@virgoOPPP
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why does this feel
Why Does This Feel Like an Instant Connection
An instant connection often occurs when astrological signs like Capricorn and Pisces align, creating a balance of ambition and emotional depth. Such relationships can feel intense and natural, fostering deep attachment and curiosity. This connection could be influenced by shared values, mutual understanding, and complementary traits that trigger a sense of familiarity and closeness.
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even my pullen was altered
but maybe that's just some new development from the site
capricorn replaced pisces as my 2nd dominant
and i'm cardinal dom now by like 1% instead of mutable dom
still very odd that it coincides with me dating a cap sun/pisces moon
with our first official date with the sun in capricorn and the moon in virgo
Enjoy the ride.
i think this combo may even be better than pisces with aries placements
cute
Lol... weren’t you also madly in love with an Aries not so long ago?
Maybe this is just the way you function? You fall fast.
Just enjoy the ride and don’t take it so seriously...lol
meh i wasn't that emotionally-involved with the aries but i tried
and honestly never envisioned a concrete future with him
we barely even talked anything outside of sweet nothings
this guy is sentimental but at the same time talks a lot of numbers
we even had a cheesy ferris wheel kiss
you're the woman I'd make sure my brother doesn't end up with
I already know he's so insecure he'd want someone sub par
no thanks
what is a 'sun par?'
Caps like to plan... I know it messes with my head too. Like they said.. enjoy the ride!
i know you think i'm just talking virgo numbers
but he gives me this sense of direction, purpose and drive
in some ways, i feel like we are so similar
there's a part of him that talks numbers
but in some ways he feels like my dad.... but not in that way
he'd take me home right to my doorstep lol it's like he came from another time
hell we talked about kids... we're both fucking nuts! ❤️❤️
and maybe you'd think maybe i'm just into it coz hey it's practical
but the more that he doesn't attempt anything too sexual with me, the more that i want him
call me crazy but there's something about the excess of some past generations that makes you feel desensitized about sex and the idea of sex that it almost makes you want to throw up
this man in some core level, share this same sentiment with me
imagine someone talking in the same sentence about the measurement of the divisions we'd build in concrete then about how he can't sleep coz of how we kissed yesterday and continues to not sleep for hours talking to me over the phone
i swear it feels as if we're the same person sometimes
and maybe you'd think maybe i'm just into it coz hey it's practical
but the more that he doesn't attempt anything too sexual with me, the more that i want him
call me crazy but there's something about the excess of some past generations that makes you feel desensitized about sex and the idea of sex that it almost makes you want to throw up
this man in some core level, share this same sentiment with me
imagine someone talking in the same sentence about the measurement of the divisions we'd build in concrete then about how he can't sleep coz of how we kissed yesterday and continues to not sleep for hours talking to me over the phone
i swear it feels as if we're the same person sometimes
awwww
it's not that i can know you really, but i can't imagine you doing something cause it's practical. i mean you legit liked that weirdo with money issues cause he was interesting lol and i can relate 100% .
anyway, sounds like something you should give a chance.
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when it comes to relationships, i don't really judge people in the material sense outside of physical/gut attraction
some people have outright called me dumb/stupid for this but i don't care
i can't do anything that my feelings can't compromise with
but now i've got this guy whose probably the classiest i've ever dated coz god knows i usually have trash aesthetic
Where is his venus?
aquarius
my venus is in the 11th
and it's almost a cancer/leo cusp
Where is his venus?
aquarius
my venus is in the 11th
and it's almost a cancer/leo cusp
Just be careful.
At some point that venus may pull the rug from under you for shock value.
My Cap has these placements. The beginning was the roughest.
Same kind of connection you are talking about and then......completely cold for awhile.
It's like their feelings start to creep in and they flip a switch.
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he's been with a pisces girl for 11 years
so i can tell he's relationship material and he stated plainly that's what he wants
today he's barely slept 3 hours coz he won't put the phone down
hell he spends his 15 min break with me on the phone
for some reason, aqua moon/venus men like to talk business + sex with me all the time lol
he never makes me pay for anything and seems almost offended when i attempt to pay
this guy got so much self-control that it's so sexy to me
like i can tell today that he wanted to go further but he had to stop
on the way home in the car, we made out like crazy and
srsly i don't even know what the driver thinks about me anymore
aqua venus sometimes lusts over the idea rather than the actual
Lol... weren’t you also madly in love with an Aries not so long ago?
Maybe this is just the way you function? You fall fast.
Just enjoy the ride and don’t take it so seriously...lol
meh i wasn't that emotionally-involved with the aries but i tried
and honestly never envisioned a concrete future with him
we barely even talked anything outside of sweet nothings
this guy is sentimental but at the same time talks a lot of numbers
we even had a cheesy ferris wheel kiss
That’s exactly what I mean. I remember how you gushed and obsessed about Aries and it was only until it ended that you say it’s not a big deal.
You said the same for the Pisces.
It just seems like this is your process. Your high doesn’t phase me any more. The words lost their value for me because it only expresses what you feel this hour, but tomorrow might be very different... depending on the occurrences of the day, lol.
I just find it interesting... 🤔. Don’t know many people like this...
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i've been with one pisces for yearsss but that other one is a con
aries is a rebound tbh
Lol... weren’t you also madly in love with an Aries not so long ago?
Maybe this is just the way you function? You fall fast.
Just enjoy the ride and don’t take it so seriously...lol
meh i wasn't that emotionally-involved with the aries but i tried
and honestly never envisioned a concrete future with him
we barely even talked anything outside of sweet nothings
this guy is sentimental but at the same time talks a lot of numbers
we even had a cheesy ferris wheel kiss
That’s exactly what I mean. I remember how you gushed and obsessed about Aries and it was only until it ended that you say it’s not a big deal.
You said the same for the Pisces.
It just seems like this is your process. Your high doesn’t phase me any more. The words lost their value for me because it only expresses what you feel this hour, but tomorrow might be very different... depending on the occurrences of the day, lol.
I just find it interesting... 🤔. Don’t know many people like this...
i've been with one pisces for yearsss but that other one is a con
aries is a rebound tbh
Exactly. But when you expressed yourself of them at the time, you made it sound as if they were God’s gift sent from the heavens just for you.
All I’m saying is, you express love very intensely... no matter how important or non important they actually are for you.
Their importance does not equal the words you use to describe them. The words you use are not realistic of the matter, of the person or of your true feelings for that person.
They are extremely fleeting...
It’s just funny to me🙃
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i'm pisces, neptune, mars and first house dominant
go big or go home
but i swear it feels different this time
though it's true i can move on quick for one reason or other
Where is his venus?
aquarius
my venus is in the 11th
and it's almost a cancer/leo cusp
Just be careful.
At some point that venus may pull the rug from under you for shock value.
My Cap has these placements. The beginning was the roughest.
Same kind of connection you are talking about and then......completely cold for awhile.
It's like their feelings start to creep in and they flip a switch.
aqua venus sometimes lusts over the idea rather than the actual
This ^^^^
That may work well with your placements. I struggled with it.
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there's this pisces sun with aqua moon and venus i think....
he's got this micro tissue whatever business he's trying to get me into
but he's also trying to get into my pants at the same time
he pops up every now and then mostly talking about business and his fantasies of me
am i doing anything to make this reality? nope lol and i'm just chill about it
what's wrong with a little harmless nothing convo?
and thing is i'm always a good sport, maybe coz i'm a mutable
Where is his venus?
aquarius
my venus is in the 11th
and it's almost a cancer/leo cusp
Just be careful.
At some point that venus may pull the rug from under you for shock value.
My Cap has these placements. The beginning was the roughest.
Same kind of connection you are talking about and then......completely cold for awhile.
It's like their feelings start to creep in and they flip a switch.
aqua venus sometimes lusts over the idea rather than the actual
This ^^^^
That may work well with your placements. I struggled with it.
there's this pisces sun with aqua moon and venus i think....
he's got this micro tissue whatever business he's trying to get me into
but he's also trying to get into my pants at the same time
he pops up every now and then mostly talking about business and his fantasies of me
am i doing anything to make this reality? nope lol and i'm just chill about it
what's wrong with a little harmless nothing convo?
and thing is i'm always a good sport, maybe coz i'm a mutable
Having so much mutable probably does help.
Someone's fleeting idea spoken out loud can change my entire course 🤣😂🤣
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i'm inclined to romanticism
but i'm also one of those people who'd be like: "you know, maybe you're better off with someone else."
and actually genuinely mean it
i've never really tried to hold anyone down
*giggles*
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nosy gem
your moon can't even support me
*giggles*
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nosy gem
your moon can't even support me
Sorry, babe. It just cracks me up. I sound just like you when I fall in love, too fast and too furious, but I'm Taurus Venus, and that shit doesn't go away for years.
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blind and manic?
i don't care, doesn't change how i feel
aqua venus sometimes lusts over the idea rather than the actual
Most def
And, I sometimes get grossed out over the strangest things affectionate.
Lol... weren’t you also madly in love with an Aries not so long ago?
Maybe this is just the way you function? You fall fast.
Just enjoy the ride and don’t take it so seriously...lol
meh i wasn't that emotionally-involved with the aries but i tried
and honestly never envisioned a concrete future with him
we barely even talked anything outside of sweet nothings
this guy is sentimental but at the same time talks a lot of numbers
we even had a cheesy ferris wheel kiss
That’s exactly what I mean. I remember how you gushed and obsessed about Aries and it was only until it ended that you say it’s not a big deal.
You said the same for the Pisces.
It just seems like this is your process. Your high doesn’t phase me any more. The words lost their value for me because it only expresses what you feel this hour, but tomorrow might be very different... depending on the occurrences of the day, lol.
I just find it interesting... 🤔. Don’t know many people like this...
i've been with one pisces for yearsss but that other one is a con
aries is a rebound tbh
Exactly. But when you expressed yourself of them at the time, you made it sound as if they were God’s gift sent from the heavens just for you.
All I’m saying is, you express love very intensely... no matter how important or non important they actually are for you.
Their importance does not equal the words you use to describe them. The words you use are not realistic of the matter, of the person or of your true feelings for that person.
They are extremely fleeting...
It’s just funny to me🙃
i'm pisces, neptune, mars and first house dominant
go big or go home
but i swear it feels different this time
though it's true i can move on quick for one reason or other
That is a very interesting phrase to use “go big or go home”. I see how you mean it, but it has nothing to do with endurance, focus or long haul.
I see that phrase completely different than you. To me, it’s sustaining a path without being easily swayed, derailed or giving up.
For you, it’s a fleeting emotion.
Well... enjoy the new emotions this time!! Hopefully they last longer than the last.
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are you a fixed sun or moon?
aqua venus sometimes lusts over the idea rather than the actual
Most def
And, I sometimes get grossed out over the strangest things affectionate.
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i've got venus in the 11th so i can identify with aqua venus.
read this about the energy and understand the vibe:
"They like to choose their terms when involved in a relationship, and this can be challenging for a partner, as their terms can be changeable! They may be reacting to a condition or situation of the moment, for example. With the exception of this quality, Venus in Aquarius people are some of the most unselfish people in love. They allow you freedom to be yourself, and are rarely clinging or controlling. They are easygoing in this manner because a partner can appeal to their sense of reason, and they always strive to be exceptionally fair and impartial. They are often attracted to art, furnishings, clothing, and music from ancient times as well as modern, abstract, and futuristic."
"Even if Venus Aquarius outwardly blends in, there's likely something unusual about their mindset. You can be maddening when you're in crusader mode, with a slight tinge of self-righteousness."
i'm really convinced venus determines how we move in relationships don't matter the gender, even moreso than the mars.
@MareInfame this might help you understand how i go about things
I'm more interested in your Virgo drivers secret life.
lol he's way too cold to talk to
Posted by delusions_of_grandhair
You’re pretty much married now
i know we both sounds nuts
but this the first time i've actually felt more open to marriage
@ virgoOPPP
Sorry to interrupt and sound randomly creepy but how are you currently wearing your hair?
@ virgoOPPP
Sorry to interrupt and sound randomly creepy but how are you currently wearing your hair?
??
wrong thread?
@ virgoOPPP
Sorry to interrupt and sound randomly creepy but how are you currently wearing your hair?
??
wrong thread?
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😄
Well, maybe the wrong thread to ask such a question, but definitely right person.
@ virgoOPPP
Sorry to interrupt and sound randomly creepy but how are you currently wearing your hair?
??
wrong thread?
😄
Well, maybe the wrong thread to ask such a question, but definitely right person.
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i still don't get it?
@ virgoOPPP
Sorry to interrupt and sound randomly creepy but how are you currently wearing your hair?
??
wrong thread?
😄
Well, maybe the wrong thread to ask such a question, but definitely right person.
i still don't get it?
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What don't you get?
Posted by delusions_of_grandhair
You’re pretty much married now
i know we both sounds nuts
but this the first time i've actually felt more open to marriage
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You’ve never felt this way chatting with me? 🥺💔
Posted by delusions_of_grandhair
You’re pretty much married now
i know we both sounds nuts
but this the first time i've actually felt more open to marriage
You’ve never felt this way chatting with me? 🥺💔
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but you're a sag so i know you'll depress me someday 😢
Most threads you make are about finding the connection
It's your dating style so enjoy it
yeah some people just don't get it ❤️ ❤️
Posted by delusions_of_grandhair
You’re pretty much married now
i know we both sounds nuts
but this the first time i've actually felt more open to marriage
You’ve never felt this way chatting with me? 🥺💔
but you're a sag so i know you'll depress me someday 😢
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Lmao. NEVER! We Sag will love you, always 🥰🥰😍😍😍😍
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
lol hasn't gone far yet
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
lol hasn't gone far yet
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😬
All in good time! I just figured better err on the side of caution!
Now you need to go back out there and collect enough material to write soap opera/day drama! I’m convinced you’d clear out the awards isle!
Just messing with you... 😄
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
lol hasn't gone far yet
😬
All in good time! I just figured better err on the side of caution!
Now you need to go back out there and collect enough material to write soap opera/day drama! I’m convinced you’d clear out the awards isle!
Just messing with you... 😄
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hehe i know i always sounds so manic whenever i'm infatuated with someone
but i can't help how i feel
🧿🧿
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
lol hasn't gone far yet
😬
All in good time! I just figured better err on the side of caution!
Now you need to go back out there and collect enough material to write soap opera/day drama! I’m convinced you’d clear out the awards isle!
Just messing with you... 😄
hehe i know i always sounds so manic whenever i'm infatuated with someone
but i can't help how i feel
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Ehh... as long as no one gets hurt in a process...
Yeah, your initial enthusiasm may sound somewhat “naive”, but if my observations are worth anything, I’d say you far from it. Maybe just curb the signature style Virgo criticism that comes after the fact ... 😇
Though on a somewhat serious note, you clearly have a knack for writing. Most Pisces mooners do! Ever thought of making it profitable?
🧿🧿
🧟♂️
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
lol hasn't gone far yet
😬
All in good time! I just figured better err on the side of caution!
Now you need to go back out there and collect enough material to write soap opera/day drama! I’m convinced you’d clear out the awards isle!
Just messing with you... 😄
hehe i know i always sounds so manic whenever i'm infatuated with someone
but i can't help how i feel
Ehh... as long as no one gets hurt in a process...
Yeah, your initial enthusiasm may sound somewhat “naive”, but if my observations are worth anything, I’d say you far from it. Maybe just curb the signature style Virgo criticism that comes after the fact ... 😇
Though on a somewhat serious note, you clearly have a knack for writing. Most Pisces mooners do! Ever thought of turning making it profitable?
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i don't think i'm naive, but more very impulsive sometimes
especially since i have such bad temper and very self-absorbed
i have actually written for a profit many times in the past but sometimes i still think about it
though i have to admit that english is not really my first language so i don't know.....
I mean you could have at least said hello.
I mean you could have at least said hello.
sup babe 😂😂
@Argus i don't really talk much in person but i think a lot internally... so there's a lot of mental chatter so i guess that translates to how i write. sometimes though i think most people don't understand what i'm saying here. or it sounds weird to them.
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
lol hasn't gone far yet
😬
All in good time! I just figured better err on the side of caution!
Now you need to go back out there and collect enough material to write soap opera/day drama! I’m convinced you’d clear out the awards isle!
Just messing with you... 😄
hehe i know i always sounds so manic whenever i'm infatuated with someone
but i can't help how i feel
Ehh... as long as no one gets hurt in a process...
Yeah, your initial enthusiasm may sound somewhat “naive”, but if my observations are worth anything, I’d say you far from it. Maybe just curb the signature style Virgo criticism that comes after the fact ... 😇
Though on a somewhat serious note, you clearly have a knack for writing. Most Pisces mooners do! Ever thought of turning making it profitable?
i don't think i'm naive, but more very impulsive sometimes
especially since i have such bad temper and very self-absorbed
i have actually wrote for a profit many times in the past but sometimes i still think about it
though i have to admit that english is not really my first language so i don't know.....
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Oh no no... just to be clear, I meant your initial enthusiasm may come across as naive, but no, not you. Far from it!
As far as writing for profit goes.. a) good for you, b) I clearly had no idea otherwise I wouldn’t have suggested it, and last but most certainly not least, c) for what is worth, your English is better than many native English speakers... so there is that.
Reason I even brought up writing/authorship as a career was mostly promoted by some of your posts talking about you inner uncertainty pertaining furute employment/business ventures. But since you’ve already had a taste of it, you just might wish to keep that option open ... is all! 🙂
Carry on! ;p
I mean you could have at least said hello.
sup babe 😂😂
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Yeah. I know who you are. Someone told me about you years ago. Just having a hard time trying to remember why.
Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I figured since the universe seems to be sending certain vibes, I better pass on the message.... *wry smile*
lol hasn't gone far yet
😬
All in good time! I just figured better err on the side of caution!
Now you need to go back out there and collect enough material to write soap opera/day drama! I’m convinced you’d clear out the awards isle!
Just messing with you... 😄
hehe i know i always sounds so manic whenever i'm infatuated with someone
but i can't help how i feel
Ehh... as long as no one gets hurt in a process...
Yeah, your initial enthusiasm may sound somewhat “naive”, but if my observations are worth anything, I’d say you far from it. Maybe just curb the signature style Virgo criticism that comes after the fact ... 😇
Though on a somewhat serious note, you clearly have a knack for writing. Most Pisces mooners do! Ever thought of turning making it profitable?
i don't think i'm naive, but more very impulsive sometimes
especially since i have such bad temper and very self-absorbed
i have actually wrote for a profit many times in the past but sometimes i still think about it
though i have to admit that english is not really my first language so i don't know.....
Oh no no... just to be clear, I meant your initial enthusiasm may come across as naive, but no, not you. Far from it!
As far as writing for profit goes.. a) good for you, b) I clearly had no idea otherwise I wouldn’t have suggested it, and last but most certainly not least, c) for what is worth, your English is better than many native English speakers... so there is that.
Reason I even brought up writing/authorship as a career was mostly promoted by some of your posts talking about you inner uncertainty pertaining furute employment/business ventures. But since you’ve already had a taste of it, you just might wish to keep that option open ... is all! 🙂
Carry on! ;p
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thank you 🙂
tbh i probably share way too much here
but i'm very insular and keep very few friends
I mean you could have at least said hello.
sup babe 😂😂
Yeah. I know who you are. Someone told me about you years ago. Just having a hard time trying to remember why.
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ohh alright
At Least I think I do
*Pours a 🥃*
At Least I think I do
*Pours a 🥃*
ahh i can't remember you
but it's me sierra
are you a virgo?
At Least I think I do
*Pours a 🥃*
ahh i can't remember you
but it's me sierra
are you a virgo?
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Idk answer my very first question first
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i've been seeing this capricorn sun/pisces moon and seems all he ever seems to do is work whenever he's not with me like he'd only sleep 4 hours before work so he can be with me or talk to me. and i'm usually a lazy, no ambition girl but he's got all these ideas and he sounds so sure like we've talked about everything from children to keeping a ranch in order to bank accounts to sugarcane plantations that i'm starting to actually see things come together in my head. and we're talking numbers too. hell it sounds like he'd be the greatest business partner ever. even marriage wtf lol. he spends his one hour lunch videochatting with me as if we don't see or talk to each other enough.
we've talked about syncing our schedules together to have even more time with each other. he's so clingy but for some reason i'm not really frightened of this.
and he's not even usually the type i go for yet it makes sense:
he's got these well-manicured nails and he's super conservative like today when we went out, i wore this knee-length skirt (far from obscene) but then i'd notice he'd keep tugging at them when we're in the car like it's just hiking up a bit anyway and who is even looking? my virgo driver? he's basically a robot and that dude's seen me in more pathetic states before, seen me in the best and worst of times.
he hasn't tried anything way too sexual with me. we've made out a lot of times like we've kissed for hoursss. sometimes, dating me is kinda like being a teenager in the 50s hmmkay like i'm not even gonna try to sound cool. but the farthest we've gone was when he.... kinda bit me which surprised me coz he's so..... he's kinda giving me dad vibes so yeah weird. and then he'd be pulling at my blazer to try to hide it. like he's so protective over my clothes and he's sooo cute. 😍😍