what does it mean when virgo male reaches for his ex?

Well, not quite an ex, more like a f*budy (but i guess they were friends also)

We've been dating for 3 and a half years, I'm a libra (27) & he's a virgo (34) & we moved in together 5 months ago and things have not been peachy lately....

When we started hanging out (not even dating) he told her he was seeing someone and cleared things out with her. As far as I know she didn't take it so well so they stopped talking. Somewhere along the way, they made some peace cause they worked together so they talked occasionally when they met.

Now... we've been going through some rough time trying to adjust to living together & stuff and he started talking to her regularly. Nothing big, just catching up mostly but on a daily basis.

My bf is not that sociable. He doesn't reach out to people usually... so what's the point?

He still shows he wants to be with me but why da f* does he need that regular talk?

I'm not one to staying friends with ex's so I don't get it. Am I overeacting?

Virgo teaching for his fuck buddy?

After you guys started having a rough patch?

You know wat this is the lead up to right?

Wat was she to him again?

Ok...good talk

So he hasn’t had contact with her in 3 and 1/2 years but now they are buddy buddy? Suspect.

Posted by SagittariusInLove

Based on my experience if he’s giving her that kind of attention he’s interested.

I would sit Down and talk to him and let him know how you feel and what you need from him.

How would let your virgo (if you have one or not) know how you feel in this situation and what would you tell him you need from him in that type of situation?

Posted by llibra

Well, not quite an ex, more like a f*budy (but i guess they were friends also)

We've been dating for 3 and a half years, I'm a libra (27) & he's a virgo (34) & we moved in together 5 months ago and things have not been peachy lately....

When we started hanging out (not even dating) he told her he was seeing someone and cleared things out with her. As far as I know she didn't take it so well so they stopped talking. Somewhere along the way, they made some peace cause they worked together so they talked occasionally when they met.

Now... we've been going through some rough time trying to adjust to living together & stuff and he started talking to her regularly. Nothing big, just catching up mostly but on a daily basis.

My bf is not that sociable. He doesn't reach out to people usually... so what's the point?

He still shows he wants to be with me but why da f* does he need that regular talk?

I'm not one to staying friends with ex's so I don't get it. Am I overeacting?

I don't think he ever cleared anything out with her at all (as in i'm done with you for good). I f he had done so he would never be chatting with her on some kind of daily basis.

He needs to talk to her for only one reason...he's not done with her. He has some type of emotional connection to her bc he's still talking to her daily.

He should be emotionally confiding in you only and no one else. Going to some ex female is nothing but problems with what he is doing.

...But what exactly has not been peachy with you and virgo dude?

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Posted by Jambalaya

Posted by SagittariusInLove

Based on my experience if he’s giving her that kind of attention he’s interested.

I would sit Down and talk to him and let him know how you feel and what you need from him.

How would let your virgo (if you have one or not) know how you feel in this situation and what would you tell him you need from him in that type of situation?

Tell him to cut it out. Say "oh great, you're chatting again? Ok have fun, gotta go out, my ex called yesterdy to catch up, we're meeting in 30mins". And leave the house lol if he cares, it will hit him like a rock, if he doesn't nothing you can do about it anyway. In her sitaution this Virgo is sliding his way out and is pretty much a gonner. If they reach out to an ex it's a very very very bad sign.

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