why do I (gem girl) attract virguys so much?

lol from my experience it's a "Moth to the flame" predicament. I think we tend to make better close friends than life mates. I'm sure you are sexy and provocative and have the ability to carry on all sorts of in-depth conversations on all topics, and that all excites a virgo. We like the mentally stimulating and the visually pleasing and you (Gems) are all that rolled into one. The problems tend to lie in our pickiness, need for routine, need for silence once in awhile (you guys don't have a medium setting, it's either chat our ears off or you're asleep) and our need to give advice to better yourselves that you ultimately take as negative criticism. Though it has the potential to work if both parties are evolved and hopefully not the epitome of each sign respectively, there's no wonder to why it gets very low marks on the compatability ratings. Hope this helps. Ray.

By the way you sound very manipulative which is a huge turn-off to me (unless it's in the bedroom :p) No harm intended, just inferring.

Virgo may be a bit boring and reserved for you, common do u really want a feminine dudess—? Do urself a favour and stick with an air sign. Plenty of chit chat for your childish behaviour

Go for it. If you have fun or learn something, it's not worth passin up imo.

Enjoy the cold breeze tho, afterwords. Haha.

Those are the kind of responses I would expect from any guy...It's possible though you could have a good relationship with one if you wanted to try it out.I met gem guys that seemed to like me but all was weird at moments and one had a girlfriend it's just I think their relationship was one of those open ones since I know about her messing around.
As friendship it's good as more that would be your choice...