sofreesome
@sofreesome
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Posted by Truemara
Like Taurus are always ok with ldr s.
Posted by LadyNeptune
His empty promises are his problem, not yours.
Talk is cheap. If you want to leave the door open for him that's your choice. Just don't hold your breath waiting for him to act on that talk.
Posted by pisceanloves
I've never dated a Taurus. I was in a talking phase couple times but it just fizzled out without me feeling any kind of spark.. Just watch out actions I guess.

Posted by allrounder
You might wanna be wary tbh. It's currently Mercury Retrograde and I literally just made a post here asking if anyone else has been experiencing people from the past reappearing randomly trying to get into their lives again. For me, I've had 2 guys already follow requesting me, and one of them re requested because I deleted it the first time. But they were part of the people who bullied me in the past too though I had mediocre crushes on them back then at some point too. And I watched a pick a card tarot reading on YouTube few days ago where the psychic said that around 7 people from my past will remember me or think about me, and at least 3 people will try to get into contact with me. So now 2 guys have tried.
I'm still not letting them follow me, cause I believe it's just a sign from the Universe that I need to do a lot of energy cord cleansing (not cutting as I heard it's more dangerous than just cleansing), and to do forgiveness work. But don't interact with the person if possible.
I heard Tauruses don't get over their ex's easy but I've never dated one so I can't help you there over than what I've read.
But I've had an online Taurus guy friend before who I've casually flirted with on text lol and he also said something similar to your Taurus. We live in different countries and he was like "you should visit me one day. I'll let you stay over at mine. I'll help pay your flight" "I'll drive you from the airport.".
That never happened by the way cause I was too nervous and that was just too unrealistic. He was a huge flirt and womaniser. Just be careful because words can be said without much thought or effort unlike an action. Too many talkers in this world, not enough do-ers.
And people who are drunk make mistakes they don't even remember.
Also people can't "fix" each other. That's just a control issue with whoever is initiating it then. People can only save and change themselves for the better, not other people.
Posted by saggurl88
He wants some guaranteed kitty for while, since he only has a limited time here before he moves.
Either pass or play.
Posted by alexscaries
Mentioned it before Taureans often go back to bad relationships, I know two people who did.

Posted by sofreesomePosted by saggurl88
He wants some guaranteed kitty for while, since he only has a limited time here before he moves.
Either pass or play.
Well he's not getting it. He knows I won't give it up unless there's guaranteed commitment so not sure why he would think that would work out for him lol.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by sofreesomePosted by saggurl88
He wants some guaranteed kitty for while, since he only has a limited time here before he moves.
Either pass or play.
Well he's not getting it. He knows I won't give it up unless there's guaranteed commitment so not sure why he would think that would work out for him lol.
You sure he’s moving?
Why don’t you be direct with him and ask why he is trying to start a relationship if he’s planning on moving? Ask him what the point of it is.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by sofreesomePosted by alexscaries
Mentioned it before Taureans often go back to bad relationships, I know two people who did.
That's sad.
It is what it is. I think they just want to hold onto the good times, of course they don't last.click to expand

Posted by sofreesome
If you've read my previous forums detailing my experience with a Taurus man I'm here to provide yet another update.
He started resurfacing again in late August. He sent me a message on IG saying he hopes I do well in school this semester. A few days later he replied to one of my stories. I didn't think much of this given his history of disappearing.
Noticed he started interacting with me more through IG. A few weeks ago, during his vacation he messaged me asking if I could "come back to him." I asked what he meant and he basically said our try at things was toxic but we have grown enough to try things again. Pretty sure he was drunk but he asked if we could hang out the following morning.
We didn't end up meeting but a few days ago he called my phone out of nowhere suggesting that we "fix us."
I don't think he means it tbh. Another issue is that he's moving soon so I'm not sure why he wants to work on a LDR. He said the distance doesn't matter because he can afford to fly me out whenever I'd like.
So yeah. Just providing an update. It's been a weird year with this bull.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by sofreesomePosted by alexscariesPosted by sofreesomePosted by alexscaries
Mentioned it before Taureans often go back to bad relationships, I know two people who did.
That's sad.
It is what it is. I think they just want to hold onto the good times, of course they don't last.
Maybe this are just my insecurities speaking. But he's a very rich, charming and attractive man. The place he is moving to in a few weeks is a well-known paradise and playground full of beautiful women. I'm not understanding why he wants to deal with me when he'll be gone soon. He can pretty much have any woman he wants and he knows I'm not treetrunking him unless we're in a committed relationship.
LOL it just doesn't make sense to me. But when I brought this point up he said he didn't care about those other women and that he wants to share the experience of his come-up with me.
Still taking everything with a grain of salt *shrugs*
Can he really have any woman he wants it do you think you aren't good enough for him?click to expand

Posted by sofreesomePosted by allrounder
You might wanna be wary tbh. It's currently Mercury Retrograde and I literally just made a post here asking if anyone else has been experiencing people from the past reappearing randomly trying to get into their lives again. For me, I've had 2 guys already follow requesting me, and one of them re requested because I deleted it the first time. But they were part of the people who bullied me in the past too though I had mediocre crushes on them back then at some point too. And I watched a pick a card tarot reading on YouTube few days ago where the psychic said that around 7 people from my past will remember me or think about me, and at least 3 people will try to get into contact with me. So now 2 guys have tried.
I'm still not letting them follow me, cause I believe it's just a sign from the Universe that I need to do a lot of energy cord cleansing (not cutting as I heard it's more dangerous than just cleansing), and to do forgiveness work. But don't interact with the person if possible.
I heard Tauruses don't get over their ex's easy but I've never dated one so I can't help you there over than what I've read.
But I've had an online Taurus guy friend before who I've casually flirted with on text lol and he also said something similar to your Taurus. We live in different countries and he was like "you should visit me one day. I'll let you stay over at mine. I'll help pay your flight" "I'll drive you from the airport.".
That never happened by the way cause I was too nervous and that was just too unrealistic. He was a huge flirt and womaniser. Just be careful because words can be said without much thought or effort unlike an action. Too many talkers in this world, not enough do-ers.
And people who are drunk make mistakes they don't even remember.
Also people can't "fix" each other. That's just a control issue with whoever is initiating it then. People can only save and change themselves for the better, not other people.
Although he began resurfacing before the retrograde, I am keeping that in mind. He definitely remembers what he said though because as I mentioned he followed up the morning after.
I really don't think my sign is compatible with Tauruses. I like them ideally, but they just never work out for me..
People keep saying they require patience but at some point patience feels like I'm getting played.click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by sofreesomePosted by allrounder
You might wanna be wary tbh. It's currently Mercury Retrograde and I literally just made a post here asking if anyone else has been experiencing people from the past reappearing randomly trying to get into their lives again. For me, I've had 2 guys already follow requesting me, and one of them re requested because I deleted it the first time. But they were part of the people who bullied me in the past too though I had mediocre crushes on them back then at some point too. And I watched a pick a card tarot reading on YouTube few days ago where the psychic said that around 7 people from my past will remember me or think about me, and at least 3 people will try to get into contact with me. So now 2 guys have tried.
I'm still not letting them follow me, cause I believe it's just a sign from the Universe that I need to do a lot of energy cord cleansing (not cutting as I heard it's more dangerous than just cleansing), and to do forgiveness work. But don't interact with the person if possible.
I heard Tauruses don't get over their ex's easy but I've never dated one so I can't help you there over than what I've read.
But I've had an online Taurus guy friend before who I've casually flirted with on text lol and he also said something similar to your Taurus. We live in different countries and he was like "you should visit me one day. I'll let you stay over at mine. I'll help pay your flight" "I'll drive you from the airport.".
That never happened by the way cause I was too nervous and that was just too unrealistic. He was a huge flirt and womaniser. Just be careful because words can be said without much thought or effort unlike an action. Too many talkers in this world, not enough do-ers.
And people who are drunk make mistakes they don't even remember.
Also people can't "fix" each other. That's just a control issue with whoever is initiating it then. People can only save and change themselves for the better, not other people.
Although he began resurfacing before the retrograde, I am keeping that in mind. He definitely remembers what he said though because as I mentioned he followed up the morning after.
I really don't think my sign is compatible with Tauruses. I like them ideally, but they just never work out for me..
People keep saying they require patience but at some point patience feels like I'm getting played.
It’s both patience and a firm hand. You need to be really secure in yourself and direct about your wants and needs—boundaries are important bc we are known to push them! The men are kind of like Scorpio men—puppy dogs you have to swat on the nose with a newspaper ever so often. They oftentimes respect you more afterwards for calling them on their shit and not letting it slide.click to expand

Posted by sofreesomePosted by saggurl88Posted by sofreesomePosted by saggurl88
He wants some guaranteed kitty for while, since he only has a limited time here before he moves.
Either pass or play.
Well he's not getting it. He knows I won't give it up unless there's guaranteed commitment so not sure why he would think that would work out for him lol.
You sure he’s moving?
Why don’t you be direct with him and ask why he is trying to start a relationship if he’s planning on moving? Ask him what the point of it is.
I am 1000% sure he is moving. When he called me, I actually did ask. I asked him why he wanted to try things again and if why he wants to possibly do an LDR..
I guess to him, an LDR is minimum effort. What I mean by that is he's a millionaire so he was explaining to me that it's nothing to have a schedule of pre-booked flights or have me stay with him a few weeks at a time. He just said that whole arrangement wouldn't be an issue for him. He's 2 hours away max by plane.
His answer for why he wanted to try things again is because he believes we've grown a little and earlier this year he was in a stressful space when it came to his work. But he works for himself now so he feels like he has more control over things.
Idk though. I take his intentions (or any man's) for me with a grain of salt.click to expand

Posted by sofreesomePosted by AbbyNormalPosted by sofreesomePosted by allrounder
You might wanna be wary tbh. It's currently Mercury Retrograde and I literally just made a post here asking if anyone else has been experiencing people from the past reappearing randomly trying to get into their lives again. For me, I've had 2 guys already follow requesting me, and one of them re requested because I deleted it the first time. But they were part of the people who bullied me in the past too though I had mediocre crushes on them back then at some point too. And I watched a pick a card tarot reading on YouTube few days ago where the psychic said that around 7 people from my past will remember me or think about me, and at least 3 people will try to get into contact with me. So now 2 guys have tried.
I'm still not letting them follow me, cause I believe it's just a sign from the Universe that I need to do a lot of energy cord cleansing (not cutting as I heard it's more dangerous than just cleansing), and to do forgiveness work. But don't interact with the person if possible.
I heard Tauruses don't get over their ex's easy but I've never dated one so I can't help you there over than what I've read.
But I've had an online Taurus guy friend before who I've casually flirted with on text lol and he also said something similar to your Taurus. We live in different countries and he was like "you should visit me one day. I'll let you stay over at mine. I'll help pay your flight" "I'll drive you from the airport.".
That never happened by the way cause I was too nervous and that was just too unrealistic. He was a huge flirt and womaniser. Just be careful because words can be said without much thought or effort unlike an action. Too many talkers in this world, not enough do-ers.
And people who are drunk make mistakes they don't even remember.
Also people can't "fix" each other. That's just a control issue with whoever is initiating it then. People can only save and change themselves for the better, not other people.
Although he began resurfacing before the retrograde, I am keeping that in mind. He definitely remembers what he said though because as I mentioned he followed up the morning after.
I really don't think my sign is compatible with Tauruses. I like them ideally, but they just never work out for me..
People keep saying they require patience but at some point patience feels like I'm getting played.
It’s both patience and a firm hand. You need to be really secure in yourself and direct about your wants and needs—boundaries are important bc we are known to push them! The men are kind of like Scorpio men—puppy dogs you have to swat on the nose with a newspaper ever so often. They oftentimes respect you more afterwards for calling them on their shit and not letting it slide.
Omg so I've definitely heard about the whole Taurians pushing your boundaries (or testing you as some say) and then becoming intrigued when you confront them. That's so weird to me lol!
I think I've always been on the more playful side when establishing my boundaries. Do I need to be more firm or b*tchy? Lolclick to expand

Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by sofreesome
If you've read my previous forums detailing my experience with a Taurus man I'm here to provide yet another update.
He started resurfacing again in late August. He sent me a message on IG saying he hopes I do well in school this semester. A few days later he replied to one of my stories. I didn't think much of this given his history of disappearing.
Noticed he started interacting with me more through IG. A few weeks ago, during his vacation he messaged me asking if I could "come back to him." I asked what he meant and he basically said our try at things was toxic but we have grown enough to try things again. Pretty sure he was drunk but he asked if we could hang out the following morning.
We didn't end up meeting but a few days ago he called my phone out of nowhere suggesting that we "fix us."
I don't think he means it tbh. Another issue is that he's moving soon so I'm not sure why he wants to work on a LDR. He said the distance doesn't matter because he can afford to fly me out whenever I'd like.
So yeah. Just providing an update. It's been a weird year with this bull.
Lol....Geeze Bulls. I find it interesting that he keeps suggesting that you both work on your broken relationship as though you asked to repair it....weren't you off minding your own business living your life when he decided to come back around? #FixSigns.
LDR or no LDR, if he wants to repair something, he should do the work and figure his sh*t out. If you are so inclined to get back together then you can assess what may need to be fixed on your end. Don't let this man dictate how you move forward.click to expand

Posted by sofreesomePosted by alexscariesPosted by sofreesomePosted by alexscaries
Mentioned it before Taureans often go back to bad relationships, I know two people who did.
That's sad.
It is what it is. I think they just want to hold onto the good times, of course they don't last.
Maybe this are just my insecurities speaking. But he's a very rich, charming and attractive man. The place he is moving to in a few weeks is a well-known paradise and playground full of beautiful women. I'm not understanding why he wants to deal with me when he'll be gone soon. He can pretty much have any woman he wants and he knows I'm not treetrunking him unless we're in a committed relationship.
LOL it just doesn't make sense to me. But when I brought this point up he said he didn't care about those other women and that he wants to share the experience of his come-up with me.
Still taking everything with a grain of salt *shrugs*click to expand

Posted by sofreesomePosted by LadyNeptune
His empty promises are his problem, not yours.
Talk is cheap. If you want to leave the door open for him that's your choice. Just don't hold your breath waiting for him to act on that talk.
Only holding my breath for my true love that has yet to come :-)click to expand



Posted by DMV
...he keeps trying to “we” you to death.
As if to make you feel some sort of responsibility or accountability toward the connection...
Posted by DMV
If a man wants you, he will put no doubt in your mind.
So much so, you won’t even think of DXP....click to expand

Posted by sofreesomePosted by pisceanloves
I've never dated a Taurus. I was in a talking phase couple times but it just fizzled out without me feeling any kind of spark.. Just watch out actions I guess.
If you've never dated one, consider yourself lucky. I've been with 3 and it was awful.click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by sofreesomePosted by allrounder
You might wanna be wary tbh. It's currently Mercury Retrograde and I literally just made a post here asking if anyone else has been experiencing people from the past reappearing randomly trying to get into their lives again. For me, I've had 2 guys already follow requesting me, and one of them re requested because I deleted it the first time. But they were part of the people who bullied me in the past too though I had mediocre crushes on them back then at some point too. And I watched a pick a card tarot reading on YouTube few days ago where the psychic said that around 7 people from my past will remember me or think about me, and at least 3 people will try to get into contact with me. So now 2 guys have tried.
I'm still not letting them follow me, cause I believe it's just a sign from the Universe that I need to do a lot of energy cord cleansing (not cutting as I heard it's more dangerous than just cleansing), and to do forgiveness work. But don't interact with the person if possible.
I heard Tauruses don't get over their ex's easy but I've never dated one so I can't help you there over than what I've read.
But I've had an online Taurus guy friend before who I've casually flirted with on text lol and he also said something similar to your Taurus. We live in different countries and he was like "you should visit me one day. I'll let you stay over at mine. I'll help pay your flight" "I'll drive you from the airport.".
That never happened by the way cause I was too nervous and that was just too unrealistic. He was a huge flirt and womaniser. Just be careful because words can be said without much thought or effort unlike an action. Too many talkers in this world, not enough do-ers.
And people who are drunk make mistakes they don't even remember.
Also people can't "fix" each other. That's just a control issue with whoever is initiating it then. People can only save and change themselves for the better, not other people.
Although he began resurfacing before the retrograde, I am keeping that in mind. He definitely remembers what he said though because as I mentioned he followed up the morning after.
I really don't think my sign is compatible with Tauruses. I like them ideally, but they just never work out for me..
People keep saying they require patience but at some point patience feels like I'm getting played.
It’s both patience and a firm hand. You need to be really secure in yourself and direct about your wants and needs—boundaries are important bc we are known to push them! The men are kind of like Scorpio men—puppy dogs you have to swat on the nose with a newspaper ever so often. They oftentimes respect you more afterwards for calling them on their shit and not letting it slide.
Scorpio men prefer a swat on the bottom.click to expand
Posted by DMV
If a man wants you, he will put no doubt in your mind.
So much so, you won’t even think of DXP.
This goes for men seeking women as well. A woman will put no doubt in your mind.
If you really want someone, leave no room for doubt.

Posted by XoDeadpoopxo
Maybe he's left his lucky socks at your place.
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by sofreesomePosted by pisceanloves
I've never dated a Taurus. I was in a talking phase couple times but it just fizzled out without me feeling any kind of spark.. Just watch out actions I guess.
If you've never dated one, consider yourself lucky. I've been with 3 and it was awful.
I dated hell ton of virgos and had the same experience. We are in the same boat. Zodiac doesn't really matter I guess, anyone can be less than. High value men are hard to find nowadays.click to expand

Posted by sofreesome
Update: He has spent weeks contacting me and insisting that we hangout and get dinner. He even invited me to a family dinner. But he'll ghost or never follow up. I'm over the hot and cold behavior. I can't waste anymore energy wondering why he does these things. I'm moving on for good.

Posted by sofreesome
Update: He has spent weeks contacting me and insisting that we hangout and get dinner. He even invited me to a family dinner. But he'll ghost or never follow up. I'm over the hot and cold behavior. I can't waste anymore energy wondering why he does these things. I'm moving on for good.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by sofreesomePosted by LadyNeptune
His empty promises are his problem, not yours.
Talk is cheap. If you want to leave the door open for him that's your choice. Just don't hold your breath waiting for him to act on that talk.
Only holding my breath for my true love that has yet to come :-)
Like why is he so arrogant tho? Such a turn off.
"Lets give it a go again because we've grown and are less toxic" Exqueeze me, talk for your own toxic self.
"Long distance is no issue, I got money I can fly you out to stay with me for weeks at a time" Smh so your just supposed to put your whole life on hold for HIS convenience.
If he's gonna treat you like a paid concubine he better start blessing your bank account. High end escorts charge a few thousand per night. *inserts venmo*click to expand
Posted by sofreesome
Update: He has spent weeks contacting me and insisting that we hangout and get dinner. He even invited me to a family dinner. But he'll ghost or never follow up. I'm over the hot and cold behavior. I can't waste anymore energy wondering why he does these things. I'm moving on for good.

Posted by sofreesome
Update: He has spent weeks contacting me and insisting that we hangout and get dinner. He even invited me to a family dinner. But he'll ghost or never follow up. I'm over the hot and cold behavior. I can't waste anymore energy wondering why he does these things. I'm moving on for good.
Posted by DMVPosted by sofreesome
Update: He has spent weeks contacting me and insisting that we hangout and get dinner. He even invited me to a family dinner. But he'll ghost or never follow up. I'm over the hot and cold behavior. I can't waste anymore energy wondering why he does these things. I'm moving on for good.
He’s looking for attentionclick to expand
Posted by Librasetting777Posted by sofreesome
Update: He has spent weeks contacting me and insisting that we hangout and get dinner. He even invited me to a family dinner. But he'll ghost or never follow up. I'm over the hot and cold behavior. I can't waste anymore energy wondering why he does these things. I'm moving on for good.
lol I'm dealing with a Taurus women who wants me back..just doesnt get the message and it turns out their pro stalkers lol.click to expand

Posted by sofreesomePosted by Librasetting777Posted by sofreesome
Update: He has spent weeks contacting me and insisting that we hangout and get dinner. He even invited me to a family dinner. But he'll ghost or never follow up. I'm over the hot and cold behavior. I can't waste anymore energy wondering why he does these things. I'm moving on for good.
lol I'm dealing with a Taurus women who wants me back..just doesnt get the message and it turns out their pro stalkers lol.
Had this experience with an earlier Taurus ex as well. They don't go away unless you revoke all access.click to expand
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He started resurfacing again in late August. He sent me a message on IG saying he hopes I do well in school this semester. A few days later he replied to one of my stories. I didn't think much of this given his history of disappearing.
Noticed he started interacting with me more through IG. A few weeks ago, during his vacation he messaged me asking if I could "come back to him." I asked what he meant and he basically said our try at things was toxic but we have grown enough to try things again. Pretty sure he was drunk but he asked if we could hang out the following morning.
We didn't end up meeting but a few days ago he called my phone out of nowhere suggesting that we "fix us."
I don't think he means it tbh. Another issue is that he's moving soon so I'm not sure why he wants to work on a LDR. He said the distance doesn't matter because he can afford to fly me out whenever I'd like.
So yeah. Just providing an update. It's been a weird year with this bull.