Capricorn Women - Do you ever find that men just can't handle you?

Capricorn Women are known to be strong and have 'balls.' They know what they want. Why they want it. And they're not afraid to go and get it.

However in my experience of relationships, once things settle down and we've gone past the flirting and gone past getting to know each other etc, I've noticed that my boyfriends/partners start picking holes in me and finding fault.

I've done nothing wrong to them.

They just start picking holes in normal stuff I do. Then it gets worse as the nit-picking goes into housework tasks etc

I've had a controlling boyfriend when I was 20yrs old (Scorpio).

Then a controlling husband (Aries),who I met when I was 26. We married when I was 32. It was only once we were married that his controlling behaviour came out.

My therapist tells me that Control is an Anxiety. I never knew this until a few weeks ago and its made me think.

Maybe my confidence as a Cap makes men insecure so they start finding fault in me in order to big themselves up.

I always saw Control as a big dark negative energy that wrecks relationships!

Which it does!

Anyway..

I'm asking you Capricorn women what - if any - issues you have encountered these kind of issues where I guy feels insecure with you, when you are just being your lovely strong confident friendly (non-bitchy) self?

Posted by pooface222

Capricorn Women are known to be strong and have 'balls.' They know what they want. Why they want it. And they're not afraid to go and get it.

However in my experience of relationships, once things settle down and we've gone past the flirting and gone past getting to know each other etc, I've noticed that my boyfriends/partners start picking holes in me and finding fault.

I've done nothing wrong to them.

They just start picking holes in normal stuff I do. Then it gets worse as the nit-picking goes into housework tasks etc

I've had a controlling boyfriend when I was 20yrs old (Scorpio).

Then a controlling husband (Aries),who I met when I was 26. We married when I was 32. It was only once we were married that his controlling behaviour came out.

My therapist tells me that Control is an Anxiety. I never knew this until a few weeks ago and its made me think.

Maybe my confidence as a Cap makes men insecure so they start finding fault in me in order to big themselves up.

I always saw Control as a big dark negative energy that wrecks relationships!

Which it does!

Anyway..

I'm asking you Capricorn women what - if any - issues you have encountered these kind of issues where I guy feels insecure with you, when you are just being your lovely strong confident friendly (non-bitchy) self?

Insecure people are threatened by strength but yet drawn to it. Also yes controlling behavior typically is a way to manage your feeling out of control aka anxiety. I found that my Aries ex didn’t get controlling until the end of my marriage when he was losing me, and I didn’t do just what he wanted anymore. I was thinking about me, and doing self care btw.

You might do better with a mutable? Aries & Capricorn both want to lead/be in charge and probably it’s a lot of head banging.

Oh I’m Capricorn dominant but Sag sun .. it’s a struggle lol But seriously you just have to be you, and let the right guy who doesn’t nitpick you find you. Be a queen & worry about you not them.

Posted by Wizardz_

They all do the same thing after getting to know you better yet your reaction to that is to blame it on their insecurities?

God, I hate Capricorns 😂

Errr..

I'm NOT blaming it on their insecurities!

I am just asking the question because twice in a row I have met a guy who is controlling and doesn't like it when I don't do as they say.

So are you saying that All guys are controlling?

(Eg "they all do the same thing").

Hey everybody blames it on insecurity of the guys, you seem to be strong, which puts them down and you up. While it certainly makes you feel better it is a pattern if it happens repeatedly. And the only constant is you cause you were there each time.

Do you have certain traits that might procoke that? Are you very ambitious ? Ballbusting?

Thats

Can you think of commonalities between the controllung men? Like where you met them, traits, beliefs etc? In which situations or dating stage did they show control behavior?

Date a Sag! Best couples I've seen have been cap females sag males.

Posted by Sabotage

I think a lot of men are this way when they are insecure yes. I would not bend to this behaviour it would encourage more of it. My advice would be to evaluate why you might be attracted to that kind of personality, what red flags there might be and try to work through any issues if possible. Have you put certain traits above kindness or respect for others for example? But no its not okay you should help each other not stifle.

I agree with this. It must be some sort of dynamic you're being a part of or who you are attracting that's like this because it doesn't happen to me. I don't know of any cardinal sign that likes to be told what to do. But that aside, maybe you are attracting a type of man who is controlling?

Also wizardz is lowkey saying she deserves it because she's "blaming" others. Boo. 👎

Posted by Parkourler

Hey everybody blames it on insecurity of the guys, you seem to be strong, which puts them down and you up. While it certainly makes you feel better it is a pattern if it happens repeatedly. And the only constant is you cause you were there each time.

Do you have certain traits that might procoke that? Are you very ambitious ? Ballbusting?

Thats

Can you think of commonalities between the controllung men? Like where you met them, traits, beliefs etc? In which situations or dating stage did they show control behavior?

I met both of them in a,work/study environment. Well the Scorpio I met at college while studying theatre. He came to see my show I was in. And I came to see his.

The Aries I met when I qas

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The Aries I met on a Saturday when I was working in a bank. He walked in and began talking to me about his bank account. He smiled loads then gave me his phone number.

Both guys seem to have met me when I



With Scorpio the controlling behaviour started really early on. We both finished college and were going to different universities after the summer holidays. But the universities were not far apart. An hour maybe.

Anyway I got myself a summer job working in a pub and told him about this. He wasn't happy. All he cared about is that I got him a job too!? And working with me and on the same days and times.

I found him suffocating!

And controlling because he started calling me selfish, and not caring about him, just because I didn't get him a job working with me. We'd only been together a few weeks ffs!

I told him "we see each other EVERY DAY. 7 days a week. I don't want us to work together too."

He didn't like that. And it got worse from there.

With the Aries it was similar but not the same. His controlling behaviour came out after MARRIAGE!? We'd been together for 6yrs and he was lovely at first. Everything was about us.

Once we were married he changed. Everything became about what HE wanted. Mainly around the house. Controlling how I do things. It then spread into how I do my job too!

Does that answer your question?

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I think a lot of men are this way when they are insecure yes. I would not bend to this behaviour it would encourage more of it. My advice would be to evaluate why you might be attracted to that kind of personality, what red flags there might be and try to work through any issues if possible. Have you put certain traits above kindness or respect for others for example? But no its not okay you should help each other not stifle.

I agree with this. It must be some sort of dynamic you're being a part of or who you are attracting that's like this because it doesn't happen to me. I don't know of any cardinal sign that likes to be told what to do. But that aside, maybe you are attracting a type of man who is controlling?

Agree with all of this.

Sometimes people see someone controlling in other aspects of life, or who treats others badly, and expect to be the exception to that rule.

That’s why I would never in a million years date someone who was disrespectful of others. You can tell how someone will be to you by how they treat others but some people really believe they’re the special ones.

No offence. I seem to be giving harsh advice today lol.

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I don't think I'm special though! And I'm sorry if i sound that way.

I'm trying to say that I - just like you - don't like people who go around Disrespecting others, or treat others badly.

So I get upset when I'm nice etc to the man I love yet he is controlling and disrespectful.

So I'm just wondering if its because I simply set boundaries by saying how I don't want to be treated and that is by making it clear that I don't have to do everything they say, every single time.

Somehow this makes their control Worse and start being more controlling!

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Also wizardz is lowkey saying she deserves it because she's "blaming" others. Boo. 👎

Deserves what? You only have her word that these guys are being "controlling". It might be her that is the problem

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I am not Blaming others!

So why are you Blaming Me??😒

Very Hypocritical of you!

You can't accuse me of blaming others, THEN blame me. Because that makes you as accusatory as you say I am being.

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Posted by Sabotage

I think a lot of men are this way when they are insecure yes. I would not bend to this behaviour it would encourage more of it. My advice would be to evaluate why you might be attracted to that kind of personality, what red flags there might be and try to work through any issues if possible. Have you put certain traits above kindness or respect for others for example? But no its not okay you should help each other not stifle.

I agree with this. It must be some sort of dynamic you're being a part of or who you are attracting that's like this because it doesn't happen to me. I don't know of any cardinal sign that likes to be told what to do. But that aside, maybe you are attracting a type of man who is controlling?

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Yes..I sometimes think that myself.

That I attract a controlling type of man. But I don't know what it is about me that attracts controlling men. I don't go looking for them.

They seem to find me.

And as a Cardinal sign I don't like being told what to do! Unless I want to be.

Who knows maybe these men see me as a challenge.! They're both competitive types so maybe they see my confidence and want to beat it down as a form of winning/conquering.

I don't know. I'm not a psychologist lol.

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And what are you bringing to the table?

Cock and ball torture

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Posted by RollergirlOrc

Also wizardz is lowkey saying she deserves it because she's "blaming" others. Boo. 👎

Deserves what? You only have her word that these guys are being "controlling". It might be her that is the problem

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Agreed.

Usually therapy teaches us to not blame others for what happens to us.

Rather to look inside as to what we could be contributing to the dynamic

Capricorn is cardinal energy which already is an energy associated with being bossy.

Cardinal likes to control the situation. Flows outcome. It makes them feel more secure.

The people you’ve mentioned are cardinal and fixed.

They will also try to control to feel more secure.

I’d suggest you try a Mutable sign, but I have a hard fast belief that mutable should only date other mutual end. Fixed n cardinal signs will just be to their detriment

don't know about capricorn women. but i've always found capricorn men hot but also super annoyingly controlling.

like there's this cap sun/taurus moon who asks so many personal questions but gets mad when you ask him the same things. and he talks real slow like forever just going on and on. and i feel as if it's just his technique to drown out whatever i have to say and just continue to get his point across.

i can't even get a word in. and when you don't accept his calls coz you want to nap, he'll just leave voice messages with him just forever trying to drown you with his point.

Posted by pooface222

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The Aries I met on a Saturday when I was working in a bank. He walked in and began talking to me about his bank account. He smiled loads then gave me his phone number.

Both guys seem to have met me when I



With Scorpio the controlling behaviour started really early on. We both finished college and were going to different universities after the summer holidays. But the universities were not far apart. An hour maybe.

Anyway I got myself a summer job working in a pub and told him about this. He wasn't happy. All he cared about is that I got him a job too!? And working with me and on the same days and times.

I found him suffocating!

And controlling because he started calling me selfish, and not caring about him, just because I didn't get him a job working with me. We'd only been together a few weeks ffs!

I told him "we see each other EVERY DAY. 7 days a week. I don't want us to work together too."

He didn't like that. And it got worse from there.

With the Aries it was similar but not the same. His controlling behaviour came out after MARRIAGE!? We'd been together for 6yrs and he was lovely at first. Everything was about us.

Once we were married he changed. Everything became about what HE wanted. Mainly around the house. Controlling how I do things. It then spread into how I do my job too!

Does that answer your question?

I don't know but talking about the bank account and hin wanting you to get him a job are two major red flags. Do you remember more? I am not saying its your fault just try to find the commonality. Or at least promise yourself to get rid of controlling people quickly. I am a male if woman run into the same problem repeatedly then say i am too strong to be handled by msn i want them to be a little bit more selfcritical rather than selfcomplimenting.

Posted by DMV

Capricorn is cardinal energy which already is an energy associated with being bossy.

Cardinal likes to control the situation. Flows outcome. It makes them feel more secure.

The people you’ve mentioned are cardinal and fixed.

They will also try to control to feel more secure.

I’d suggest you try a Mutable sign, but I have a hard fast belief that mutable should only date other mutual end. Fixed n cardinal signs will just be to their detriment

Is Pisces Mutable?

If so it works really well.

The problem I have is after 7yrs of him pushing me to leave my husband, he is still with his partner, and I am a divorced single mum!

Posted by pooface222

Posted by DMV

Capricorn is cardinal energy which already is an energy associated with being bossy.

Cardinal likes to control the situation. Flows outcome. It makes them feel more secure.

The people you’ve mentioned are cardinal and fixed.

They will also try to control to feel more secure.

I’d suggest you try a Mutable sign, but I have a hard fast belief that mutable should only date other mutual end. Fixed n cardinal signs will just be to their detriment

Is Pisces Mutable?

If so it works really well.

The problem I have is after 7yrs of him pushing me to leave my husband, he is still with his partner, and I am a divorced single mum!

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Yup, they’re mutable and mutables constantly change their minds

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don't know about capricorn women. but i've always found capricorn men hot but also super annoyingly controlling.

like there's this cap sun/taurus moon who asks so many personal questions but gets mad when you ask him the same things. and he talks real slow like forever just going on and on. and i feel as if it's just his technique to drown out whatever i have to say and just continue to get his point across.

i can't even get a word in. and when you don't accept his calls coz you want to nap, he'll just leave voice messages with him just forever trying to drown you with his point.

Where do you find all these fecking weird Cap men— Bejesus

My experience is not like that all. Have a Cap/Taurus Moon combo in orbit too and he's the best thing ever. Understanding, gives space, very loving, when he's being a hothead its kinda sexy, clear boundaries, although sometimes bit of victim mentality but set him immediately straight with a whip😋

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my cap sun/pisces moon ex was okay the first year.

anyway doesn't matter now coz i'm hanging with the scorp sun/gem moon 🙂

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don't know about capricorn women. but i've always found capricorn men hot but also super annoyingly controlling.

like there's this cap sun/taurus moon who asks so many personal questions but gets mad when you ask him the same things. and he talks real slow like forever just going on and on. and i feel as if it's just his technique to drown out whatever i have to say and just continue to get his point across.

i can't even get a word in. and when you don't accept his calls coz you want to nap, he'll just leave voice messages with him just forever trying to drown you with his point.

Where do you find all these fecking weird Cap men— Bejesus

My experience is not like that all. Have a Cap/Taurus Moon combo in orbit too and he's the best thing ever. Understanding, gives space, very loving, when he's being a hothead its kinda sexy, clear boundaries, although sometimes bit of victim mentality but set him immediately straight with a whip😋

my cap sun/taurus moon ex was okay the first year.

anyway doesn't matter now coz i'm hanging with the scorp sun/gem moon 🙂

Taking it slow here luckily.

So you can't recommend? 😑

Gem mooner sounds fun!

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Square your sun 🥴😬

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don't know about capricorn women. but i've always found capricorn men hot but also super annoyingly controlling.

like there's this cap sun/taurus moon who asks so many personal questions but gets mad when you ask him the same things. and he talks real slow like forever just going on and on. and i feel as if it's just his technique to drown out whatever i have to say and just continue to get his point across.

i can't even get a word in. and when you don't accept his calls coz you want to nap, he'll just leave voice messages with him just forever trying to drown you with his point.

Where do you find all these fecking weird Cap men— Bejesus

My experience is not like that all. Have a Cap/Taurus Moon combo in orbit too and he's the best thing ever. Understanding, gives space, very loving, when he's being a hothead its kinda sexy, clear boundaries, although sometimes bit of victim mentality but set him immediately straight with a whip😋

my cap sun/taurus moon ex was okay the first year.

anyway doesn't matter now coz i'm hanging with the scorp sun/gem moon 🙂

Taking it slow here luckily.

So you can't recommend? 😑

Gem mooner sounds fun!

Square your sun 🥴😬

It's a special square 😛

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No such thing 😂

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Posted by virgoOPPP

don't know about capricorn women. but i've always found capricorn men hot but also super annoyingly controlling.

like there's this cap sun/taurus moon who asks so many personal questions but gets mad when you ask him the same things. and he talks real slow like forever just going on and on. and i feel as if it's just his technique to drown out whatever i have to say and just continue to get his point across.

i can't even get a word in. and when you don't accept his calls coz you want to nap, he'll just leave voice messages with him just forever trying to drown you with his point.

Where do you find all these fecking weird Cap men— Bejesus

My experience is not like that all. Have a Cap/Taurus Moon combo in orbit too and he's the best thing ever. Understanding, gives space, very loving, when he's being a hothead its kinda sexy, clear boundaries, although sometimes bit of victim mentality but set him immediately straight with a whip😋

my cap sun/taurus moon ex was okay the first year.

anyway doesn't matter now coz i'm hanging with the scorp sun/gem moon 🙂

Taking it slow here luckily.

So you can't recommend? 😑

Gem mooner sounds fun!

Square your sun 🥴😬

It's a special square 😛

No such thing 😂

It is in my universe 🤣

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In your chart or synastry?

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Posted by nanobotz

My experience with men, relationships, and dating has found that there are a lot of controlling men out there, I think that’s all there is to it. Once you become more independent, established, and it’s clear you “don’t need no man”, these types of men kind of weed themselves out though. Because of the insecurity.

My dad is an extremely controlling man and he targets women who are dependent, needy, and have no skills or education. They are the easiest for him to leverage control over because they have no independence whatsoever.

Personally, I love women who are successful, strong and independent but I can see how some males feel threatened by it

I have more feminine energy though so that probably helps me to be okay with it

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It’s only insecure men that are threatened by strong women ...

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Posted by Wizardz_

Posted by nanobotz

My experience with men, relationships, and dating has found that there are a lot of controlling men out there, I think that’s all there is to it. Once you become more independent, established, and it’s clear you “don’t need no man”, these types of men kind of weed themselves out though. Because of the insecurity.

My dad is an extremely controlling man and he targets women who are dependent, needy, and have no skills or education. They are the easiest for him to leverage control over because they have no independence whatsoever.

Personally, I love women who are successful, strong and independent but I can see how some males feel threatened by it

I have more feminine energy though so that probably helps me to be okay with it

It’s only insecure men that are threatened by strong women ...

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Thank you x

That was exactly my point in my post x

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Posted by nanobotz

My experience with men, relationships, and dating has found that there are a lot of controlling men out there, I think that’s all there is to it. Once you become more independent, established, and it’s clear you “don’t need no man”, these types of men kind of weed themselves out though. Because of the insecurity.

My dad is an extremely controlling man and he targets women who are dependent, needy, and have no skills or education. They are the easiest for him to leverage control over because they have no independence whatsoever.

Personally, I love women who are successful, strong and independent but I can see how some males feel threatened by it

I have more feminine energy though so that probably helps me to be okay with it

It’s only insecure men that are threatened by strong women ...

Thank you x

That was exactly my point in my post x

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You’re welcome

We women know these things 😀👍

What kinda handling we talking bout 😈

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Posted by nanobotz

My experience with men, relationships, and dating has found that there are a lot of controlling men out there, I think that’s all there is to it. Once you become more independent, established, and it’s clear you “don’t need no man”, these types of men kind of weed themselves out though. Because of the insecurity.

My dad is an extremely controlling man and he targets women who are dependent, needy, and have no skills or education. They are the easiest for him to leverage control over because they have no independence whatsoever.

Personally, I love women who are successful, strong and independent but I can see how some males feel threatened by it

I have more feminine energy though so that probably helps me to be okay with it

You know, it’s funny because I have been in 2 LTR (~5 years each) with Gemini men and they have allowed me to be myself and I never felt that controlling aspect to them, for the most part. They never felt threatened or resentful toward me. I’ve also noticed many of the stronger personality type and successful women on this site, have been with/are with Gemini men long term 😆😆 I think there’s something to that.

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from what i've seen here and matthew hussey, gemini men seem to have a really good understanding of women more than any other sun sign male. i wonder why that is tho. they are just so good at it.

All I can say is this - my Capricorn cousin can go on for hours explaining in details how someone wronged her, but can easily pass by someone hurt or in need and not even notice. I love her but sometimes she can be very rigid. She is a Capricorn dominant. I have a Capricorn Moon and the further ( generational ) planets in that sign, and I can be easily hurt inside and turn it into a grudge while being stone cold outside.

Cap women are the archetype of the kind of person that just stops putting in any effort once they are in a relationship.. Just lazy ppl that one can't help but start resenting overtime.

Also they are shallow and materialistic yet expect "true love" in return lol.., they are like the paradox of a dumb Russian mailorder bride.

Also, when their lazy ways catapult them out of a relationship they feel cheated and hurt and get bitter and decide love is not for them and clam up that clam until is starts collecting spiderwebs 🙄 It's like, move on, nothing is meant to be forever, life ain't that hard..

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Cap women are the archetype of the kind of person that just stops putting in any effort once they are in a relationship.. Just lazy ppl that one can't help but start resenting overtime.

Also they are shallow and materialistic yet expect "true love" in return lol.., they are like the paradox of a dumb Russian mailorder bride.

10/10 would order 😂

On a more serious note, I asked my libra what he thinks about me on 5 of those points 😆

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What did he reply?

How long have u been together and are you still shaving your legs? Is for research lol

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Capricorn women don’t get the hype they deserve. They don’t ask for it and they make do without it because their moves speak for themselves. Guys maybe feel a bit useless because their ‘approval’ isn’t being made a priority. Just their practical contributions. Earth. They focus on what actually happens you can’t talk your way around someone focused on reality lol. You’re either getting shit done or you’re not.

That's a very yang perspective

"Getting shit done" isn't the goal of everyone, nor should it be

Look at the world, the more you "get done", the more damage is caused to it environmentally, as an example. There is room and necessity for different energies to co-exist . I think Capricorn energy can be dismissive of that fact

No but Capricorn’s focus on the negative yeah?

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Yes sadly!

We focus on the negative because we Worry CONSTANTLY!!

We like to do things right. Get things right. Not make a mistake or hurt anyone.

Therefore as a result of this we worry ourselves Sick with all the possibilities of what could go Wrong!

It comes across as Negative.

When really its just because we Care. Deeply.

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I recently dated a Capricorn woman and I don't know how she would respond to this thread. I'm curious now. 🤔

Tell me more.

What happened between you and her?

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Also wizardz is lowkey saying she deserves it because she's "blaming" others. Boo. 👎

Deserves what? You only have her word that these guys are being "controlling". It might be her that is the problem

I am not Blaming others!

So why are you Blaming Me??😒

Very Hypocritical of you!

You can't accuse me of blaming others, THEN blame me. Because that makes you as accusatory as you say I am being.

You are saying these men become controlling over time and you think it's their problem because they are insecure about how strong and confident you are etc

I'm saying that is your perception of what is happening. It's not an objective fact

I grew up with a Cap sister and have been around Caps at other times and invariably I have found them to be the kind of people who can ruin a picnic on a sunny day with their perceptions of how someone is "mistreating" them and most everyone around them is bewildered at why the Cap is making a fuss yet again..

What other placements does your sister have? Because this does not sound like Capricorn traits to me. Maybe this is solely your sister and not a planetary influence? Although, I do know a family who are like this, but I think it is a cultural thing although there are some common astro placements that the family has and it isn’t Capricorn.

hey, yes I may well be very biased against Caps - I admit it. Growing up with her was very frustrating as there was no brotherly-sisterly love and if ever there was on my part, I feel that she always used it to advance her own position like getting the best bedroom when we moved house, trying to take more attention from my parents, pretending to be a great sister in front of her friends and then being cold when they had gone etc

I'm not sure of her birth time but here is her chart

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Looking at her birth chart I'm not surprised your sister is the way she is.

I mean Venus in Capricorn! Hmm..its hard enough for us Caps to open up so, Venus being about love & relationships, hers being in Capricorn may make her cold.

She also has Cap Moon. Same kind of thing.

And Mercury in Sagittarius!! No offence to Sags but they can be very blunt so your sisters way of communicating may not be very nice.

I too am Cap Sun & Cap Moon. But I'm Pisces Venus so I think it softens me when I fall in love.

I become quite emotional in love relationships.

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Capricorn is cardinal energy which already is an energy associated with being bossy.

Cardinal likes to control the situation. Flows outcome. It makes them feel more secure.

The people you’ve mentioned are cardinal and fixed.

They will also try to control to feel more secure.

I’d suggest you try a Mutable sign, but I have a hard fast belief that mutable should only date other mutual end. Fixed n cardinal signs will just be to their detriment

Is Pisces Mutable?

If so it works really well.

The problem I have is after 7yrs of him pushing me to leave my husband, he is still with his partner, and I am a divorced single mum!

Yup, they’re mutable and mutables constantly change their minds

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Jesus Christ! How on earth is someone suppose to handle a mutable always changing their mind??

I LOVE Pisces men but their indecisiveness drives me NUTS!!

Posted by 0neirataxia

And what are you bringing to the table?

I gave up my entire Life!

Marriage. Family. Home. And Security.

For a guy who pushed me to leave my husband- just for him to stay with his partner!

Posted by LadyNeptune

What kinda handling we talking bout 😈

Emotionally. General day to day too. The way we are daily.

Posted by WarAngel

I recently dated a Capricorn woman and I don't know how she would respond to this thread. I'm curious now. 🤔

She would maybe wonder why no one gives her sign the benefit of the doubt. In the end, both of you werent the asshole, just two human beings trying to exist on this plane. Anyway. Its fascinating how this turned into an "air your grievances" thread and of no help to the OP. Sorry, op.. 🤔

Posted by Wizardz_

Personally, I think it's better that people express their dislike of Capricorns here in the safe confines of a dxp thread, rather than going around outside, bashing Capricorns on the head with a big stick 🤷‍♂️ but thats just me... I know there's no law against it, since they are considered a pest but I still think it's inhumane

I never knew Gemini to be particularly hateful. I used to have a negative bias against gem after dating a gem rising/venus but tbh, all that changed from Dxpnet and dating a libra with gem rising. Y'all make thoughtful folks. Obviously I can't keep up most times but I don't have anything personal against yall.

Sorry to hear of your experiences