Virgo moons take forever to respond —

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ive dealt with this and asked this question too haha

basically, taking forever to respond... they're in their own world/mind. they have stuff they wanna do and they respond when they feel like it. To virgos you arent priority you're an addition to their life, so their routines wont change, they'll do themselves still. I called out a virgo on this and he said flat out "I do respond" like there was no issue lol. Anyway, He is always aware of what hes written so they do craft their responses carefully even if they are super casual. Virgos are just weird man.

They want their space, they shift their focus or overthink something and disappear and then come back like nothing happened. Annoying but its virgos for ya. They're attention lovers though, they love when you message them even if they dont respond to you right away. Weirdos.

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Posted by tauruss77

ive dealt with this and asked this question too haha

basically, taking forever to respond... they're in their own world/mind. they have stuff they wanna do and they respond when they feel like it. To virgos you arent priority you're an addition to their life, so their routines wont change, they'll do themselves still. I called out a virgo on this and he said flat out "I do respond" like there was no issue lol. Anyway, He is always aware of what hes written so they do craft their responses carefully even if they are super casual. Virgos are just weird man.

They want their space, they shift their focus or overthink something and disappear and then come back like nothing happened. Annoying but its virgos for ya. They're attention lovers though, they love when you message them even if they dont respond to you right away. Weirdos.




Yup, totally agree lol. Whole heartedly.
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought
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I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂
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honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'
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I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'

I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.
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what are your dominant signs?
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'

I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.

what are your dominant signs?
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Scorpio, Sag and Cancer- I'm obsessive, but quietly. Everything is internal and the other person would never guess cause I don't show it or say anything. My Sag sun acts like a big fake ass ball of sunshine on the outside. I only show what I want them to see. It gives me an advantage most times. Doesn't work with everyone, but it works with most.
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'

I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.

what are your dominant signs?

Scorpio, Sag and Cancer- I'm obsessive, but quietly. Everything is internal and the other person would never guess cause I don't show it or say anything. My Sag sun acts like a big fake ass ball of sunshine on the outside. I only show what I want them to see. It gives me an advantage most times. Doesn't work with everyone, but it works with most.
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i'm the same. obviously i'm obsessive but if you see me in person, i look so chill and act so relaxed that you'd be fooled into thinking i'm indifferent, bored or not interested but i could actually be secretly obsessed with you hahah.

in all appearances, i always seem passive and submissive but inside i'm thinking up ways to get what i want.
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'

I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.

what are your dominant signs?

Scorpio, Sag and Cancer- I'm obsessive, but quietly. Everything is internal and the other person would never guess cause I don't show it or say anything. My Sag sun acts like a big fake ass ball of sunshine on the outside. I only show what I want them to see. It gives me an advantage most times. Doesn't work with everyone, but it works with most.

i'm the same. obviously i'm obsessive but if you see me in person, i look so chill and act so relaxed that you'd be fooled into thinking i'm indifferent, bored or not interested but i could actually be secretly obsessed with you hahah.

in all appearances, i always seem passive and submissive but inside i'm thinking up ways to get what i want.
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Well let me know if you find a way to do that. This is usually when I end up just leaving it alone altogether, until they give me what I want lol I go completely ghost until they come back around. I don't have time for no's 😛
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'

I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.

what are your dominant signs?

Scorpio, Sag and Cancer- I'm obsessive, but quietly. Everything is internal and the other person would never guess cause I don't show it or say anything. My Sag sun acts like a big fake ass ball of sunshine on the outside. I only show what I want them to see. It gives me an advantage most times. Doesn't work with everyone, but it works with most.

i'm the same. obviously i'm obsessive but if you see me in person, i look so chill and act so relaxed that you'd be fooled into thinking i'm indifferent, bored or not interested but i could actually be secretly obsessed with you hahah.

in all appearances, i always seem passive and submissive but inside i'm thinking up ways to get what i want.

Well let me know if you find a way to do that. This is usually when I end up just leaving it alone altogether, until they give me what I want lol I go completely ghost until they come back around. I don't have time for no's 😛
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'

I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.

what are your dominant signs?

Scorpio, Sag and Cancer- I'm obsessive, but quietly. Everything is internal and the other person would never guess cause I don't show it or say anything. My Sag sun acts like a big fake ass ball of sunshine on the outside. I only show what I want them to see. It gives me an advantage most times. Doesn't work with everyone, but it works with most.

i'm the same. obviously i'm obsessive but if you see me in person, i look so chill and act so relaxed that you'd be fooled into thinking i'm indifferent, bored or not interested but i could actually be secretly obsessed with you hahah.

in all appearances, i always seem passive and submissive but inside i'm thinking up ways to get what i want.

Well let me know if you find a way to do that. This is usually when I end up just leaving it alone altogether, until they give me what I want lol I go completely ghost until they come back around. I don't have time for no's 😛

i'm there for the grade a sex
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yes and i hate it

but i am the same

so maybe it's karma

But it's keep your interest though, right?

yeah but i'm always lusting after him so texting is more of an afterthought

I'm frustrated with the Virgo I'm seeing too lol Not communicating is annoying. But I will prevail cause I like the push/pull of it too 😄 Even if I pout now. It still gets me excited on the inside. I love being ignored a little. It humbles me 🙂

honestly, when someone bombards me too much then i think they're being 'fake.'

I'm a weirdo who doesn't mind either. I like interest shown but then not shown. I think I just adapt until I get annoyed with the lack of consistency, then I just cut them off. But the push/pull is fun while it lasts. You Virgos just have too much going on for me. I'm gonna see how long this one lasts and see it through.

I'm in full on lust phase right now too- So much different from before.

what are your dominant signs?

Scorpio, Sag and Cancer- I'm obsessive, but quietly. Everything is internal and the other person would never guess cause I don't show it or say anything. My Sag sun acts like a big fake ass ball of sunshine on the outside. I only show what I want them to see. It gives me an advantage most times. Doesn't work with everyone, but it works with most.

i'm the same. obviously i'm obsessive but if you see me in person, i look so chill and act so relaxed that you'd be fooled into thinking i'm indifferent, bored or not interested but i could actually be secretly obsessed with you hahah.

in all appearances, i always seem passive and submissive but inside i'm thinking up ways to get what i want.

question... if you dont mind...

is there ever a point where you express the obsession? or that passion for the other person?

or do you always keep it to yourself? if so, why do you think you dont express it?
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i always brag that i'm mercury dominant but i'm still an earth sign. mostly i express myself in action. talk is cheap and can be fake. i think he's the same way (virgo moon). i'm going to be braver this sunday and try to defy the merc retro by being more verbally expressive.

it makes me feel vulnerable and out of control. and i don't like that feeling. if i get too emotional, it must be an accident coz i'm always trying to keep that under wraps. that's why it's so explosive when it comes out.
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i always brag that i'm mercury dominant but i'm still an earth sign. mostly i express myself in action. talk is cheap and can be fake. i think he's the same way (virgo moon). i'm going to be braver this sunday and try to defy the merc retro by being more verbally expressive.

it makes me feel vulnerable and out of control. and i don't like that feeling. if i get too emotional, it must be an accident coz i'm always trying to keep that under wraps. that's why it's so explosive when it comes out.

i always say that virgo is internally mercurial. not outwardly like gemini. virgos gather information & internally process it whereas geminis need to process w/ others. ime, both share the mercurial scatterbrain.

thanks for responding. i knew a virgo placement who had told me a number of times they were “fixated” on me & i was always on their mind. i was never able to tell so i never believed them lol 🤷🏻‍♀️
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yeah internally mercurial. virgo mind whirls with the same chaos and it manifests in our NEED for order outwardly. i'm fixated asf on this guy but i texted him only once or twice this whole week.

this is the kind of shit some virgos do.

the times i've confessed my obsessions or 'sentiments' to friends, they always express shock coz i'm so secretive about my feelings. they can't imagine that i've ever felt that way, that i've felt that way all along.

i pause a little too long and for all you know, that's the only sign you'll ever get that i'm heartbroken. weeks, months or years from now i'll say how i feel. and they'll come out all at once.
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Haha completely forever & then they come back and say they love you & miss you 😂😂🙄😳🤦‍♀️

Do you believe when they say I love you but they hadn’t had a courage to respond a few words? 🤷‍♀️
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It’s two different things. You can’t say they don’t just because they aren’t responding. It depends on the situation. Love doesnt make you all of a sudden be brave, or a good communicator, or able to deal with problems when you weren’t before. Virgo moons hide when overwhelmed. Yes I believe he loves me, but it doesn’t matter when he can’t deal with problems. When it’s just too hard.
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Haha completely forever & then they come back and say they love you & miss you 😂😂🙄😳🤦‍♀️

Do you believe when they say I love you but they hadn’t had a courage to respond a few words? 🤷‍♀️

It’s two different things. You can’t say they don’t just because they aren’t responding. It depends on the situation. Love doesnt make you all of a sudden be brave, or a good communicator, or able to deal with problems when you weren’t before. Virgo moons hide when overwhelmed. Yes I believe he loves me, but it doesn’t matter when he can’t deal with problems. When it’s just too hard.
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Love makes people change the world!

Love is the most powerful creator and destroyer known to a human kind!

What ‘problem’ are we dealing with here? Answering freaking text?

You love me - REPLY TO FUCKING TEXT! Is that too much to ask? Really?
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Haha completely forever & then they come back and say they love you & miss you 😂😂🙄😳🤦‍♀️

Do you believe when they say I love you but they hadn’t had a courage to respond a few words? 🤷‍♀️

It’s two different things. You can’t say they don’t just because they aren’t responding. It depends on the situation. Love doesnt make you all of a sudden be brave, or a good communicator, or able to deal with problems when you weren’t before. Virgo moons hide when overwhelmed. Yes I believe he loves me, but it doesn’t matter when he can’t deal with problems. When it’s just too hard.

Love makes people change the world!

Love is the most powerful creator and destroyer known to a human kind!

What ‘problem’ are we dealing with here? Answering freaking text?

You love me - REPLY TO FUCKING TEXT! Is that too much to ask? Really?
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Haha!!!! Love can make you let people take advantage of you.. Fear can be stronger than love. In fact it usually is! He makes his choice to not have what’s good for him. HIS CHOICE!!!!! Love does not make you get over your shit, you have take responsibility for yourself. Believe love is NOT everything!
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I care a lot about communication (I have Sun in 3rd and Gemini Mercury/Venus) but texting is hardly an adequate channel for it due to its limitations, it can even lead to a lot of misunderstandings. It also dulls my senses being send or feeling pushed to send random silly messages with words that say nothing and with a string of emoticons attached to it just for entertainment purposes as if I was bored with my life or something, I can do it but is kinda similar to the struggles of doing small talk in person, do I have to? I shouldn't feel pressured to do so all the time just to be nice or feeling part of the group, allow me to be myself here.

I think texting is only useful for quick urgent messages really. I rather be called and then being told something with actual content. Heck, sometimes is hard to answer my mother's calls when she spends 2 hours at the phone gossiping 90% of the time and the rest ordering me around. I have to dig for interesting stuff in her words because otherwise she's the one who is mostly doing the talking and I'm not the sort who shares the mundanities of my everyday life, otherwise I'll be part of the big circlejerk that is social media.

Social interaction is so impaired nowadays, that's what I prefer communicating face to face too. I'm actually upfront about this, about my anxieties regarding modern "communication", about how technology is dehumanizing society and yadda yadda. Also, I haven't use a cellphone since 2015. I keep myself stress-free (and forever young) thanks to that decision.
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Haha completely forever & then they come back and say they love you & miss you 😂😂🙄😳🤦‍♀️

Do you believe when they say I love you but they hadn’t had a courage to respond a few words? 🤷‍♀️

It’s two different things. You can’t say they don’t just because they aren’t responding. It depends on the situation. Love doesnt make you all of a sudden be brave, or a good communicator, or able to deal with problems when you weren’t before. Virgo moons hide when overwhelmed. Yes I believe he loves me, but it doesn’t matter when he can’t deal with problems. When it’s just too hard.

Love makes people change the world!

Love is the most powerful creator and destroyer known to a human kind!

What ‘problem’ are we dealing with here? Answering freaking text?

You love me - REPLY TO FUCKING TEXT! Is that too much to ask? Really?

Haha!!!! Love can make you let people take advantage of you.. Fear can be stronger than love. In fact it usually is! He makes his choice to not have what’s good for him. HIS CHOICE!!!!! Love does not make you get over your shit, you have take responsibility for yourself. Believe love is NOT everything!
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If it isn’t love what IS?

People take advantage of people regardless of love.

Love if it’s real stronger than fear!

Love does make you become better person and take responsibility...

Love is...everything ❤️