What to include in an apology letter to a Virgo?

Title says it all.

Also, would it best to send it once they’re not so emotionally charged or?

Opinions/suggestions/advice please.

I've learned that with Virgo's, it doesnt matter what you say or do to apologize. They'll never forget. They may let it slide eventually but they'll never forget. Especially if you're romantically involved. Co-workers, friends or your child might be more chill about it tho. They just never forget.

Never apologize.

Depends on what you did, my mood and how close we are. I'm probably one of the few that tend to forgive more than I should...I blame my leo bits on that. People make mistakes but don't get it twisted...do that mistake again and you're dead to me. If something huge...then you're dead to me. We really do never forget tho lol.

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

“You are right”

I was about to post that lmao.

include pics of angels helping children as you recount their good deeds, and maybe quote some of the lyrics from "The Wind Beneath My Wings" by Bette Midler...

I would include a 50% discount voucher on detergents and personal hygiene products. If you wanna wipe the slate clean - that's usually a good start. 😉👌

"You were right. I should have listened to you. I was wrong. I shouldn't have done that. I'll let you put it in my ass next time."

Change the You's to "I' and the I's to "you"

This one looks good too 😄 -With an added " I love you" at the end

Posted by neves

I would include a 50% discount voucher on detergents and personal hygiene products. If you wanna wipe the slate clean - that's usually a good start. 😉👌

i wish somebody would buy me cleaning products for a change

i'd be tickled pink 😂😂

my leo friend as a kid used to read a little about astrology too then decided to give me bath products for christmas 😂😂😂😂

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Posted by PiscesGal76

I've learned that with Virgo's, it doesnt matter what you say or do to apologize. They'll never forget. They may let it slide eventually but they'll never forget. Especially if you're romantically involved. Co-workers, friends or your child might be more chill about it tho. They just never forget.

I feel Scorpios are the ones that are far more guilty of never forgetting nor forgiving.

With Virgos, if you haven't fucked up real bad, and are genuine with your apology they would forgive you. (Not forget)

But with Scorpios, you do them wrong once and they will bring it back up again n again n again every single time you get in an argument even though they will always say "They're over it".

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I dont share that experience. Dad is Scorpio, old ex is Scorpio and sis in law is Scorpio. I've met up with other Scorps aswell. None of them would bring up the past. The not forgetting I can understand but not the bringing it back up later. I also feel that Scorps can blow up n chill out 5 minutes later. Acting like nothing happened. Versus Virgo whom will stay upset for a while after.

I’ve actually drafted one out and it is super lengthy and I do genuinely mean everything I have mentioned in the letter. I guess I’m a bit worried as to how it might come across to her.

I fvcked up. I impulsively left the relationship after a bad argument. That doesn’t sound that bad (I guess?) but considering that I packed my ish, stayed at a motel for a few nights and told her that I’m going to fly back home a month early than the date we both had planned on, it left her in a mess. We were living together in the country she‘s originally from. I did come back to the apartment and stayed with her the last 2 nights cause she asked me to but since I’ve been back home - I’ve had to deal with a very nasty side of her.

I’ve already apologised but I wanted to send an apology letter that explained my behaviour. And maybe my behaviour can’t be justified but our relationship had truly become unhealthy.

Posted by iamlanaxxx

I’ve actually drafted one out and it is super lengthy and I do genuinely mean everything I have mentioned in the letter. I guess I’m a bit worried as to how it might come across to her.

I fvcked up. I impulsively left the relationship after a bad argument. That doesn’t sound that bad (I guess?) but considering that I packed my ish, stayed at a motel for a few nights and told her that I’m going to fly back home a month early than the date we both had planned on, it left her in a mess. We were living together in the country she‘s originally from. I did come back to the apartment and stayed with her the last 2 nights cause she asked me to but since I’ve been back home - I’ve had to deal with a very nasty side of her.

I’ve already apologised but I wanted to send an apology letter that explained my behaviour. And maybe my behaviour can’t be justified but our relationship had truly become unhealthy.

Yep. You fucked up. I dunno if there is anything you can say to fix this. I could be wrong....but the dynamics of the relationship have forever been changed. I personally would not trust that you wouldn't leave me like that again... then again...I have abandonment issues..

Focus on convincing them that you did not mean to upset them. The intentions kind of matter to us, we accept that people make mistakes and if we clearly see that you had no ill will we can forgive even if what you did or said ended up hurting us. Also, give them a bit of space to cool off first, they will be a lot more open to forgiveness if they've calmed down. Good luck!