Capricorn discretion

So. I'm a Capricorn. I am having issues with my BF telling people about our sex life. It doesnt seem to be a problem with him but I don't want others to know what happens behind closed doors.

We were driving with another person in the car, when he turned to me and asked if I remember having sex in the boat...

I told him "That wasn't me." And the guy in the backseat responsed with "Damn!"

But, this isn't the first, second or even 3rd time he's brought up our sex life to others. He even said something to my sister. It wasn't too bad but nobody wants to hear about that! And it is super embarrassing.

So, I am a pretty private person and personify that cold, frigid Capricorn personality that we are all famous for. I am a woman who doesn't even really want to hold hands in public. But I don't know if I'm being too prudish or if he's just got a loud mouth.

Btw. He even went as far as texting somebody I know about my kinks when he got angry at me. That time, it wasn't a big deal because the person already knew and kind of blew it off as no big deal.

I have to bring this up with my BF soon but hate talking about this crap. When it comes to this, he thinks I'm being stubborn and close minded and I think he's just super immature.

I am close to breaking off our 3 year relationship if he refuses to stop telling all.

He is a Scorpio with Mars in Aries so he can be a big baby.

But, am I wrong for not wanting all his friends to know about our sex lives? I live in a very small town!

You're def not wrong. I would be so livid . He's being disrespectful and yes immature. How old is he?

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Sounds very immature and needs to be more respectful to you and no you’re not in the wrong at all.

Why haven't you already addressed this with him? I would not accept that for a moment.

Normally people don't change their behavior, maybe for some time to make you feel that he listened to you, but we normally get back to our usual behaviour.

Most probably this behavior won't change so take it or leave it... but all 3 years, this showed now? or were u used to putting up with his behavior before and now u can't do this anymore?

You not liking to hold hands and he talks about your sex life to others. There is a HUGE gap in your characters. Take it seriously pls....

Posted by Vicktoria

No, you're not wrong and he's a loudmouth jerk for not respecting the relationship.

"He even went as far as texting somebody I know about my kinks when he got angry at me."

Do you see what he's doing? What an azzhole.

Red flag.

'A gentleman never tells'

Posted by Vicktoria

No, you're not wrong and he's a loudmouth jerk for not respecting the relationship.

"He even went as far as texting somebody I know about my kinks when he got angry at me."

Do you see what he's doing? What an azzhole.

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i'd be so annoyed tbh

this one of the reasons i like caps

they don't run their mouths

Im surprised that a scorpio is kissing and telling. Not our style and I'm sorry you went thru that. Tell him. If he doesn't take it seriously, close shop and keep distance until he learns or you find someone who will respect your wishes.

That's some fuck boi shit for real.

He's just showing off, like a silly boy

If he carries on, tell him you'll say to his friends it's all lies and you've never had sex with him

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dump his ass