Posted by smol
Most Capricorn men are unlucky in love, and our choice of mate may not be well accepted by society, so yes we tend to keep it private. (From Sextrology)
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by stillstillwater
Also, something about the long-drag of the engagement, wedding process... All the oos and aahs around.. can be annoying.
Think that's the main thing that makes me uncomfortable with the traditional idea of marriage. I love this person, am glad to spend my life with them. Why am I going to ruin that day with both of us inviting family, friends and random, intrusive family members we haven't spoken to in ages to gawk at us in a long, drawn-out event?
Much rather take a roadtrip with said loved one and come back weeks later with us gathering our close friends somewhere being like "oh, btw we're married now. Party?"click to expand
Posted by GODZ
Do you want a cap guy elope with you ?
Posted by SaintAmour
That's so romantic! I dig it. I'm a Scorpio though. 🤐😂
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by stillstillwater
Also, something about the long-drag of the engagement, wedding process... All the oos and aahs around.. can be annoying.
Think that's the main thing that makes me uncomfortable with the traditional idea of marriage. I love this person, am glad to spend my life with them. Why am I going to ruin that day with both of us inviting family, friends and random, intrusive family members we haven't spoken to in ages to gawk at us in a long, drawn-out event?
Much rather take a roadtrip with said loved one and come back weeks later with us gathering our close friends somewhere being like "oh, btw we're married now. Party?"click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.click to expand
Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Your family can't cling to you forever. If you want to be with him, be with him! The end of the month is nahe. Where are you going to live next week? Did you make plans with him, and getting cold feet now?click to expand
Posted by leeberatedPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Aw @virgoOppp thanks for sharing that. Yeah I'm not too close with my family either really. They're not mean but there's just so many unresolved issues, and neglect on their part to resolve those issues, that I separated myself to go heal on my own, and and so am not close to many of them. So whomever I marry, it would be like 2-3 family members and the rest friends...if we don't just elope haha.
On your wedding day, you should have the people around who support and love you as an individual AND as a couple. Do it on your own terms. This is your union, don't feel bad about that at all.
So by cling, it sounds like you financially help your fam with the housing expenses, which is why you're having trouble just up and leaving. Not sure what you meant. But trust that they will figure it out. Go live your life girl!
Did you feel bad about not going to your Taurus cousin's wedding?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Your family can't cling to you forever. If you want to be with him, be with him! The end of the month is nahe. Where are you going to live next week? Did you make plans with him, and getting cold feet now?
no it's not that and he's having a hard time too coz he's been really sick and yet he keeps pushing himself at work. and he's worried about me. i hate how we're just worried about each other all the time. if we lived together, we'd worry less about each other.
i thought the apartment would be ready by the end of the month but some renovations had to be made but it's for the best if we're together. we can't sleep worrying all the time. so i'm gonna have to find another one quickly.
and i've already told my family that i don't care and i'm leaving.click to expand
Posted by Nightcap-Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Your family can't cling to you forever. If you want to be with him, be with him! The end of the month is nahe. Where are you going to live next week? Did you make plans with him, and getting cold feet now?
no it's not that and he's having a hard time too coz he's been really sick and yet he keeps pushing himself at work. and he's worried about me. i hate how we're just worried about each other all the time. if we lived together, we'd worry less about each other.
i thought the apartment would be ready by the end of the month but some renovations had to be made but it's for the best if we're together. we can't sleep worrying all the time. so i'm gonna have to find another one quickly.
and i've already told my family that i don't care and i'm leaving.
Sounds like me. I only get sick when I work to exhaustion. My record is 44 consecutive days averaging 11 to 12 hours. I work more to work less if that makes any sense. The Libra I was engaged to; her millionaire parents didnt like me because I didnt make enough money at the time (just out of college) and it was definitely a strain on the relationship. Ironically, by the time they accepted me i was done with the relationship. Caps either act really quickly or really slowly. Quickly is often better because we know what want and go for it. To some it may seem rash but you also don't want to miss your boat and be left to wonder. I think you're doing it right. Your relatives don't seem happy for you as they're probably not happy with themselves. Better to follow your own sense than their example. Cap/Virgo is a have-it-all pairing in potential - Good luckclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by leeberatedPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Aw @virgoOppp thanks for sharing that. Yeah I'm not too close with my family either really. They're not mean but there's just so many unresolved issues, and neglect on their part to resolve those issues, that I separated myself to go heal on my own, and and so am not close to many of them. So whomever I marry, it would be like 2-3 family members and the rest friends...if we don't just elope haha.
On your wedding day, you should have the people around who support and love you as an individual AND as a couple. Do it on your own terms. This is your union, don't feel bad about that at all.
So by cling, it sounds like you financially help your fam with the housing expenses, which is why you're having trouble just up and leaving. Not sure what you meant. But trust that they will figure it out. Go live your life girl!
Did you feel bad about not going to your Taurus cousin's wedding?
i'm sure my family will be fine but the shame of cutting them off... how can i come back from that? but if they cared about me, they wouldn't be selfish like this. to be honest, i didn't know until recently that my taurus cousin didn't invite her own mom to her wedding. i was offended coz i thought i was the only one. she got married in another country and had a falling out with our entire family (not because of who she married, but just coz our family is DIFFICULT). imagine what his family thought about a girl marrying someone without a single family member in attendance.
hell i don't even care anymore.click to expand
Posted by Nightcap-Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Your family can't cling to you forever. If you want to be with him, be with him! The end of the month is nahe. Where are you going to live next week? Did you make plans with him, and getting cold feet now?
no it's not that and he's having a hard time too coz he's been really sick and yet he keeps pushing himself at work. and he's worried about me. i hate how we're just worried about each other all the time. if we lived together, we'd worry less about each other.
i thought the apartment would be ready by the end of the month but some renovations had to be made but it's for the best if we're together. we can't sleep worrying all the time. so i'm gonna have to find another one quickly.
and i've already told my family that i don't care and i'm leaving.
Sounds like me. I only get sick when I work to exhaustion. My record is 44 consecutive days averaging 11 to 12 hours. I work more to work less if that makes any sense. The Libra I was engaged to; her millionaire parents didnt like me because I didnt make enough money at the time (just out of college) and it was definitely a strain on the relationship. Ironically, by the time they accepted me i was done with the relationship. Caps either act really quickly or really slowly. Quickly is often better because we know what want and go for it. To some it may seem rash but you also don't want to miss your boat and be left to wonder. I think you're doing it right. Your relatives don't seem happy for you as they're probably not happy with themselves. Better to follow your own sense than their example. Cap/Virgo is a have-it-all pairing in potential - Good luckclick to expand
Posted by leeberatedPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by leeberatedPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Aw @virgoOppp thanks for sharing that. Yeah I'm not too close with my family either really. They're not mean but there's just so many unresolved issues, and neglect on their part to resolve those issues, that I separated myself to go heal on my own, and and so am not close to many of them. So whomever I marry, it would be like 2-3 family members and the rest friends...if we don't just elope haha.
On your wedding day, you should have the people around who support and love you as an individual AND as a couple. Do it on your own terms. This is your union, don't feel bad about that at all.
So by cling, it sounds like you financially help your fam with the housing expenses, which is why you're having trouble just up and leaving. Not sure what you meant. But trust that they will figure it out. Go live your life girl!
Did you feel bad about not going to your Taurus cousin's wedding?
i'm sure my family will be fine but the shame of cutting them off... how can i come back from that? but if they cared about me, they wouldn't be selfish like this. to be honest, i didn't know until recently that my taurus cousin didn't invite her own mom to her wedding. i was offended coz i thought i was the only one. she got married in another country and had a falling out with our entire family (not because of who she married, but just coz our family is DIFFICULT). imagine what his family thought about a girl marrying someone without a single family member in attendance.
hell i don't even care anymore.
The only thing about burning the bridge is if you were to have children with this man, would you want the child to know where they came from/know the family, etc?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Nightcap-Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPP
but srsly i've been thinking about this too
feels like if i married this capricorn, only his family would be around
i wouldn't even dare invite mine and i don't really care anymore
even my taurus cousin married her gemini without any of her family members
maybe it's an earth sign thing?
Why wouldn't you dare to invite your family...? Are they against him or something?
i felt too embarrassed to share this but the matriarch in my family's a mean old lady. women in my family are.... difficult. and even if we all went to dinner together (which is my uncle's idea), i'm so frightened of her saying anything hurtful. he's so sensitive that i don't want him to be around that. she hasn't even met him but she's already saying such awful things. many times i've considered just cutting them all off and maybe just remain in contact with my parents.
if these things hurt me and i've known these people years, imagine how he'd take them. it's so hard and i'm always crying in frustration but i keep pretending things are perfect but he's so intuitive... he could tell that i'm covering up. i know that he knows what they think. but i really don't care. i'm ready to run away from all these.
i'm still trying to maintain family relations but i'm going to choose him ultimately anyway. i'm so frustrated coz i'm trying to hold on to both. we're supposed to move in together the end of this month but right now i don't know, my family clings to me. but i've already promised him that i'll go with him if he wanted to go back to his hometown. i just really wanna be with him.
Your family can't cling to you forever. If you want to be with him, be with him! The end of the month is nahe. Where are you going to live next week? Did you make plans with him, and getting cold feet now?
no it's not that and he's having a hard time too coz he's been really sick and yet he keeps pushing himself at work. and he's worried about me. i hate how we're just worried about each other all the time. if we lived together, we'd worry less about each other.
i thought the apartment would be ready by the end of the month but some renovations had to be made but it's for the best if we're together. we can't sleep worrying all the time. so i'm gonna have to find another one quickly.
and i've already told my family that i don't care and i'm leaving.
Sounds like me. I only get sick when I work to exhaustion. My record is 44 consecutive days averaging 11 to 12 hours. I work more to work less if that makes any sense. The Libra I was engaged to; her millionaire parents didnt like me because I didnt make enough money at the time (just out of college) and it was definitely a strain on the relationship. Ironically, by the time they accepted me i was done with the relationship. Caps either act really quickly or really slowly. Quickly is often better because we know what want and go for it. To some it may seem rash but you also don't want to miss your boat and be left to wonder. I think you're doing it right. Your relatives don't seem happy for you as they're probably not happy with themselves. Better to follow your own sense than their example. Cap/Virgo is a have-it-all pairing in potential - Good luck
was she willing to fight for the relationship? why didn't you? like i always tell men with aries moon, why not a libra lady? this capricorn is a pisces moon though.
he's so ambitious. they just don't see his potential like i do. we're both hoping that things will get better in time... that you know, they'll be more accepting when they realize that they can't do anything about it anymore. i hate not being free to do what i want. if i cut them off, it takes away the power they have on me. i love them but they can't keep holding on like this. i'll be a black sheep like my taurus cousin.
he tells me we'll come back someday and they'll accept us.
hell i won't even care by then.click to expand
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