Virgo men and Cancer Woman

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Kikyy
@Kikyy
8 Years

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I am a cancer woman, and I had a relantionship with a virgo man. He used to be hot & cold. Unlike cancers, virgo men have problems expressing their feelings. He always got distant when feelings got involved.

Virgo men understand everything on a rational level but they get lost when it comes to feelings and emotions. As I am cancer, i need to be open and I think I used to scare my virgo man with being too emotional 😄
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HeavenlyLilz
@HeavenlyLilz
12 Years

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@Yupvirgoo I thought that too but he has told me point blank that he thinks about me all the time. We knew each other in high school but never got together life had other plans. flash forward more than 10 years later life may have planned right. He's told me he thinks about me all the time and hasn't gotten over me from HS and that he wants to be with me. So I'm just confused when the words and actions don't match especially with what I've been reading with Virgos.



@Kikyy I am also a cancer woman so I know all too well about needing openness and expressiveness (will be my downfall lol). For you when did the hot and cold stop or how did you get it to stop? Did you ever do the hot and cold act with him? Trying to decide if I should pull all the way back again or be the one to take most of the lead. We've gone through this a few times and he comes back all the time.
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Kikyy
@Kikyy
8 Years

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Posted by HeavenlyLilz
@Yupvirgoo I thought that too but he has told me point blank that he thinks about me all the time. We knew each other in high school but never got together life had other plans. flash forward more than 10 years later life may have planned right. He's told me he thinks about me all the time and hasn't gotten over me from HS and that he wants to be with me. So I'm just confused when the words and actions don't match especially with what I've been reading with Virgos.



@Kikyy I am also a cancer woman so I know all too well about needing openness and expressiveness (will be my downfall lol). For you when did the hot and cold stop or how did you get it to stop? Did you ever do the hot and cold act with him? Trying to decide if I should pull all the way back again or be the one to take most of the lead. We've gone through this a few times and he comes back all the time.
My virgo used to say that i was perfect, smart, unique, that he wanted to be with me, bla bla..and then after a small disagreement he became distant. The more i tried to understand what was wrong, the more he ran away. Finally he ended everything with his silence. Their words usually never match their actions (i knew several virgo men in my life). Virgos are mutual and they live for the moment, when they say they love you they mean it, but the next minute they can get critical and start hesitating about their "love" and distract in order to sort things out. Virgo men are smart, loyal, caring but very difficult to deal with as they are always scared of their feelings...
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Weeds
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10 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by HeavenlyLilz
Hi Virgos,

Tell me about:



How you show interest in someone you've known for years.

Why do you disappear (ignore texts and calls for a while, go cold).

Do you send mixed signals and why?

Virgo man and Cancer woman relationship?




My attention is good enough...

Cancers have a "me time" so do virgos

What may seem mixed to a water sign is plain as day to everyone else.

Caca