What’s the trick to not overthink and be insecure as a virgo

I’m one of those Virgo where when things don’t go right ... I get negative and think of the worst outcome. I start feeling like I’m not good enough .

Like example : if my man doesn’t feel like talking to me for 3 days

Despite how secure I am that he’s not with anyone ... I come up with scenarios like.. we might as well break up, it won’t last , he probably doesn’t love me , maybe he lost interest, maybe he met someone new

Deep down I know that’s not the case .... but that’s just how I function when things Trigger me



And then the feeling goes away when everything goes back to normal . I do this a lot with everything. I think it’s insecurity from deep down too idk . I just hate that when things feel out of order , I go into this mode. It also might be the need to be in control



I’d like to be able to not feel this way n handle things better . It takes a toll on me emotionally n I cry a lot

Posted by UnicornSag
I'm no Virgo clearly but can relate to this. The way I see it, person I'm with has no reason not to talk to me for 3 days. If they don't feel the need to talk to me, why do I need them? Yeah I get all kinds of scenarios in my head as well but I see it in this way, who doesn't want me I shouldn't want them too. It's not insecurity I'd say, it's a need for affection and that's a normal thing to have. To have affection and to show affection to another person. It's not ok if it's one sided. But to think in this way you have to cool your head first and not think negativity. You can survive with every person that can survive without you, no need to worry then right? So look at bright sides in it. You get to see who's better match with you by observing how they treat you. Loving and caring person is always there for you, is how I see it.

Thank you I really like that. I’m capable of surviving without you !!! 🙂