why are virgos so confusing hot and cold all the time?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by tauruss77 on Sunday, April 7, 2019 and has 5 replies.

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@tauruss77
7 Years

My Virgo interest and I have known each other a while. At some point he started complimenting me, texting me, and seemed to be overall interested and sweet. We texted continually for a few weeks now, yet there are periods where he just is distant and will take ages to respond. and other times hes quick and chatty.

Another issue is that He will be very friendly and chatty via text, but when I see him in person he's super relaxed and seems like he couldnt care less that I'm there?? I am confused....am I friend zoned?? What even is going on?

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@pisceanloves
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm talking to a virgo , at least used to up until past Saturday 😄

Hot and cold, distant.

He's opening my messages right away but does not respond anymore 😄

I sent some cute message last night, along the lines

"give me your paws and let's make it up, no more ignoring ^_^ " .............

Crickets chirping .....

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Did you try and turn him off and then on again? Usually does the trick...if not hold the power button for 3 seconds, kick him in the shin 5 times while mumbling profanities under your breath... then repeat the above. Should be good to go after that ...good luck 👍