Virgo men- Does action really speak louder then words for YOU??!!

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aquascorp01
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9 Years

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After I met this Virgo man and developed feelings for him, I found myself here.I never knew any virgo before & boy I had no idea these men are so COMPLICATED!It all started when He invited me for Christmas lunch with his family.He gave me lot of reasons to believe that he is into me.He made me feel so special and while we were sitting together he made sure that his leg touched mine.I moved away a little cz I thought he needs some room but his leg ended up finding my leg ..lol.. He asked me if I "like him like him" and I did give him a positive response but never asked what he feels for me.. So, He was showing interest in me.. not directly though.. and then when I also showed interest in him he backed off. So I stopped texting him (I used to text him often n he used to respond till dec 25th). When I sent him a msg saying that " I know he doesn't like me and I was not expecting anything anyway but why has he stopped texting all of a sudden." His response was " You should not assume".After few days when I made up my mind that I wont stress myself thinking about what went wrong.I got a text from him asking me to wish him good luck for one of his meetings.I have noticed alot of times He gives me little hugs at work. Most of the times when M around he either embraces me by putting his arms around my shoulder or rubs my back.. and I have not seen him doing that to any other person at work. He never said he has feelings for me but never declined it either and says "action speak louder then words". It was my birthday and He asked me what do I want for my birthday and I asked for His Time.He texted back saying "lets have dinner".It was my birthday and he asked me If he should pick me up.. I told him I would drive myself to the place but He texted me back asking for me to be ready and he will pick me up! When when we were having dinner, we again ended up having a conversation about liking each other, He did not answer my question rather said " don't action speak louder then words".He also mentioned that he has this habit of disappearing when I asked him why would he stopped texting all of a sudden. Newayshe took me to the beach after dinner and we talked about our families. He embraced me and kissed me on my forehead .. it just came natural.. He mentioned that his mom likes me and If I would like to hand out with his mom.. I thought its all sorted even though we were not texting and all and before I knew it.. he texted me after 2 days that "its good that you are feeling strong emotions but you should not let ur feelings go crazy cz I dont want you to get hurt by me".when I asked him what does he mean his answer was "he does not rush into things".I texted him back saying that "who is asking him to rush into things and what things"..then he texted back saying "sorry got ahead of myself".its been few days and i have taken a step back.I feel he likes me, I see it in his eyes.he behaves the same way at work.Don't know what to do. please help!
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Damnata
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Posted by aquascorp01
When I sent him a msg saying that " I know he doesn't like me and I was not expecting anything anyway ..."
This is bullshit.

For one, you do have expectations. Hence this topic.

And secondly, that is a disgusting way women go about emotionally manipulating men...hoping he will contradict her and make it clear. It shows no assertiveness or patience to see how things unfold.

He would do better not to rush into things with you because you seem to have no clue how men are and keep pressing for verbalizing things that should be understood. I think he does like you, but it will turn into "did" soon enough because you seem to gloss over his actions and he will go and find himself a woman who will acknowledge and appreciate them.