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Posted by Polyannanana
What do you mean you can't have sex anymore?
Medical condition
Posted by Wizardzzz
Yeh this needing to be cared for and nurtured thing is prob a turnoff for women generallyNot this one
click to expandSure but you said it took you months to find her and she wasn't impressed
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What do you mean, it took me months to find her? I said we spoke on the phone and wrote messages for weeks. And it was going really well. So either it’s my beergut, or personality in compatibility
Posted by PilatesBod
There’s no spark and she’s not pretty but you’d like to waste her time a little bit longer?Just a tad bit 🤣
click to expandAnd that’s why I bully men 🤗
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I wasn’t trying to waste her time. I’m ready for a serious loving relationship.
Posted by nanochip
No offense but not being able to have sex is going to be a deal breaker for a great number of women….. I mean I’m sure there are some women out there, but it’s a very important aspect to a relationshipThe love/romance/emotions that you’re looking for goes hand in hand with sex for many women…. Imagine doing all the sexy, romantic build up and then there’s just nothing afterward 😟😵💫
I know. What should I do? Just give up? And I haven’t tried Cialis yet maybe that works.
She’s not impressed because her Scorpio Moon sees past the surface—the charm, confidence, and good looks—and senses a lack of emotional depth. She’s not into superficial attraction. She wants someone real and emotionally self-aware, someone intense enough to connect with her on a soul level.
I’m literally emotionally deep, I only go for soul attractions relationships based on purity of the heart. You don’t know why she wasn’t into me. Maybe it’s because she’s Swiss from a big city, she might have a totally different mindset.
Posted by PilatesBod
There’s no spark and she’s not pretty but you’d like to waste her time a little bit longer?Just a tad bit 🤣
click to expandAnd that’s why I bully men 🤗
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I wasn’t trying to waste her time. I’m ready for a serious loving relationship.
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I’m assuming you can’t have penetrative sex? Are you open to other forms of sexual pleasure? I imagine that’s going to limit your dating pool no matter how attractive you are.
I know that, but they don’t know that at first. I’m wild in the sack so I can probably please them. Although it wasn’t enough for my wife, she needed penetrative sex. Also, I haven’t tried Cialis maybe that will work.
She’s not impressed because her Scorpio Moon sees past the surface—the charm, confidence, and good looks—and senses a lack of emotional depth. She’s not into superficial attraction. She wants someone real and emotionally self-aware, someone intense enough to connect with her on a soul level.
I’m literally emotionally deep, I only go for soul attractions relationships based on purity of the heart. You don’t know why she wasn’t into me. Maybe it’s because she’s Swiss from a big city, she might have a totally different mindset.
click to expandFair enough. It sounds like you have a good sense of what you bring. If you're still curious, the best way to know might be to ask her directly. Only she really knows what didn’t click.
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Yes, well, I didn’t have much time. She rejected me by message pretty abruptly. Maybe it’s my personality. I come from a small town. Maybe it’s my beergut. I’ll never know.🥴
Posted by bricklemark
@pilatesbodI know that, but they don’t know that at first. I’m wild in the sack so I can probably please them. Although it wasn’t enough for my wife, she needed penetrative sex. Also, I haven’t tried Cialis maybe that will work.
So what is your plan? You get into a relationship with the woman and avoid sex and let her wonder what the issue is? When do you eventually tell her?
Posted by bricklemark
@pilatesbodI know that, but they don’t know that at first. I’m wild in the sack so I can probably please them. Although it wasn’t enough for my wife, she needed penetrative sex. Also, I haven’t tried Cialis maybe that will work.
So what is your plan? You get into a relationship with the woman and avoid sex and let her wonder what the issue is? When do you eventually tell her?
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We’ll ease into it. As things progress she’ll notice or I’ll tell her. I’ll suggest we go buy some Cialis. And if it doesn’t work orshe’s not happy well she’ll dump me. But I have to try. I love being in a relationship.
Do you happen to know your moon sign?
Of course I know my moon sign😂 I mentioned that I drew full charts. Capricorn.
Posted by bricklemark
@pilatesbodI know that, but they don’t know that at first. I’m wild in the sack so I can probably please them. Although it wasn’t enough for my wife, she needed penetrative sex. Also, I haven’t tried Cialis maybe that will work.
So what is your plan? You get into a relationship with the woman and avoid sex and let her wonder what the issue is? When do you eventually tell her?
click to expandWe’ll ease into it. As things progress she’ll notice or I’ll tell her. I’ll suggest we go buy some Cialis. And if it doesn’t work orshe’s not happy well she’ll dump me. But I have to try. I love being in a relationship.
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This is really fucked. You know that right?
I’m going to keep bullying men
Posted by bricklemark
@pilatesbodI know that, but they don’t know that at first. I’m wild in the sack so I can probably please them. Although it wasn’t enough for my wife, she needed penetrative sex. Also, I haven’t tried Cialis maybe that will work.
So what is your plan? You get into a relationship with the woman and avoid sex and let her wonder what the issue is? When do you eventually tell her?
click to expandWe’ll ease into it. As things progress she’ll notice or I’ll tell her. I’ll suggest we go buy some Cialis. And if it doesn’t work orshe’s not happy well she’ll dump me. But I have to try. I love being in a relationship.
click to expandThis is really fucked. You know that right?
I’m going to keep bullying men
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Why is it really fucked up? I can take a pill and have a perfectly normal sex life. Also, some women prefer to be pleased orally.
Posted by bricklemark
@pilatesbodI know that, but they don’t know that at first. I’m wild in the sack so I can probably please them. Although it wasn’t enough for my wife, she needed penetrative sex. Also, I haven’t tried Cialis maybe that will work.
So what is your plan? You get into a relationship with the woman and avoid sex and let her wonder what the issue is? When do you eventually tell her?
click to expandWe’ll ease into it. As things progress she’ll notice or I’ll tell her. I’ll suggest we go buy some Cialis. And if it doesn’t work orshe’s not happy well she’ll dump me. But I have to try. I love being in a relationship.
click to expandThis is really fucked. You know that right?
I’m going to keep bullying men
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I gave perfectly valid points. And it’s perfectly fine. I’m doing what I can. Women they get everything and they do nothing but complain. Even bully men!!! the nerve!!!
She’s not impressed because her Scorpio Moon sees past the surface—the charm, confidence, and good looks—and senses a lack of emotional depth. She’s not into superficial attraction. She wants someone real and emotionally self-aware, someone intense enough to connect with her on a soul level.
I’m literally emotionally deep, I only go for soul attractions relationships based on purity of the heart. You don’t know why she wasn’t into me. Maybe it’s because she’s Swiss from a big city, she might have a totally different mindset.
click to expandFair enough. It sounds like you have a good sense of what you bring. If you're still curious, the best way to know might be to ask her directly. Only she really knows what didn’t click.
click to expandYes, well, I didn’t have much time. She rejected me by message pretty abruptly. Maybe it’s my personality. I come from a small town. Maybe it’s my beergut. I’ll never know.🥴
click to expandWhat exactly did she say in her message?
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She suggested that the conversation wasn’t interesting, vaguely. But we had a long walk and a nice talk, then we went to dinner and it was really romantic. Then I had to go because I wasn’t feeling well. Maybe she felt rejected. Or maybe it’s my beergut I don’t know.
She’s not impressed because her Scorpio Moon sees past the surface—the charm, confidence, and good looks—and senses a lack of emotional depth. She’s not into superficial attraction. She wants someone real and emotionally self-aware, someone intense enough to connect with her on a soul level.
I’m literally emotionally deep, I only go for soul attractions relationships based on purity of the heart. You don’t know why she wasn’t into me. Maybe it’s because she’s Swiss from a big city, she might have a totally different mindset.
click to expandFair enough. It sounds like you have a good sense of what you bring. If you're still curious, the best way to know might be to ask her directly. Only she really knows what didn’t click.
click to expandYes, well, I didn’t have much time. She rejected me by message pretty abruptly. Maybe it’s my personality. I come from a small town. Maybe it’s my beergut. I’ll never know.🥴
click to expandWhat exactly did she say in her message?
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She suggested that the conversation wasn’t interesting, vaguely. But we had a long walk and a nice talk, then we went to dinner and it was really romantic. Then I had to go because I wasn’t feeling well. Maybe she felt rejected. Or maybe it’s my beergut I don’t know.
click to expandFrom her vague message, you thought she never wanted to see you again? You could still ask her to clarify.
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She also said I hope you find someone great
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.
Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Astrology can only do such much. It’s all a numbers game. I could never dwell on a bad meetup. I didn’t realize an Aries Sun/Cap moon had that kind of energy in them.
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
Posted by SassyKiwi
Astrology can only do such much. It’s all a numbers game. I could never dwell on a bad meetup. I didn’t realize an Aries Sun/Cap moon had that kind of energy in them.
I’m not dwelling on a bad meet up, I’m saying astrology is useless. I found a multi cancer woman, and it didn’t work at all.
Thanks for the negative comment though, real classy.
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
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If the pills work why didn’t you use them with your wife?
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandIf the pills work why didn’t you use them with your wife?
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I never tried
Posted by SassyKiwi
Astrology can only do such much. It’s all a numbers game. I could never dwell on a bad meetup. I didn’t realize an Aries Sun/Cap moon had that kind of energy in them.I’m not dwelling on a bad meet up, I’m saying astrology is useless. I found a multi cancer woman, and it didn’t work at all.
Thanks for the negative comment though, real classy.
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I wouldn’t say it’s useless. I personally found better results when I left astrology out of the dating world.
It’s ok, I have no desire to impress you.
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandIf the pills work why didn’t you use them with your wife?
click to expandI never tried
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Who have you tried with
Posted by SassyKiwi
Astrology can only do such much. It’s all a numbers game. I could never dwell on a bad meetup. I didn’t realize an Aries Sun/Cap moon had that kind of energy in them.I’m not dwelling on a bad meet up, I’m saying astrology is useless. I found a multi cancer woman, and it didn’t work at all.
Thanks for the negative comment though, real classy.
click to expandI wouldn’t say it’s useless. I personally found better results when I left astrology out of the dating world.
It’s ok, I have no desire to impress you.
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If you leave astrology out of the dating world, it’s because it’s useless. I’m not saying you’re supposed to impress me, I’m saying you’re supposed to be polite to strangers.
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandIf the pills work why didn’t you use them with your wife?
click to expandI never tried
click to expandWho have you tried with
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I’ve never tried. It’sExpensive and I would have to go to France because it’s cheaper and I don’t have a car.
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
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Lol
look if you want to find THE woman who is ok with this and finds you hot, you have nothing to lose by being upfront. They can unmatch you block you or whatever but they will all appreciate your honesty trust me.
We can all lie about stuff, our age, our finances, our shortcomings etc
At the end of the day, you need to find someone who finds you sexy and wants you. They won't mind you being upfront.
You can first ask about their life style , do you drink do you go out a lot, do you smoke etc
Then say I also want to know more serious stuff, like do you have /want things, how sexually active are you do you have high libido?? And there you can share your own info about what you are looking for sexually, maybe add that in my age, I'm like this but I'm willing to please my partner anyway I can etc
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandLol
look if you want to find THE woman who is ok with this and finds you hot, you have nothing to lose by being upfront. They can unmatch you block you or whatever but they will all appreciate your honesty trust me.
We can all lie about stuff, our age, our finances, our shortcomings etc
At the end of the day, you need to find someone who finds you sexy and wants you. They won't mind you being upfront.
You can first ask about their life style , do you drink do you go out a lot, do you smoke etc
Then say I also want to know more serious stuff, like do you have /want things, how sexually active are you do you have high libido?? And there you can share your own info about what you are looking for sexually, maybe add that in my age, I'm like this but I'm willing to please my partner anyway I can etc
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No, that’s too early to talk about that kind of stuff.
* do you have / want kids not THINGS , sorry lol
Posted by SassyKiwi
Astrology can only do such much. It’s all a numbers game. I could never dwell on a bad meetup. I didn’t realize an Aries Sun/Cap moon had that kind of energy in them.I’m not dwelling on a bad meet up, I’m saying astrology is useless. I found a multi cancer woman, and it didn’t work at all.
Thanks for the negative comment though, real classy.
click to expandI wouldn’t say it’s useless. I personally found better results when I left astrology out of the dating world.
It’s ok, I have no desire to impress you.
click to expandIf you leave astrology out of the dating world, it’s because it’s useless. I’m not saying you’re supposed to impress me, I’m saying you’re supposed to be polite to strangers.
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I’ve been (as well as many others deeply into astrology) susceptible to astrologically discriminating others based on their placements. It subconsciously makes you more judgmental.
It’s pretty obvious from your consistent responses to others on here how you already look down on dxpers. So might as well play into that 🤷♀️
Posted by SassyKiwi
Astrology can only do such much. It’s all a numbers game. I could never dwell on a bad meetup. I didn’t realize an Aries Sun/Cap moon had that kind of energy in them.I’m not dwelling on a bad meet up, I’m saying astrology is useless. I found a multi cancer woman, and it didn’t work at all.
Thanks for the negative comment though, real classy.
click to expandI wouldn’t say it’s useless. I personally found better results when I left astrology out of the dating world.
It’s ok, I have no desire to impress you.
click to expandIf you leave astrology out of the dating world, it’s because it’s useless. I’m not saying you’re supposed to impress me, I’m saying you’re supposed to be polite to strangers.
click to expandI’ve been (as well as many others deeply into astrology) susceptible to astrologically discriminating others based on their placements. It subconsciously makes you more judgmental.
It’s pretty obvious from your consistent responses to others on here how you already look down on dxpers. So might as well play into that 🤷♀️
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It’s not about being judgemental, it’s about having a tool to navigate life. But astrology is way too complex, you never know what you’re gonna match with.
My responses are fine, it’s just that a lot of few people are very confrontational and childish. My responses are very kind compared to yours.
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandLol
look if you want to find THE woman who is ok with this and finds you hot, you have nothing to lose by being upfront. They can unmatch you block you or whatever but they will all appreciate your honesty trust me.
We can all lie about stuff, our age, our finances, our shortcomings etc
At the end of the day, you need to find someone who finds you sexy and wants you. They won't mind you being upfront.
You can first ask about their life style , do you drink do you go out a lot, do you smoke etc
Then say I also want to know more serious stuff, like do you have /want things, how sexually active are you do you have high libido?? And there you can share your own info about what you are looking for sexually, maybe add that in my age, I'm like this but I'm willing to please my partner anyway I can etc
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No, that’s too early to talk about that kind of stuff.
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But they will understand why you bring it up early.
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandLol
look if you want to find THE woman who is ok with this and finds you hot, you have nothing to lose by being upfront. They can unmatch you block you or whatever but they will all appreciate your honesty trust me.
We can all lie about stuff, our age, our finances, our shortcomings etc
At the end of the day, you need to find someone who finds you sexy and wants you. They won't mind you being upfront.
You can first ask about their life style , do you drink do you go out a lot, do you smoke etc
Then say I also want to know more serious stuff, like do you have /want things, how sexually active are you do you have high libido?? And there you can share your own info about what you are looking for sexually, maybe add that in my age, I'm like this but I'm willing to please my partner anyway I can etc
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No, that’s too early to talk about that kind of stuff.
click to expandBut they will understand why you bring it up early.
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I really don’t think so
I even ask guys their dick dize. I'm looking for a serious relationship but I tell them listen I'm like this like that sexually and size matters to me etc
But if they told me they could satisfy me with a dildo whenever I want I could still meet them if I like their looks and personality.
Plus, you need to find an open minded woman anyway, who is ok with dildos or the pill, or maybe she doesn't like penetrative sex. These women exist and you need to find them not the ones who will block you lol
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandLol
look if you want to find THE woman who is ok with this and finds you hot, you have nothing to lose by being upfront. They can unmatch you block you or whatever but they will all appreciate your honesty trust me.
We can all lie about stuff, our age, our finances, our shortcomings etc
At the end of the day, you need to find someone who finds you sexy and wants you. They won't mind you being upfront.
You can first ask about their life style , do you drink do you go out a lot, do you smoke etc
Then say I also want to know more serious stuff, like do you have /want things, how sexually active are you do you have high libido?? And there you can share your own info about what you are looking for sexually, maybe add that in my age, I'm like this but I'm willing to please my partner anyway I can etc
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No, that’s too early to talk about that kind of stuff.
click to expandBut they will understand why you bring it up early.
click to expandI really don’t think so
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It doesn’t need to happen right away but you should disclose it before the other person is emotionally invested. Depending what the issue is. Is this just age related ED?
Posted by Polyannanana
Ok I think you need to tell women in the very first messages that you are impotent, but with pill it works, and if you were to become a couple, you are willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want. Just tell them exactly this.Also texts or video calls mean nothing. Literally nothing.
You need to meet in real life and see if there is any chemistry. You know, do you guys like each others smell, touch, taste etc how do you feel near each other.
If one of my past lovers whose smell and taste and looks and character I worshipped told me they were impotent but they were willing to satisfy me with sex toys they would still have a chance with me.
Wow, here is a perfectly balanced human being😂😂😂 yeah why don’t I tell them immediately that I’m impotent, but with pill it works, and if we were to become a couple, I am willing to satisfy them orally or with sex toys whenever they want😂😂😂
That’s not creepy at all
click to expandLol
look if you want to find THE woman who is ok with this and finds you hot, you have nothing to lose by being upfront. They can unmatch you block you or whatever but they will all appreciate your honesty trust me.
We can all lie about stuff, our age, our finances, our shortcomings etc
At the end of the day, you need to find someone who finds you sexy and wants you. They won't mind you being upfront.
You can first ask about their life style , do you drink do you go out a lot, do you smoke etc
Then say I also want to know more serious stuff, like do you have /want things, how sexually active are you do you have high libido?? And there you can share your own info about what you are looking for sexually, maybe add that in my age, I'm like this but I'm willing to please my partner anyway I can etc
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No, that’s too early to talk about that kind of stuff.
click to expandBut they will understand why you bring it up early.
click to expandI really don’t think so
click to expandIt doesn’t need to happen right away but you should disclose it before the other person is emotionally invested. Depending what the issue is. Is this just age related ED?
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Okay, this is not related to the subject, it’s about how astrology doesn’t work. Let’s just drop it.
Posted by Polyannanana
I even ask guys their dick dize. I'm looking for a serious relationship but I tell them listen I'm like this like that sexually and size matters to me etcBut if they told me they could satisfy me with a dildo whenever I want I could still meet them if I like their looks and personality.
Plus, you need to find an open minded woman anyway, who is ok with dildos or the pill, or maybe she doesn't like penetrative sex. These women exist and you need to find them not the ones who will block you lol
This is not the subject. It’s about how astrology doesn’t work. And if the woman asks me then I’ll tell her of course.
Do you happen to know your moon sign?
Of course I know my moon sign😂 I mentioned that I drew full charts. Capricorn.
click to expandFrom your original post, it sounded like you only had her chart — that’s why I asked.
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Right, so I would study another person’s chart, which takes years or month of study to know how to do, but I wouldn’t know my own chart? Are you serious?
Posted by Polyannanana
I even ask guys their dick dize. I'm looking for a serious relationship but I tell them listen I'm like this like that sexually and size matters to me etcBut if they told me they could satisfy me with a dildo whenever I want I could still meet them if I like their looks and personality.
Plus, you need to find an open minded woman anyway, who is ok with dildos or the pill, or maybe she doesn't like penetrative sex. These women exist and you need to find them not the ones who will block you lol
This is not the subject. It’s about how astrology doesn’t work. And if the woman asks me then I’ll tell her of course.
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Well you can only use astrology like that on people you already know you have good chemistry with.
Someone could tell me I have good chemistry with trump 🤮 does that mean anything?
Physical chemistry- only after you meet and intimate with them.
Otherwise we are only daydreaming about people lol
* I mean good astrological compatibility with trump lol
* I mean good astrological compatibility with trump lol
Posted by Polyannanana
I even ask guys their dick dize. I'm looking for a serious relationship but I tell them listen I'm like this like that sexually and size matters to me etcBut if they told me they could satisfy me with a dildo whenever I want I could still meet them if I like their looks and personality.
Plus, you need to find an open minded woman anyway, who is ok with dildos or the pill, or maybe she doesn't like penetrative sex. These women exist and you need to find them not the ones who will block you lol
This is not the subject. It’s about how astrology doesn’t work. And if the woman asks me then I’ll tell her of course.
click to expandWell you can only use astrology like that on people you already know you have good chemistry with.
Someone could tell me I have good chemistry with trump 🤮 does that mean anything?
Physical chemistry- only after you meet and intimate with them.
Otherwise we are only daydreaming about people lol
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Sure, but it would be nice to be able to use astrology to navigate dating. But I guess not. Who knows why you’ll click with someone.
Like my ex, I spent 18 years with her, maybe we got on so well because she has libra placements and I have my chart ruler in the seventh. And we were both fire signs and our rising water signs.
But it’s too complex to see this before you meet them. So I’ll just forget about the astrology when dating.
Do you happen to know your moon sign?
Of course I know my moon sign😂 I mentioned that I drew full charts. Capricorn.
click to expandFrom your original post, it sounded like you only had her chart — that’s why I asked.
click to expandRight, so I would study another person’s chart, which takes years or month of study to know how to do, but I wouldn’t know my own chart? Are you serious?
click to expandRelax—I wasn’t questioning your skills. I just read your post as if you were focusing on her chart, that’s all.
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The correct phrasing is, “what’s your moon sign?”😊
Do you happen to know your moon sign?
Of course I know my moon sign😂 I mentioned that I drew full charts. Capricorn.
click to expandFrom your original post, it sounded like you only had her chart — that’s why I asked.
click to expandRight, so I would study another person’s chart, which takes years or month of study to know how to do, but I wouldn’t know my own chart? Are you serious?
click to expandRelax—I wasn’t questioning your skills. I just read your post as if you were focusing on her chart, that’s all.
click to expandThe correct phrasing is, “what’s your moon sign?”😊
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Do you have any water in your chart?
Do you happen to know your moon sign?
Of course I know my moon sign😂 I mentioned that I drew full charts. Capricorn.
click to expandFrom your original post, it sounded like you only had her chart — that’s why I asked.
click to expandRight, so I would study another person’s chart, which takes years or month of study to know how to do, but I wouldn’t know my own chart? Are you serious?
click to expandRelax—I wasn’t questioning your skills. I just read your post as if you were focusing on her chart, that’s all.
click to expandThe correct phrasing is, “what’s your moon sign?”😊
click to expandDo you have any water in your chart?
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Oh yes… cancer rising and Jupiter in the first, Pisces Mars. Uranus in Scorpio but…
Posted by bricklemark
I’ve had an ad out to meet someone for months, and I usually try to get their sign and date of birth, sometimes I can. Recently, I got the full chart, she was very nice and nurturing, a triple cancer with moon on the rising. I thought perfect. This is the kind of nurturing person I’m looking for. But rising was Scorpio and so was moon quite obviously. We had amazing chats and phone calls for weeks, until we met and there was just no spark at all. I would’ve pursued a relationship see where it goes, see if we can become good friends and lovers, but she didn’t seem impressed by me. Even though she wasn’t very pretty. So I’m not gonna give up on astrology but damn it’s not very useful.😓Astrology is life path.
People tend to adapt and adopt behaviors based on life experience. That's why it's not always accurate.
Experiences maybe predestined but not how it goes down and how people handle it. This is why you need to rely on real life hands on interactions and then look at astrology for insight.
Furthermore, it doesn't work on people who are self aware as they tend to not allow things to effect and shape them as most of the population does.Astrology, as many pitfalls. Bad or incomplete, or elevent interpretations being the biggest. One is the concept of vibration. As in how they express themselves, which is a spectrum of it's own.
Like attracts like. Opposites attract as well. Compatibility.
So, You may not click with someone but have great synasty. Only for things to fall into place later in life.
Lol how about this, think of the 20s version of you vs. The 30s version of you. Same person big difference.Astrology is a good reference guide more then anything else. Especially with synasty and relationship dynamics.
Sincerely,
Dude who studied and practiced astrology for years and has face planted on every pitfall there is with it🤣click to expand
Yes, that’s what I’m saying. It doesn’t always work. It’s not very reliable.
click to expandOne more thing, establish a personal in person relationship asap. There is a weird thing with people and ldr relationships. Transitioning between the 2 doesn't always translate. Kinda like pin pals. Have this with a chick I know. Flirting & very affectionate language and positive reinforcement but in person, we are awkward as hell. And no she isn't my type per say.
I bet had we kept the mystery and did the talking in person, something would have happened. But our relationship has already been established as what it is and no push or desire to change it.
click to expandYeah, that seems to be a thing. Also, I think I need a woman with some libra, a real romantic. My ex-wife had libra moon and Venus.
click to expandLibra? ya Love libras style myself. Have Libra Venus.
I'd throw in pieces Venus and moons.
Cap and Scorpio Venus only after you have earned it and they opened up. Which is usually only when they are serious.
Dude there are so many cool romantic placements depending on what your cup of tea is.
I've found astroids that do come into play with tight conjunctions too. Alma, Valentine, psyche and Eros come to mind. Also believe it or not, lilith can be a very passionate placement.That's astrology though. When it comes to hands on mundane interactions, learn about love languages. At it's root romance is a expression. People's individual style of tlc and romance can be gleamed through understanding yours and their love language.
click to expandBut does your idea of love involve sex?
click to expandMe?
My love language to receive and give, is quality time, terms of service and touch..I am and can be very affectionate in many different way....😉
click to expandSo yes, sex😂 cause I can’t have sex anymore
Are you a guy or a girl?
click to expandGuy.
Kinda curious why you can't or want have sex anymore.
But🤷♂️
Know plenty of girls who brag about how much they enjoy good head and some toy action.
click to expandBut that’s what I thought I can compensate with fingers and tongue. But my wife didn’t like that I was impotent. She needed more.
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Depending on the condition and how much effort you are willing to put in, it's doable to correct.
Otherwise, it just narrows your options and/or you have to be creative.
My friend's husband's family has a condition of plague buildup in the heart. So blood pressure problems threshold much lower and 3X. He did shots and meds to get his soldier marching. Though that caused blood flow problems too because of his condition. Feeling like his legs are weighted down, and fatigue...some times pain.
She pushed his ass to go to the doctor and they cleared his plague buildup in his heart. He is doing just fine now.
Same person but her ex's ex wife was more A sexual. So not a big deal. And then a ex boyfriend has a micro, wasn't her cup a tea but he was creative and amazing friends so their relationship lasted over 5 years. Considering he got married few years after they broke up and still together, great relationship and/or he found someone who was ok with it or his "creative ways to get around it💪
Then a current friend AND I hear a lot of woman do like penetration but clitoral stimulation is what wins game. Lmao her current dude is more of a F boy and they use to fight because she could never finish. She now requires him to go down on her first before he does his thing🤣
Goes without saying, Don't let that shit get you down. Where their is a will there is a way and alternatives.
We really are wonderfully complex and diverse creatures.
On that note, as to what I said personally about sex, yes sex is important to me, more so for the intimacy, I have had experiences where I was satisfied without sex, and others were I was happy and get off on just pleasing. I could go without if I had the equivalent. I just rather continue to be able to experience that part of life.
Do you happen to know your moon sign?
Of course I know my moon sign😂 I mentioned that I drew full charts. Capricorn.
click to expandFrom your original post, it sounded like you only had her chart — that’s why I asked.
click to expandRight, so I would study another person’s chart, which takes years or month of study to know how to do, but I wouldn’t know my own chart? Are you serious?
click to expandRelax—I wasn’t questioning your skills. I just read your post as if you were focusing on her chart, that’s all.
click to expandThe correct phrasing is, “what’s your moon sign?”😊
click to expandDo you have any water in your chart?
click to expandOh yes… cancer rising and Jupiter in the first, Pisces Mars. Uranus in Scorpio but…
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Does her Sun and other cancer placements conj your rising?
What is the but?
Posted by bricklemark
I’ve had an ad out to meet someone for months, and I usually try to get their sign and date of birth, sometimes I can. Recently, I got the full chart, she was very nice and nurturing, a triple cancer with moon on the rising. I thought perfect. This is the kind of nurturing person I’m looking for. But rising was Scorpio and so was moon quite obviously. We had amazing chats and phone calls for weeks, until we met and there was just no spark at all. I would’ve pursued a relationship see where it goes, see if we can become good friends and lovers, but she didn’t seem impressed by me. Even though she wasn’t very pretty. So I’m not gonna give up on astrology but damn it’s not very useful.😓Astrology is life path.
People tend to adapt and adopt behaviors based on life experience. That's why it's not always accurate.
Experiences maybe predestined but not how it goes down and how people handle it. This is why you need to rely on real life hands on interactions and then look at astrology for insight.
Furthermore, it doesn't work on people who are self aware as they tend to not allow things to effect and shape them as most of the population does.Astrology, as many pitfalls. Bad or incomplete, or elevent interpretations being the biggest. One is the concept of vibration. As in how they express themselves, which is a spectrum of it's own.
Like attracts like. Opposites attract as well. Compatibility.
So, You may not click with someone but have great synasty. Only for things to fall into place later in life.
Lol how about this, think of the 20s version of you vs. The 30s version of you. Same person big difference.Astrology is a good reference guide more then anything else. Especially with synasty and relationship dynamics.
Sincerely,
Dude who studied and practiced astrology for years and has face planted on every pitfall there is with it🤣click to expand
Yes, that’s what I’m saying. It doesn’t always work. It’s not very reliable.
click to expandOne more thing, establish a personal in person relationship asap. There is a weird thing with people and ldr relationships. Transitioning between the 2 doesn't always translate. Kinda like pin pals. Have this with a chick I know. Flirting & very affectionate language and positive reinforcement but in person, we are awkward as hell. And no she isn't my type per say.
I bet had we kept the mystery and did the talking in person, something would have happened. But our relationship has already been established as what it is and no push or desire to change it.
click to expandYeah, that seems to be a thing. Also, I think I need a woman with some libra, a real romantic. My ex-wife had libra moon and Venus.
click to expandLibra? ya Love libras style myself. Have Libra Venus.
I'd throw in pieces Venus and moons.
Cap and Scorpio Venus only after you have earned it and they opened up. Which is usually only when they are serious.
Dude there are so many cool romantic placements depending on what your cup of tea is.
I've found astroids that do come into play with tight conjunctions too. Alma, Valentine, psyche and Eros come to mind. Also believe it or not, lilith can be a very passionate placement.That's astrology though. When it comes to hands on mundane interactions, learn about love languages. At it's root romance is a expression. People's individual style of tlc and romance can be gleamed through understanding yours and their love language.
click to expandBut does your idea of love involve sex?
click to expandMe?
My love language to receive and give, is quality time, terms of service and touch..I am and can be very affectionate in many different way....😉
click to expandSo yes, sex😂 cause I can’t have sex anymore
Are you a guy or a girl?
click to expandGuy.
Kinda curious why you can't or want have sex anymore.
But🤷♂️
Know plenty of girls who brag about how much they enjoy good head and some toy action.
click to expandBut that’s what I thought I can compensate with fingers and tongue. But my wife didn’t like that I was impotent. She needed more.
click to expandDepending on the condition and how much effort you are willing to put in, it's doable to correct.
Otherwise, it just narrows your options and/or you have to be creative.
My friend's husband's family has a condition of plague buildup in the heart. So blood pressure problems threshold much lower and 3X. He did shots and meds to get his soldier marching. Though that caused blood flow problems too because of his condition. Feeling like his legs are weighted down, and fatigue...some times pain.
She pushed his ass to go to the doctor and they cleared his plague buildup in his heart. He is doing just fine now.
Same person but her ex's ex wife was more A sexual. So not a big deal. And then a ex boyfriend has a micro, wasn't her cup a tea but he was creative and amazing friends so their relationship lasted over 5 years. Considering he got married few years after they broke up and still together, great relationship and/or he found someone who was ok with it or his "creative ways to get around it💪
Then a current friend AND I hear a lot of woman do like penetration but clitoral stimulation is what wins game. Lmao her current dude is more of a F boy and they use to fight because she could never finish. She now requires him to go down on her first before he does his thing🤣
Goes without saying, Don't let that shit get you down. Where their is a will there is a way and alternatives.
We really are wonderfully complex and diverse creatures.
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Thank you, that is my mindset, that we are wonderfully complex and diverse. Exactly. That’s why I don’t think it’s gonna be a problem.
Do you happen to know your moon sign?
Of course I know my moon sign😂 I mentioned that I drew full charts. Capricorn.
click to expandFrom your original post, it sounded like you only had her chart — that’s why I asked.
click to expandRight, so I would study another person’s chart, which takes years or month of study to know how to do, but I wouldn’t know my own chart? Are you serious?
click to expandRelax—I wasn’t questioning your skills. I just read your post as if you were focusing on her chart, that’s all.
click to expandThe correct phrasing is, “what’s your moon sign?”😊
click to expandDo you have any water in your chart?
click to expandOh yes… cancer rising and Jupiter in the first, Pisces Mars. Uranus in Scorpio but…
click to expandDoes her Sun and other cancer placements conj your rising?
What is the but?
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Yes, sun conjunction rising. But…. The outer planets don’t have much effect.
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But that’s what I thought I can compensate with fingers and tongue. But my wife didn’t like that I was impotent. She needed more.