Virgo needs help with a Cancer guy!

Well my guess is, he has NO idea that you feel this way. You told him that you loved him when you were both young correct? Sounds like you were both in college at that point. It's possible he doesn't share those feelings because he views you like a sister (having known you for so long). It's also possible he didn't understand that you meant "romantic love". Remember you've known each other FOREVER, saying the word love can mean a lot of things.

Then you went off to med school and led your won separate lives. You rejected guys, but he wound up getting a girlfriend. Sine you're his oldest friend, it only makes sense that he'd introduce you to her. He also sounds like he still has other dreams he'd like to pursue, like traveling the world.

So to answer your question at this point what do you think is best? You already know that he's dating someone, but you're also lying to yourself by not telling him your true feelings. At this point you're torturing yourself. So either tell him your feelings OR move on and gives these other guys a fair shot.

If you DO wind up talking to him about your feelings, my suggestion is to say, "Hey I know I've said this before, but I have feelings for you. I know you have a girlfriend, but I need to get this off of my chest. If you ever wind up being single again, let me know because I think there is something here worth pursuing." Then walk away and let him do his thing.

Hey Chuckcem and Starwars Thanks for

the input! I appreciate it I just need to gain courage to tell him how I feel...

By the way Chuckcem we were young both in our first year of college, but he knew what I meant

when I said love he knew it wasn't friendship but romantic because that was the tone of the conversation.

And Starwars you made a good point about being friend zoned...I got to meditate on that.

But my question is this push and pull thing he does it's like at times he makes me swirl or he just avoids me? Its like he's leading me on...Well he is a water sign. The back and forth just gets confusing...

Even the way he talked about his current girlfriend he was like she's nice and all but I don't think she's the one?Then why be steady with her? Then why introduce her to everyone?

It's just confusing with him? I have other Cancer signs I'm close to they kind of are moody and do push and pull but not to this extreme?

Well much love guys thanks for the perspectives!!!

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