My best virgo guy friend and I were hanging out the other night. We were drinking and when the night was winding down he started the conversation about our friendship and a huge fight we had gotten into last year over some things. It was so bad we did not talk for a few months. I also was seeing one of his friends at the time. I have over time developed feeling for this virgo best friend of mine and I told the virgo this a month ago. I did not pressure for a response, simply told him how i felt and left it in his court. In this conversation we had he stated that he has cared for me for a while but the fact I was with his friend at one point "runs deep". He said that its hard because if he is holding me, he tends to wonder if his friend did the same thing. He then said "if you were wondering what is taking me so long that is it." I told him that I have been spending the last year trying to prove to him that I truely care about him. He asked me "what happens when it stops" I told him i have not and will not stop and that it has been hard because I never know how he feels, but started realizing he does care by doing things for me. So this is basically the end of the conversation. The next morning I asked if he remembered the conversation from the night before. He said "no", i let it go. We still have been talking and hanging out as normal. I am just confused as to if he really meant this stuff he said since he "didnt" remember the conversation. It is still bothering me that I have no idea how he truly feels or where this is going. Any ideas?
