daisy57
@daisy57
6 Years
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Posted by Capricorn91
Well I have been quite distant and in my own world for quite a while now since I just wanted to disconnect from the world and recharge myself and focus on myself (career, self improvement, family), just quiet me time. So maybe he is also going through this. He does care for you and a week sometimes is nothing to us but it can mean a long time to someone who is attached to us. Just let him have his space for sometime, he will come back once he is out of this phase.
Posted by G6
Just give him a little space and you'll see he'll come very soon to you. Everything is just fine.
Posted by Vicktoria
When he decides to contact you, I suggest you ignore him and give him a dose of his own medicine.
If he wants to be with you he'll make the effort. I wouldn't be surprised if he's talking/dating other girls.
Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by Vicktoria
He's responding to other ppl and ignoring you on purpose. Don't believe in that lame excuse he's busy working 24/7 because that's just a load of bs. If a guy likes you, you would be his priority and he would respond to your messages. When someone doesn't respond, it's their choice not to.
Agreeeeeee
As a Gemini, I am never too busy to reply to someone I care about, even if it's like a late response ~
For those who I don't care about it's like I show no effort lolz
This is just common sense about everybody tho xclick to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
Well I have been quite distant and in my own world for quite a while now since I just wanted to disconnect from the world and recharge myself and focus on myself (career, self improvement, family), just quiet me time. So maybe he is also going through this. He does care for you and a week sometimes is nothing to us but it can mean a long time to someone who is attached to us. Just let him have his space for sometime, he will come back once he is out of this phase.
You know about us right? He is active on web but lesser than before. He knows I love him and whatever it is if he could share with me, I will be helping him. I thought to let him his time too but everyday kills me to not have him around. We may not have time to talk in a flow during work hours but we stay connected and it's been a week since I had no connection with him hence it's annoying me.
I know 1 week is very less to make anything out of it but I am just concerned about him, it's hurtful to even feel I am not the person with whom he would like to share his problem.
Yeah my gut feeling does says it will be back to normal, I miss him terribly.
PS: I DM'd you to be friends but you never responded. But thank you for writing to me!
cheers.click to expand
Posted by VicktoriaPosted by daisy57Posted by Vicktoria
When he decides to contact you, I suggest you ignore him and give him a dose of his own medicine.
If he wants to be with you he'll make the effort. I wouldn't be surprised if he's talking/dating other girls.
He does make an effort and I made him chase me whenever he went MIA in the past but in fun way, nothing serious.
Don't you think it's rude he's not responding to your messages and prefers to message other ppl instead? I would drop his ass in a heart beat.click to expand

Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
Well I have been quite distant and in my own world for quite a while now since I just wanted to disconnect from the world and recharge myself and focus on myself (career, self improvement, family), just quiet me time. So maybe he is also going through this. He does care for you and a week sometimes is nothing to us but it can mean a long time to someone who is attached to us. Just let him have his space for sometime, he will come back once he is out of this phase.
You know about us right? He is active on web but lesser than before. He knows I love him and whatever it is if he could share with me, I will be helping him. I thought to let him his time too but everyday kills me to not have him around. We may not have time to talk in a flow during work hours but we stay connected and it's been a week since I had no connection with him hence it's annoying me.
I know 1 week is very less to make anything out of it but I am just concerned about him, it's hurtful to even feel I am not the person with whom he would like to share his problem.
Yeah my gut feeling does says it will be back to normal, I miss him terribly.
PS: I DM'd you to be friends but you never responded. But thank you for writing to me!
cheers.
See I am active here too but I am talking very less in my personal life and mostly keeping to myself and focusing on myself. I know how you are feeling since I have been there myself. These things are like this only. If someone wants to be by themselves we cannot force them to talk to us. I too have been waiting for someone for a very long time but that's fine because you just accept that they will reach out when they want to.
Wow you were letting go of the friendship once and now you say you love him. Thats quite good. Sorry. Don't worry. We are like this sometimes. But he does care for you alot and will be back like he never went away. We are like that too lol. But he needs to focus on himself at the moment so just be patient and focus on your life and hobbies.
And I did msg you back rather that day itself. Please check your msg settings. And yes I would love to be friends with you too!click to expand
Posted by Capricorn91
See I am active here too but I am talking very less in my personal life and mostly keeping to myself and focusing on myself. I know how you are feeling since I have been there myself. These things are like this only. If someone wants to be by themselves we cannot force them to talk to us. I too have been waiting for someone for a very long time but that's fine because you just accept that they will reach out when they want to.
Wow you were letting go of the friendship once and now you say you love him. Thats quite good. Sorry. Don't worry. We are like this sometimes. But he does care for you alot and will be back like he never went away. We are like that too lol. But he needs to focus on himself at the moment so just be patient and focus on your life and hobbies.
And I did msg you back rather that day itself. Please check your msg settings. And yes I would love to be friends with you too!

Posted by Revenge
lol today my sag friends told "man sometimes i'm sending you message and you not even answering it, then you ask me something, it's harsh af lol"
i just told him "true"
Posted by Capricorn91
I replied to your msg but still it isn't in my outbox so prob it didn't reach you again. Maybe you will have to change your settings.


Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
I replied to your msg but still it isn't in my outbox so prob it didn't reach you again. Maybe you will have to change your settings.
You mind sending it again, it should come through now! I had to change settings.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
See I am active here too but I am talking very less in my personal life and mostly keeping to myself and focusing on myself. I know how you are feeling since I have been there myself. These things are like this only. If someone wants to be by themselves we cannot force them to talk to us. I too have been waiting for someone for a very long time but that's fine because you just accept that they will reach out when they want to.
Wow you were letting go of the friendship once and now you say you love him. Thats quite good. Sorry. Don't worry. We are like this sometimes. But he does care for you alot and will be back like he never went away. We are like that too lol. But he needs to focus on himself at the moment so just be patient and focus on your life and hobbies.
And I did msg you back rather that day itself. Please check your msg settings. And yes I would love to be friends with you too!
I think the more we force a person to talk to us, the more we lose them. Whenever I complaint him about him being busy or him getting missed, he left working on his project and gave me full attention which then I kind of felt bad. I should be supportive of his focus on his projects.
I feel so much awful that I hurt him and asked him to go away. Why was I so silly!?!? He is now-a-days curious about my pole dancing skills. He wants only himself to see the videos, I was just posting my practice sessions for fun on Instagram.
I never got your message but looks like you get my messages. I will send you another message soon.
Thank you!click to expand
Posted by G6Posted by daisy57Posted by G6
Just give him a little space and you'll see he'll come very soon to you. Everything is just fine.
Usually he returns in a week and half. I have nothing else to do than to patiently wait. We have went through a lot of problems together which could have broken us months ago but we always returned back to each other.
Thank you G6
Yw, dear. I'm kind a having a thing with a Cap for some time and he does that too. I just let him be. I'm also a Cap, btw.
Sort your information carrefully from here because it seems some people don't have any clue how Caps work. LTR, romance or whatever, we need our space. The end.click to expand

Posted by VicktoriaPosted by LadyNeptune
So you've been together for 2.5 years and he goes 7-10 days without communicating with you? TF.
Exactly!
How do ppl believe this bs. is a relationship. He's a rude asshole and she likes it.
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by VicktoriaPosted by LadyNeptune
So you've been together for 2.5 years and he goes 7-10 days without communicating with you? TF.
Exactly!
How do ppl believe this bs. is a relationship. He's a rude asshole and she likes it.
It’s confusing af to me.
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Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
See I am active here too but I am talking very less in my personal life and mostly keeping to myself and focusing on myself. I know how you are feeling since I have been there myself. These things are like this only. If someone wants to be by themselves we cannot force them to talk to us. I too have been waiting for someone for a very long time but that's fine because you just accept that they will reach out when they want to.
Wow you were letting go of the friendship once and now you say you love him. Thats quite good. Sorry. Don't worry. We are like this sometimes. But he does care for you alot and will be back like he never went away. We are like that too lol. But he needs to focus on himself at the moment so just be patient and focus on your life and hobbies.
And I did msg you back rather that day itself. Please check your msg settings. And yes I would love to be friends with you too!
I think the more we force a person to talk to us, the more we lose them. Whenever I complaint him about him being busy or him getting missed, he left working on his project and gave me full attention which then I kind of felt bad. I should be supportive of his focus on his projects.
I feel so much awful that I hurt him and asked him to go away. Why was I so silly!?!? He is now-a-days curious about my pole dancing skills. He wants only himself to see the videos, I was just posting my practice sessions for fun on Instagram.
I never got your message but looks like you get my messages. I will send you another message soon.
Thank you!
Yes I know this firsthand too lol sorry. We can't force someone to do something which we want them to do on their own will. That just ruins the relationship. Yes, you should be supportive of his goals. We do like to have someone to share these things with. We do focus on our goals but that doesn't mean the other person doesn't matter, it is just we are so driven towards our goals that they take the priority, maybe due to the cardinal nature but when we give we give completely with full attention but only once our work is done.
Lol we want things to be exclusively for us. We are very possessive, always want to be the first. It's okay. We do forgive quickly. Let this time apart be a good thing for both of you where you learn to be more patient and see how he is and accept him for himself.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by VicktoriaPosted by LadyNeptune
So you've been together for 2.5 years and he goes 7-10 days without communicating with you? TF.
Exactly!
How do ppl believe this bs. is a relationship. He's a rude asshole and she likes it.
It’s confusing af to me.
It's okay, thank you!click to expand

Posted by MissKrabs
wait a minute, he says he want to be serious from now on, and you want to apologize? tf?

Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
I replied to your msg but still it isn't in my outbox so prob it didn't reach you again. Maybe you will have to change your settings.
You mind sending it again, it should come through now! I had to change settings.
I just replied to your msg. Let me know whether it reached or not.click to expand


Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91Posted by daisy57Posted by Capricorn91
See I am active here too but I am talking very less in my personal life and mostly keeping to myself and focusing on myself. I know how you are feeling since I have been there myself. These things are like this only. If someone wants to be by themselves we cannot force them to talk to us. I too have been waiting for someone for a very long time but that's fine because you just accept that they will reach out when they want to.
Wow you were letting go of the friendship once and now you say you love him. Thats quite good. Sorry. Don't worry. We are like this sometimes. But he does care for you alot and will be back like he never went away. We are like that too lol. But he needs to focus on himself at the moment so just be patient and focus on your life and hobbies.
And I did msg you back rather that day itself. Please check your msg settings. And yes I would love to be friends with you too!
I think the more we force a person to talk to us, the more we lose them. Whenever I complaint him about him being busy or him getting missed, he left working on his project and gave me full attention which then I kind of felt bad. I should be supportive of his focus on his projects.
I feel so much awful that I hurt him and asked him to go away. Why was I so silly!?!? He is now-a-days curious about my pole dancing skills. He wants only himself to see the videos, I was just posting my practice sessions for fun on Instagram.
I never got your message but looks like you get my messages. I will send you another message soon.
Thank you!
Yes I know this firsthand too lol sorry. We can't force someone to do something which we want them to do on their own will. That just ruins the relationship. Yes, you should be supportive of his goals. We do like to have someone to share these things with. We do focus on our goals but that doesn't mean the other person doesn't matter, it is just we are so driven towards our goals that they take the priority, maybe due to the cardinal nature but when we give we give completely with full attention but only once our work is done.
Lol we want things to be exclusively for us. We are very possessive, always want to be the first. It's okay. We do forgive quickly. Let this time apart be a good thing for both of you where you learn to be more patient and see how he is and accept him for himself.
Yeah so I must be back seat right now when his priority is something else. I have decided not to initiate any contact until he does, he is not responding I am fine.click to expand


Posted by dilettantePosted by daisy57He has been obsessed to talk to me that we decided to pick up topics like US Geography, Jupiter Moons, Wars in the History to discuss about and then test each other's knowledge. It's not BS :\
i dunno if u posted this anywhere but does he have aquarius in his chart? mercury? venus?
this might provide further insight into his communication break.click to expand


Posted by MissKrabsPosted by GemitatiPosted by MissKrabs
wait a minute, he says he want to be serious from now on, and you want to apologize? tf?
STFU! Isn’t it obvious? Wait...you right...WTF?
😂😂😂😂💦💦
srsly you know how men can be black and white, since she is apologizing, maaaaaybeee she really did something. and now he hired private investigators, since there is nothing, he doesn't call until they find something. 😆click to expand

Posted by dilettantePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by dilettantePosted by daisy57He has been obsessed to talk to me that we decided to pick up topics like US Geography, Jupiter Moons, Wars in the History to discuss about and then test each other's knowledge. It's not BS :\
i dunno if u posted this anywhere but does he have aquarius in his chart? mercury? venus?
this might provide further insight into his communication break.
what do you mean by this?
omg have u not even run his chart??
he could have aquarius in his chart, is what i mean.click to expand

Posted by dilettantePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by dilettantePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by dilettantePosted by daisy57He has been obsessed to talk to me that we decided to pick up topics like US Geography, Jupiter Moons, Wars in the History to discuss about and then test each other's knowledge. It's not BS :\
i dunno if u posted this anywhere but does he have aquarius in his chart? mercury? venus?
this might provide further insight into his communication break.
what do you mean by this?
omg have u not even run his chart??
he could have aquarius in his chart, is what i mean.
what would having a lot of aquarius mean?
aquarius likes freedom. it can also feel pressured by expectations (ie: communications, hanging out, serious relationships etc).
i have a good amount of aqua / 11th house in my chart & i definitely check out of communication for prolonged periods of time.
you can do a google search tooclick to expand

Posted by dilettantePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by dilettantePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by dilettantePosted by daisy57He has been obsessed to talk to me that we decided to pick up topics like US Geography, Jupiter Moons, Wars in the History to discuss about and then test each other's knowledge. It's not BS :\
i dunno if u posted this anywhere but does he have aquarius in his chart? mercury? venus?
this might provide further insight into his communication break.
what do you mean by this?
omg have u not even run his chart??
he could have aquarius in his chart, is what i mean.
what would having a lot of aquarius mean?
aquarius likes freedom. it can also feel pressured by expectations (ie: communications, hanging out, serious relationships etc).
i have a good amount of aqua / 11th house in my chart & i definitely check out of communication for prolonged periods of time.
you can do a google search tooclick to expand
Posted by VicktoriaPosted by daisy57
But this time, he told me "I am going to be serious from now on" and I asked him why to which he said "just" . I asked him if there is something I have done wrong and I would want to apologize as his presence in my life is much important than anything else but he constantly told me there is nothing wrong.
.
PPl want to know why you would feel the need to apologize if he's telling you he wants to be serious. I thought you wanted a serious relationship.click to expand


Posted by Caplove
Me and my taurus ex used to do this. We'd walk around ignoring each other.
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by daisy57
It's not fun ignoring people with whom we have a solid connection.
I guess it’s fun for him? Or died the connection only go one way?click to expand
Posted by VicktoriaPosted by Caplove
I mean.. there's a reason why he's ignoring though. It's not for fun.
Yeah, a bruised ego because he lost.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
May him and his work live happily ever after
He sounds very boring
😐
Posted by MissKrabs
ask him is he busy studying to be better at that game? lmao
i'm sorry i feel for you really.
Posted by CaplovePosted by daisy57Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by daisy57
It's not fun ignoring people with whom we have a solid connection.
I guess it’s fun for him? Or died the connection only go one way?
He takes pride in being sadist and calls himself a person with a stone heart. Looks like it's fun for him to see another person longing for him to finally give up and kneel for him. Or maybe I am exaggerating. All I know is we are not talking, that sucks big time.
And you like that about him?click to expand
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by daisy57Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by daisy57
It's not fun ignoring people with whom we have a solid connection.
I guess it’s fun for him? Or died the connection only go one way?
He takes pride in being sadist and calls himself a person with a stone heart. Looks like it's fun for him to see another person longing for him to finally give up and kneel for him. Or maybe I am exaggerating. All I know is we are not talking, that sucks big time.
Oh, girl. That’s terrible. I’m sorry you’ve fallen for someone who gets off on that. I think I did once too. We all make mistakes but surely you know that’s wrong of him.click to expand

Posted by daisy57Posted by MyStarsShine
May him and his work live happily ever after
He sounds very boring
😐
He will get bored and crawl back to find me someday, who knows where I will be then.click to expand
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We had last great chat on 25th May and its been more than a week he is MIA. He has gone MIA on me in the past but it was never a big deal as I know he is lost in his own work or going though something. But this time, he told me "I am going to be serious from now on" and I asked him why to which he said "just" . I asked him if there is something I have done wrong and I would want to apologize as his presence in my life is much important than anything else but he constantly told me there is nothing wrong. Before this talk, we were just having late night fun as usual.
I tried to talk to him normal few times since 25th but he did not respond. He is seeing my snaps, responding to people on Instagram as what I see but I am unable to get anything out of him so I stopped pressurizing him. I am just constantly missing him as my day does not completes without talking to him and he is nowhere to find...
Maybe he is done with me who knows but I tried my best to keep him happy and we both made a lot of sacrifices to keep us alive.