Do I keep my Ex-Taurus man around?

I’ve mentioned in a previous post about my long distance relationship with my Taur. I finally cut it off when he started becoming distant out of the blue towards the end. Of course when I no longer reached out like he was used to me doing, he would reach out to me every few weeks.

In the beginning he would act confused & act like I’m the one that’s become distant. I knew his game here so I just kept it cool and would just say I’ve been busy, nothing against him. Then he would say how even though he knows I’ve moved on, or assumes so, that he would still like to talk time to time. But of course he wants me to reach out to him to make sure we keep in touch. I told him if that’s what he wants, HE needs to reach out. I told him I don’t chase nothing that doesn’t chase me.

He of course will tell me things like he wants to be with me and he’s miserable because we’re not together, but I don’t buy it. People make time for what they want. I explained to him my distrust and disbelief in him. He knows I won’t fall for the bs. I never reach out to him anymore but he’ll pop up on my phone every few weeks.

Tbh, I guess I don’t mind keeping in touch with him as a friend, but my question to y’all is if you think I should reach out to him sometimes? Or do I let him make all the efforts here? Though I don’t think of him the same way I used to, I do get concerned for his well being n don’t mind to know if he’s doing well.

What should I do?

i think if you want to be friends then yes make the effort.

but you think that he is full of bs, plays games and you don't trust him. you sound angry by all that has happened. i can't see the point of being friends with someone if you think that they are a liar.