Any other taurus here who responds late to shit?

Posted by GirlygirlNadia

I haven't seen this from Taurus usually they are timely responding however why do you guys not like to settle down fast? There's always some pause, delay and it's hurtful to someone like me who gives wholeheartedly it's like I have to give me love in increments 😖

I am talking about confrontation, getting bullied, volatile people lashing out that kind of thing, are you talking about not getting timely response to your love? I think you are with the wrong taurus we LOVE cuddling and affection.

I wish I had this issue....have a very short fuse (Aries Merc)...hasn't worked well for me in relationships as I tend to over-react then regret it later....need a very forgiving partner for anything long-term....on top of that I tend to attract extremely jealous/distrusting/reactionary types and half the time they're stabbing at me for shit I'm not even clued into, even if I'm doing everything humanly possible to do right by them....would be nice if I could chill long enough to figure it out, but typically that's not going to happen, so its easy to get stuck in an endless cycle of drama that's ultimately not going anywhere....only recourse is communication....if a partner can't come to me and talk to me about what's actually bothering them, which I know I'm very understanding around bc I share the same tendencies, it just turns into two people abusing each other, and as masochistic as I am I'll choose to ultimately spare us both....

Posted by Parkourler

Hi,

I am so bad at responding shit that I always confront the person later, that gave me a reputation for being obstinate and holding grudge. I dont take shit I just freeze

up and come back guns blazing later. Volatile Fire Signs already moved on but when I keep on bringing the issue until I feel vindicated they get uncomfortable when they sense my obstinance and quiet strength. that is the curse of having a long fuse, I always think i am just too lazy to respond to charged up people, I am better at being stoic and placid. People see me as an obstinate wrath bringing coward. Any other taurus reasonate with this?

like tls mentioned, it may have more to do with your merc. what is it?

for my bull, depending who you are, will respond at different time spans. family? it can take forever. he won't bite until he is really pushed. someone who he despises, he'll respond in an instant. no punches pulled. for people he doesn't know, they get what they give. if they treat him with respect, that's what they'll get. likewise be rude or aggressive and he won't think twice before giving it back twice as much.

he has a gem merc.

Posted by Fantom

Posted by Parkourler

Posted by GirlygirlNadia

I haven't seen this from Taurus usually they are timely responding however why do you guys not like to settle down fast? There's always some pause, delay and it's hurtful to someone like me who gives wholeheartedly it's like I have to give me love in increments 😖

I am talking about confrontation, getting bullied, volatile people lashing out that kind of thing, are you talking about not getting timely response to your love? I think you are with the wrong taurus we LOVE cuddling and affection.

I've been on the other side of this before. I have the opposite temperament. I'll have long forgotten I even had a tiff with someone, and then they suddenly act hostile, and it catches me off guard. I feel like ya know, I've lived another life since that happened, and whatever happened never stuck to me anyway, so to learn they're still carrying around bad feelings is a shock.

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Ya know, when you get yelled at or bossed around, you cause severe anxiety and stress, you think Oh man, I am getting

humiliated, dominated, they say Aries symbolizes a certain stage of child development I guess thats why so many

think its not a big deal. Short fuse people catch other people just as off guard. I guess I need time to recover, but then

it is far from over. It has probably never stuck to you, cause you were not at the receiving end and or you think its not a big

deal. Nobody punks people without getting a payback eventually.