Virgo men and second chances...HELP NEEDED

Hi...

Guys even i am going through a lot here with a Virgo man i dated for past 8 months...last year i saw him first in college and fell for him...then due to my past experiences i didnt approach him and honestly was too scared that it wont work out...well god had other plans...we met typical movie style he got hurt while playing and i offered to put bandaid for him...any way we hit off well after that..initially we used to meet in college infront of everyone late night walks everything was going great and then we got kissed in our college fest and it hit from there....after some months we started fighting due to difference in opinion as i am a typical PISCEAN girl and was all into him spending time with me and stuffs...then he went back to his home and things changed...he told his family about me and they said u cant get married for next two years till he was self sustainable..and my family started insisting on marriage and things went down the drain from there...

we hardly met...although i saw him in college everyday...he refused to meet in college because he didnt like people making fun of us..another stupid reason which i never understood... then our fights got worse and we started drifting away....then we broke up...but then few days later i realized and tried sorting things out but then he was too adamant to make things work...i convinced him to give it another shot but he was too remote then also..then we went to our friends place for weekend...we had fun there with them but were totally remote to each other...then while he was sleeping in the other room i went and slide besides him to sleep as missed sleeping in his arms for a long time...then things got hot and we started making love although he refused to..but then he also gave in...thats where HELL BROKE LOOSE..

next day while coming back in the car he broke up...saying i cant handle u anymore and left me...i was blank..i cried so much tried to sort it out apologize but he was way beyond angry...for 2-3 days i called up to sort it he didnt meet...he was like "suddenly i have changed..u have made me change"...then after so much begging i gave him some time to settle but it became worse...he suddenly was a stranger rather than the person i fell in love with...past one month he has been but a stranger..then finally yesterday i called him up and begged for him to give it a chance and be friends so that i can try to normalize the things..to try making him lose this alien person he has become

i dont know y i called him up...but i was missing him so much and seeing him in college everyday so aloof so detached i couldnt take it...hes has become so remote doesnt even look at me like we used to..although i have caught him staring at me and looking for me during lunch break....

now that he has said he ll be friends..i really dont know how to get him back...i dont even know what i am doing...i just want things to be normal again just how they were...we both have changed..he has become more stranger and adamant and i have tried to let go of things because i have lost a lot of courage in between... please help me...i want him back..i really really love him...i cant see him hurting himself..he has changed so much hes not a happy guy as he used to be...i have really ruined his life...i ll do anything to get back the same man...please help...even if i have to sell my soul to the devil...i really love him and cant live without him...

Posted by Irritatedtoomuch
even if i have to sell my soul to the devil

*rolls eyes*

your showing too much weakens. Get emotionally stronger and move on. Live your life!

begging any man to be with you is a turn off espically virgo men. Show that you don't need him let alone any man.

once you do you might not even want him back for being an asshole.

I have done a lot of bad things by fighting and demanding too much from him...I have tried to move on but during this procedure I saw him like this and couldn't take it...I misunderstood him a lot of times took him for granted...he was always there by my side...

#1. DON'T SELL YOUR SOUL TO THE DEVIL!!! No HUMAN is worth that.....

#2. I would either try to give him his space since thats what he is asking.

#3. I would just try to be his friend platonically. I think nothing starts off good without friendship. all the other things included makes it more confusing. With giving space some virgos need their space. Coming on too strong can be smothering and thats something I have to tell myself while dealing with my virgo men! But us women are nurturing so taking care of is another language to us. Take it one day at a time.