Need some thoughts on Capricorn man

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Aries4
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So... it's my first time dealing with a Capricorn man, and I wanna know what they are like.

So here's my story. He's living in another country, we met online and started to chat like 24/7 a day for like 10 days. We immediately connected from the very beginning and had so much in common it got two of us surprised and amazed at the same time. We were staying till morning, we were like addicted to each other and could not stop talking. He told me several times, that I'm the kind of girl he'd fall in love with and it's too bad that we're living far from each other, and due to this quarantine situation can't fly and meet in person. So basically during those days he was showing that he's into me, initiating all our conversations, calls as well. However, suddenly he started to act distant, responding to my messages late, and even leaving me on seen. But whenever he's answering, his responses are normal, just like nothing is wrong. I don't want to be chasing him or bothering him if he doesn't want to talk. But I really wanna know what might be the reason for him pulling away?
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Undine
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What you did for the first 10 days is time consuming, physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting, and therefore unsustainable. Not even your BFF would be able to tolerate this for longer!

If you like to initiate, carry on doing it, since "his responses are normal". Give him space, so he can initiate as well from time to time. If you don't get to meet IRL any time soon, what's the hurry? Besides, until you actually meet IRL to see if there is any chemistry, you need to turn down your expectations. Chat online with other people as well, I bet he is doing the same!
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A Cap will come on strong a little in the beginning to get to the heart of matters early on to see what's there as far as spark and chemistry. Some will think they're being lead-on as things slow down a bit from the initial splash, but it's usually reflection in the form of observation, evaluation, and catching up with our strong intuition. A little time often reveals plenty. I would just wait, he'll chase if he's truly interested. Can't speak for all Caps, but we generally go after what we want. Unfortunately, we're not on everyone's timeline so there will be fits and starts but it's entirely worth the wait if you get a good one.