@virgoOPPP
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What traits did you develop
I want to be “confrontational”? I don’t wanna bottle up my frustration and go psycho once or twice a month. ☹️
I know you wrote did, but I just wanted to fish for some karen tips. 😔
But to answer your question, confidence and self-love.
And Leo mars of course. 😏
Authenticity and Unconventional.
Always that deep fear of being different growing up. Everyone wanting to be part of something and me internally having no interest or giving a fuck being part of anything.
Possibly being too mutable.
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
Keeping quiet and observing.
I’ve always observed but when I was younger I used to say things.
Now I’m very careful with my words. May not look it online, but even then, I’ve been saying less. People “watching” is fun. Y’all are so… interesting.
Also being more carefree. Feeling all the feels. Sometimes it just really DO be like that. Chalk it up to my sag placements. All of em
Edit: perhaps “careful” with my words isn’t the right word… Moreso I just don’t care enuf to even comment
Cultivating patience and remaiming calm
Learning to be grateful for all that i have
Learning not to be needy
~Taurus Moon~
Baking!
Baking to show love instead of talking
Maybe cancer rising wanting to nurture
Maybe mars in Virgo wanting to be more efficient with every bake
Maybe Venus in Capricorn finding a safe space to express love
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
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I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
https://i.pinimg.com/736x/2c/18/c8/2c18c8fe6857dfc3ae860c14128b5c68.jpg
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
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Sorry. My quick searches for DXP are almost always very superficial. Especially when it has to do with me talking about myself lol I try to keep with the superficial Sagittarius stereotype most days! 😉
Social skills talking in front of people I can be an extrovert when I need to be. But when I was younger I was super shy I would hide in class just so I won't be called on.
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
Sorry. My quick searches for DXP are almost always very superficial. Especially when it has to do with me talking about myself lol I try to keep with the superficial Sagittarius stereotype most days! 😉
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You can go deeper than most when it counts though.
Learning to be humble and not overly domineering. I’m trying at least and acknowledge that I’m not perfection.
Nothing. My basic personality that I formed at 14 is still my personality.
"What traits did you develop"
def. became less of an absolutist/idealist. and more of a diplomat.
have certainly lost some of those black/white scorpio outlooks .....there is more than meets the eye sometimes.
i think my air placements have taken over for now.
Nothing. My basic personality that I formed at 14 is still my personality.
really? coz you're a capricorn?
More like traits I've lost but not being toxic or petty when it comes to intimate relationships, not treating my body like shit, and just having an entire different outlook on life about the things that really matter. Being happier off the interent than on. I blame Saturn. I am a boring adult ready to do more adult things.
i think i've gone the other direction than most.
feels to me that i was plainly more positive but now i get way too sensitive with people that usually turns to hurt and resentment then eventual avoidance. def more chaotic, inclined to lie on a whim and make decisions on a fleeting mood. and i feel that tho most of these prob came about as defensive mechanisms after some misfortunes, they're such useful traits that i feel i can only really enhance them 😁😁
like when the cancer sun/virgo moon and i went on vacation to the mountains. we passed by these ditches where some locals built structures on. and i laughed at some dark thought which made him curious. so i said it's coz i bet that people drink and make convos on those tables and benches they lay outside those entrances. and a bunch of them might've gotten drunk as one does, said some dumb thing and it don't take much to shove someone off those mini cliffs then go 'ooops twas an accident.' and a bunch of these 'accidents' had prob gone on these villages for centuries.
sickness, chaos and comments like this don't deter him apparently 🤭🤭 if i were less chaotic than this, there'd be no way to separate the wheat from the chaff 🤷♀️🤷♀️
later in life
that surprised you?
what placement might determine this?
Acceptance; of my flaws, of others' flaws, of things that wont change, of what's beyond my control, on the state of society, and on the human condition, on that I truly own nothing that's mine, on that I have absolutely no real control over the ultimate outcome.
later in life
that surprised you?
what placement might determine this?
Acceptance; of my flaws, of others' flaws, of things that wont change, of what's beyond my control, on the state of society, and on the human condition, on that I truly own nothing that's mine, on that I have absolutely real control over the ultimate outcome.
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The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
Sorry. My quick searches for DXP are almost always very superficial. Especially when it has to do with me talking about myself lol I try to keep with the superficial Sagittarius stereotype most days! 😉
You can go deeper than most when it counts though.
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lately i've realized how much of a huge fan of fire sign works (artistic/theatrical/literary) i truly am. always favored them. and though i've always preferred aries females and leo males, sags overall i've favored for their writing. very wise and just delightful how they express things. maybe it's coz of my fire houses. too bad they're pretty much capricorns about money.
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
Sorry. My quick searches for DXP are almost always very superficial. Especially when it has to do with me talking about myself lol I try to keep with the superficial Sagittarius stereotype most days! 😉
You can go deeper than most when it counts though.
lately i've realized how much of a huge fan of fire sign works (artistic/theatrical/literary) i truly am. always favored them. and though i've always preferred aries females and leo males, sags overall i've favored for their writing. very wise and just delightful how they express things. maybe it's coz of my fire houses. too bad they're pretty much capricorns about money.
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Lol there’s truth to that statement.
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
Sorry. My quick searches for DXP are almost always very superficial. Especially when it has to do with me talking about myself lol I try to keep with the superficial Sagittarius stereotype most days! 😉
You can go deeper than most when it counts though.
lately i've realized how much of a huge fan of fire sign works (artistic/theatrical/literary) i truly am. always favored them. and though i've always preferred aries females and leo males, sags overall i've favored for their writing. very wise and just delightful how they express things. maybe it's coz of my fire houses. too bad they're pretty much capricorns about money.
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We need money to travel! 🤑 ✈️ 💸
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
Sorry. My quick searches for DXP are almost always very superficial. Especially when it has to do with me talking about myself lol I try to keep with the superficial Sagittarius stereotype most days! 😉
You can go deeper than most when it counts though.
lately i've realized how much of a huge fan of fire sign works (artistic/theatrical/literary) i truly am. always favored them. and though i've always preferred aries females and leo males, sags overall i've favored for their writing. very wise and just delightful how they express things. maybe it's coz of my fire houses. too bad they're pretty much capricorns about money.
We need money to travel! 🤑 ✈️ 💸
https://i.postimg.cc/F1535RPd/7053-E5-AC-D71-C-40-B1-B702-02-FBF1-E0-DDA7.jpg
i remember my sag brother begrudgingly getting me a $ 0.23 drink couple years ago but then he spends a lot on his solo trips. was just trying to make him get me something for once 😝😝
The art of not giving a fucc. I remember being around 26 and all the sudden it was like a light switch came on and I just didn't care about what other thought of me and I had confidence to do what I wanted to do, without reservations.
No one was going to stop me or have influence over my decision.
I could never figure out Hicks. She’s herself one minute then channeling a man? 😂😂😂 I do like her messaging around point of attraction though. 🥇
I don't even know who hick is lol They just put a name under any quote. It's the internet! 😉
Abraham said it too lol
Lol thank you. I’m gonna watch some videos now.
Sorry. My quick searches for DXP are almost always very superficial. Especially when it has to do with me talking about myself lol I try to keep with the superficial Sagittarius stereotype most days! 😉
You can go deeper than most when it counts though.
lately i've realized how much of a huge fan of fire sign works (artistic/theatrical/literary) i truly am. always favored them. and though i've always preferred aries females and leo males, sags overall i've favored for their writing. very wise and just delightful how they express things. maybe it's coz of my fire houses. too bad they're pretty much capricorns about money.
We need money to travel! 🤑 ✈️ 💸
i remember my sag brother begrudgingly getting me a $ 0.23 drink couple years ago but then he spends a lot on his solo trips. was just trying to make him get me something for once 😝😝
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Money comes just as easily as it goes, might as well spend it on what you want and like! 😆🤩
Saying no, lot's of bad friendships and childhood trauma.
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later in life
that surprised you?
what placement might determine this?