serious charming gentleman, but add Virgo sun, you got yourself a very dynamic intelligent talker, who could seduce anyone 😉 Here's the thing with Virgo and Libra, their both want a "perfect" partner, and both are serious committed signs. When I'm in a relationship that I feel is the "one", you bet your azz I'm committed, and will do anything to keep the harmony between us. You complained about the relationship becoming routine, that's a common Virgo trait. Doesn't mean he's bored, just satisfied with how it is, so why change it? - If it's a problem for you, SPEAK UP!!! I'm sure he's libra venus will make you feel desired again 🙂 Do I flirt, yes, do I know when I'm doing it, not always because it feels natural. Everyone flirts, we are all humans, but i think him doing that in front of you is a little disrespectful, and cold. Understand that the virgo likes to help/please others, that could mean lots of compliments, or landing a helping hand - with venus libra add consideration of others which could be considered flirty to others.

In all seriousness, you should look up his full chat, these two alone wont nearly add enough if he is the cheating type. Also with any Virgo-Leo relationship the key is, COMMUNICATION! Let him know that if something is bothering HIM he needs to speak up, virgo can have a hard time with this - bottle it up inside. Have moments where you guys sit and talk about things that are annoying you, it helps. If you want more advice, let me know. I've dated a Leo before, and to this day still consider it the best so far lol.

Being a Virgo with my Venus in Libra, I feel I should comment.

Flirting does come naturally often and it doesn't mean much. Listen what your Virgo says to you, if he reaffirms his dedication to you then I wouldn't be too worried, it's only worrisome when he doesn't give you a direct answer about what is going on there.
The worst thing you can do is create drama of it every time, that will guarantee your relationship breaks apart in the end simply due to stress.
Think of it this way, the flirting is in his nature but to reach actual cheating - that's far away and not even in the same level as some flirtatious conversation (for him, anyway).

Same placements here. 😄. I have to know for sure the person is even worth my loyalty. Once I'm sure, I can commit.

Thanks guys... I guess I don't doubt that he is physically faithful, it is that he may be emotionally unfaithful that tends to hurt me -- or at least makes me worry about our future if he already is not satisfied with me or craving another. I think as a Leo I have a need to feel "special" and my Venus in Virgo makes me extra insecure and I tend to be this way in relationships until I feel some sort of safety or security in it. But I also know there is no such thing -- so it is very confusing to me logically. I think most of the problems are in my head and by having these issues I am driving him away 😢 Hope I can learn to just let go and just go with the flow.

Posted by Vcharm
Luckily I'm too, virgo sun, venus libra - even libra mercury(communication) and libra 7th house (relationships) so perhaps I could help just a tad... First off, libra in venus will make any dude a serious charming gentleman, but add Virgo sun, you got yourself a very dynamic intelligent talker, who could seduce anyone 😉 Here's the thing with Virgo and Libra, their both want a "perfect" partner, and both are serious committed signs.

In all seriousness, you should look up his full chat, these two alone wont nearly add enough if he is the cheating type. Also with any Virgo-Leo relationship the key is, COMMUNICATION! Let him know that if something is bothering HIM he needs to speak up, virgo can have a hard time with this - bottle it up inside. Have moments where you guys sit and talk about things that are annoying you, it helps. If you want more advice, let me know. I've dated a Leo before, and to this day still consider it the best so far lol.

Hey Vcharm...

so here's his chart/my chart:
sun - virgo/leo
moon - sag/aquarius
rising - gemini/cancer
mercury - libra/virgo
venus - libra/virgo
mars - leo/virgo
jupiter - libra/taurus
saturn - libra/leo

So his moon in Sagittarius probably only adds to his Virgo Sun / Libra Venus want for the "ideal" partner and I guess my Venus in Virgo makes me really insecure about thinking I could ever be good enough for him. I am certainly not perfect. And I keep reading that a man's venus is the woman that he is physically attracted to. This worries me. I feel like as a Leo I always worry about seeming "tomboyish" even though I'm not really, but I am not as feminine as a LIbra lady. I worry that one day he will meet a Libra lady and decide that she is his "ideal" partner. Funny that you say the Leo relationship has been the best so far... Have you ever dated a Libra?? What is your moon in? Sheesh -- I love astrology but it really messes with me!! I feel like I know too much and it is making it hard for me to chill out. Ugh.

Any advice on how to relax and enjoy this relationship would be wonderful! I truly love this man and my worrying is what seems to be pulling us apart!! I used to be confident and secure and that is what he was attracted to and now look at me! Typing on here about him like this! Crazy!