Virgo men and breaking up (Page 2)

I know right.. who knows. here is the email thread re: stuff at his house.

me, 3/7 Please let me know when I can come pick up my stuff. I prefer you not be there, if you could leave it somewhereFrom this point out, I absolutely do not want any further contact with you
him, 3/17 R u in the area?
me, 3/17 No, I am not.
him, 3/17 Ok
me, 3/17 I spoke with Cindy, to make things easier you can drop my stuff by her house on Bradlee. Maybe one day this week when you drop Tyler off
him, 3/17 Ok
me, 3/17 Thanks, I think the only things left are, my leather head rests to my third row, Open House Signs, car matts and pajamas
him, 3/17, I forgot about those things do really want the signs now?If u want I can bring them to Cindy but they r heavy! U have a spare car key,PJ`s,headrest,a winter coat,your step stool ,a pair of gloves,an i think thats it.Did u block my phone number?I tried texting u ———————
me, 3/18, Whatever is easier for you, if you want to drop stuff off now and signs later, that would be fine. Step stool? winter coat you can donate. Yes, I did block you.
me, 4/2 Just wondering when you can drop my things off at Cindy's? She is going on vacation on 4/10 so, anytime between now and then if you can.
him, 4/2 I will drop it on thursday
me, 4/2 ok thanks, I will let her know, around what time
him, 4/2 Between 8 - 8:30pm
me, 4/2 great, someone should be there
him, 4/2 you want ur signs too?
me, 4/2 yes, please
him, 4/2 ok

I guess I do not understand astrology or Virgo's. All these post differ. confused

Everyone on here had some valid points and truth. I do not mind truth as long as it is not mean. The house thing started everything..I believe he wanted to make me happy but, was not really ready and went running fast. Although, it was his idea, I went running with it. For the weight, I was not happy with, at 5, 3 1/2 weiging 185, was not good. I have never been that heavy and to some extent let myself go a little, I admit that. So, if you are not happy with yourself it transcends into other areas. His email was hurtful to say the least. With that said his actions are different. For someone who wants to let go and move on, he has not... I have cut him off, our only contact is email, just to get my stuff. Which I have made it clear, I could come get, that he did not need to be there and so on. That did not work, I asked him to drop at a girlfriends house right around the corner from him, that has not worked. Today, he wanted to bring the stuff to my job 30 minutes away. I take my job serious and did not want to see him or have emotions at my place of work. So, I told him, I was at a training today. I hope that answers your questions, although I am still processing everything.

I don't think this is an astrology dilemma.


You were very good to him. He felt the need to reciprocate it. (Which is why he treated you decent during the six year relationship). He tried to feel an emotional connection towards you, but the feelings never kicked in. He hoped as time passed, the admiration, and respect would eventually lead to love...but it never did.

I'm guessing this is why you were blind-sighted.

He was simply passing time with you.

Posted by prplhayesr
Now he tells me he met someone, that she is not as pretty as me but, he has a good feeling about her. Not that he will marry her but, that it is possible. WTF—??

Hmmm...I don't believe he just met her. She was in the picture for quite some time. He may feel an emotional connection to her. Who knows? This woman may have also been the catalyst to terminate the relationship so abruptly and surprisingly. The emotional connection he felt for her may have been his 'wake up' call for the lack of emotion he felt for you.

I hope everything works out for you.

Who knows is right.

virgoking, now what— I don't know the time of your birth so I can't go into deep but looking at this chart I can see a lot of power struggles and both of you guys, both of you do not understand each others feelings. Both of your mars are square each other this show power struggle can also indicate miss understanding sexually. Both of your moons which represents your emotion are at odds with each other. He is more immature and light with his emotions and a big talker. You are more serious than him you are also a introvert at times and take things more seriously than he does. The only reason why I can see you guys were together is because your south node is connected to his venus, which in astrology represent a past love. When you to first saw each other it might seem like you knew each other before, and the connection was extremely strong. Some astrologers say the node person feels held back and wants to leave but I believe its more the planet person meaning him. his venus was tired but trus me he still misses you and so do you.