Gemini/Cancer cusp boys more likely to cheat?

I know Cancers are known for being very loyal and Geminis are known for being very free I was wondering If Gemini/Cancer cusp boys are more likely to cheat than a regular Cancer I recently met a Gemini Cancer and fell very hard for him he told me that if we got into a relationship together that he would cheat on me because thats how he is.

Take his word for it.

I think whoever has Gemini in Venus are more likely to cheat??_...

I know a Gemini/Cancer boy. He's definitely....interesting, to say the least. He was up one day, down the next and then he'd be quiet one day, talkative the next. They can either be a good blend of both, or they just get all the bad traits from what I've noticed. This seems to be a very common cusp for me. They're very emotional and overly sensitive like a Cancer, but they are very much social (at times) the way a Gemini is.

Im a gem/cancer cusp and I wouldn't cheat on my bf for the world......Now if this guy straight up told you that it's not becuz he is a cusp it's becuz he is an asshole.........who is never satisfied with what he has becuz he is selfish and needs more.....

tell him to kick rocks.....

wow he must not want to be with you...cause thats taking honesty to a new level

My first bf was a gem/cancer cusper. He was a serial cheater. He also had venus in gem though. He was of the bad blend variety. At least you're dealing with one that was very straight up with you. Mine just tried to have his cake and eat it too by sneaking around behind my back.

Ahh~ Man. I'm also one of those Cancer/Gemini Cusps.
Not only that, but I've cheated. Several times, and I'll do it again.
But it's not like it's a secret, you know? More like a challenge.

I never really found out the meaning behind it.. but it happens a lot.
I did notice that it only happens when things start to get serious. I get scared, that things are actually getting too good, and instantly run off. But even so.. I tend to.. 'Like every person I run into.' I don't think it's that bad, if it's actually nothing. Everyone's so different, it's interesting to know I can 'win.'

They like the attention, and seem to have fun with the jokes. Letting them think they're important for just a little while is better then seeing them depressed.. or something along those lines..?

Posted by aires
I think whoever has Gemini in Venus are more likely to cheat??_...

myself being a cancerian and a venus in gemini, yes we do tend to want to cheat...that doesn't mean we all do, but the urge is very strong.

They can't be that bad, man..

On the flip side, when someone came at me showing their disapproval, I offered, "I won't touch another person again."
And they were happy that I was serious. "You'd do that for me?" They said. It was an Aries too. I was touched by how touched they were, and I haven't touched anyone since then.
Since months ago.

That's right! I usually have no intention of being with someone who's really good at relationships. Of course I don't want to hurt them..

It's really easy to see who else has no intention of being in a relationship, and someone who's actually a good person in that area. I like the company, but I'm not sure why there's a problem with actually hearing it called, 'In a relationship.'

My standards went up and up, so the good ones who really want something good, won't get hurt. The ones who're used to that kind of behaviour, surely have it coming again and again.

Well, I say that.. but I don't know why it happens so much. It can't be all of the Cancemini though, right?

Don't flatter me so much~
That horse is just as aww-worthy. 🙂

Now that you mention it, me neither.
No worries, carry on.
xD

No, no, I don't blame you. I think that's another good point you've pointed out. Would it be more influenced with Gemini just being in the chart.. or in a certain area? Do you think it's more Gemini/Cancer, or the ones with Gemini somewhere else like Mars or Moon? Maybe it has something to do with that belief from ages ago.. "If they're claiming everyone else is cheating, then it's usually because they're cheating." Maybe they lie so much, that they start to think everyone else is lying. It wouldn't surprise a cheater to be cheated on..

That's several times I've heard them pronounce they're going to cheat, but the person stays anyway. Why do they stay, you know? Saying, 'I'm not the kind of person you want to be with, you know that. But you're willing to stay anyway?' It's not hiding either. Willingly walking through the door and saying, 'I was with this person last night..' I mean, are they hoping they can change the person? When they actually said, 'I'm going to cheat.' Can they be blamed at for that?

I agree with that. All of that, Lol.
There's no reason to agree to a relationship, knowing what they're like. It's better to stick with someone alike, so no one leaves hurt.

Posted by NoDeal
Ahh~ Man. I'm also one of those Cancer/Gemini Cusps.
Not only that, but I've cheated. Several times, and I'll do it again.
But it's not like it's a secret, you know? More like a challenge.

I never really found out the meaning behind it.. but it happens a lot.
I did notice that it only happens when things start to get serious. I get scared, that things are actually getting too good, and instantly run off. But even so.. I tend to.. 'Like every person I run into.' I don't think it's that bad, if it's actually nothing. Everyone's so different, it's interesting to know I can 'win.'

They like the attention, and seem to have fun with the jokes. Letting them think they're important for just a little while is better then seeing them depressed.. or something along those lines..?

This is so trippy everything your saying is exactly what my Gemini/Cancer told me he basically " Im not good at that serious shit why does everything always have to get so serious?" he told me that he didnt want to break my heart and he knew that was going to happen if we got together.

I'm a Gemini cusper- with Venus in gem and I've never cheated. I respect myself too much to be a sell out.

I'm a Gemini cusper- with Venus in gem and I've never cheated. I respect myself too much to be a sell out.

Hi Im GiminiCancer guy /venus in taurus.
I dont Cheat but i look for options..
And im so honest...
every time i have a friend girl, people actually think that i like her because of the way i treat someone but its just a mistake... lol i just like to flirt most of the times and make them smile and we are romantic with sweetly innocent nature ..
My "libra ascendant" makes me selective,and very flirty .. when someone claims that she likes me, if i don't like her i just don't look at her and stay away (i dont want her get hurt). But if i like, i show them ... but conservative at first.

If he straight out told you he is likely to cheat, he is basically telling you he will. not asking.... telling! say hasta luego baby

Posted by Kendall
Take his word for it.

This. FWIW, my cancer/gemini is devoted and sensitive, but also honest and straightforward to a fault. If he's telling you he's going to cheat, he means it, and you shouldn't expect anything else.

I would never cheat. I am on this cusp, the cancer side. I can't imagine the emotional heart ache a person would have to attempt to endure. What if this were an earth sign who could not even cope with emotions like us water signs can?

Posted by Ariesgirlonfire
I know Cancers are known for being very loyal and Geminis are known for being very free I was wondering If Gemini/Cancer cusp boys are more likely to cheat than a regular Cancer I recently met a Gemini Cancer and fell very hard for him he told me that if we got into a relationship together that he would cheat on me because thats how he is.

Well I can tell you my new boyfriend is a gemini/cancer cusp 41 yrs old with Gemini in venus...this thread is scaring the hell outta me!!

Mmm..... Gem/Cancer cusp here.... and yeah there is a strong urge. Basically, if it's less than serious, there are other options. If it's more than serious, I hope we wouldn't be so stupid as to keep flirting.

So the question is how you define 'serious' lol.

Yes they can cheat, I have a friend who happened to have the same birth date as mine June 23rd cheated with his partner because their relationship was too complicated that time for some reasons. I guess, it only happens when they are not happy with their current status. He is a nice guy, helpful, a handsome and quiet.

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Posted by Ariesgirlonfire
I know Cancers are known for being very loyal and Geminis are known for being very free I was wondering If Gemini/Cancer cusp boys are more likely to cheat than a regular Cancer I recently met a Gemini Cancer and fell very hard for him he told me that if we got into a relationship together that he would cheat on me because thats how he is.

Well I can tell you my new boyfriend is a gemini/cancer cusp 41 yrs old with Gemini in venus...this thread is scaring the hell outta me!!

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LOL.. Cancer cusp Gemini is a loyal type... only if you gain their LOVE and INTEREST. You must have the same interest or hobbies or talents or favorites in life. I think you do.