Would you chose someone that needs you over someone you loved who may not need you as much?
Virgos Why Are Attracted to Cripples?
Posted by Tom_SawyerWhat attracts you to the weak cripples that need your help? Does it feel like a compulsion to help that you can not control?
I'd prolly pick someone that needs me than someone that I love..
Can't do anything about it.
I need someone that needs me yeah it's definitely a 'service' thing
Posted by the_sunflowerLOL!Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by the_sunflowerIt's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.Posted by coffeetimeTry to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?
Not the girl that wants me..
Then just date a wheelchair ?
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Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by the_sunflowerI can't right now..Posted by Tom_SawyerSo do you love the Taurus or does she need help?Posted by the_sunflowerIt's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.Posted by coffeetimeTry to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?
Not the girl that wants me..
Then just date a wheelchair ?
Dating a Taurus girl atm.click to expand
Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by the_sunflowerI can't right now..Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by the_sunflowerIt's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.Posted by coffeetimeTry to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?
Not the girl that wants me..
Then just date a wheelchair ?
Dating a Taurus girl atm.click to expand
LOL!
Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by the_sunflowerI can't right now..Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by the_sunflowerIt's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.Posted by coffeetimeTry to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?
Not the girl that wants me..
Then just date a wheelchair ?
Dating a Taurus girl atm.click to expand
LOL!
Posted by Tom_SawyerPosted by coffeetimeNow you're getting it *thumbs up*.Posted by Tom_SawyerSo in your opinion, it's more one-sided, with only the other person who sees the relationship as one. But you're just trying to fix them with one for out the door once they're "better functioning"?
I might be in a "relationship" with them, atleast that's what they think.
In my mind I'm there just to help out.
Once I help out and everything's good : Hello drama when it's time for me to leave.
"Hello drama when it's time for me to leave," sounds like creating pointless drama because the person can't break up with the other respectfully.
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So what if you found a woman with many emotional problems and needed your service and help? What if she never got better? I thought Taurus women were strong are they a mess?
Posted by coffeetimeRight.Posted by Tom_SawyerOu. So it's best to see some Virgos in relationships as mechanics helping you get back on track, but not ones who desire love and lifetime companionship. Relationships with them should not be expected to last.Posted by coffeetimeNow you're getting it *thumbs up*.Posted by Tom_SawyerSo in your opinion, it's more one-sided, with only the other person who sees the relationship as one. But you're just trying to fix them with one for out the door once they're "better functioning"?
I might be in a "relationship" with them, atleast that's what they think.
In my mind I'm there just to help out.
Once I help out and everything's good : Hello drama when it's time for me to leave.
"Hello drama when it's time for me to leave," sounds like creating pointless drama because the person can't break up with the other respectfully.
Sounds like they need a warning label that reads, "Temporary. Don't get too comfortable and attached."click to expand
Posted by GoodtimesWhat kind of help? What are you talking about?Posted by Tom_SawyerWhat attracts you to the weak cripples that need your help? Does it feel like a compulsion to help that you can not control?
I'd prolly pick someone that needs me than someone that I love..
Can't do anything about it.
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This topic is tripping me out.
Posted by starwarsI'm in stitches.
lmao
I've pondered this numerous times throughout the years.
Virgos do seem to be attracted to the needy. And thank goodness since these people are in need of having them.
I'm not attracted to people that tell me they need help. I wouldn't date someone just because of that.
I'm not hear to fix you. I'm here to love you, and if you need anything, I will do it, because I love you.
It's not so much that i want to "serve" you in the first place, it's more of the fact that if it gets to that point in you needing something(s) from me then it'll be okay with me. More than okay with me.
I'm not hear to fix you. I'm here to love you, and if you need anything, I will do it, because I love you.
It's not so much that i want to "serve" you in the first place, it's more of the fact that if it gets to that point in you needing something(s) from me then it'll be okay with me. More than okay with me.
I remember one time when I was sick. I had a tooth pulled with no pain meds. I was in bed talking to a Virgo guy. He insisted to rush to see me. It felt wonderful he offered but I refused. He kept on insisting. After that I ghosted him. I now understand the "criple" thing. Now, I suffer from shoulder pain. Wish I had a Virgo who would want to be there for me.
Well my virgo bestie does love her cancer man. But let me say he does have alot of issues going on with from what she told me. She is doing everything in her power to help him. She is very sweet, shy and hella smart. So i do understand the whole "virgo needs to be with someone that they can fix" yet on the same breath they want someone who has their shit together and can stimulate them emotionally, mentally, phsyically etc. Challenge them.
Cancer man in general are very emotional. And virgo and cancer couples usually happened alot. Ive seen that in my family also.
If its too easy it doesnt feel real, from what ive understood. Now it can depends to other placements but in general i see those actions happening over and over again..
Cancer man in general are very emotional. And virgo and cancer couples usually happened alot. Ive seen that in my family also.
If its too easy it doesnt feel real, from what ive understood. Now it can depends to other placements but in general i see those actions happening over and over again..
I'm a Virgo with a Sag moon and my Venus is Virgo as well. I can say that 3/4 boyfriends have needed some sort of fixing. I don't mean to go for those type of men but since Virgos love self improvement and always are looking for ways to improve I feel we look for men we can help grow and fix their life. Also, my venus doesn't help it makes me want to serve everyone of my boyfriends and lend a helping hand in anything I feel they need help in
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