Conflicting Mercury signs

What do you think about Mercury in sinastry in your own experience? Which Mercuries was good/bad for you? What is your Mercury sign?

I’m Scorpio Mercury and my last rship was with an Aries Mercury...

...Quincunx

We had different communication style s.

I like the sextiles and trines.

i think you can have a peaceful conversation with any mercury sign if you really tried....and if you're really careful....

but i think i sometimes end up hurting water/earth mercuries without meaning to and i feel really bad/awful about it...😔💔

i have had some very deep conversations with scorpio mercuries...they gave me a lot of enlightenment which i'm grateful for....

my mercury is aries and i generally tend to have better understandings with fire mercuries and air mercuries.....

i think we all get better at communication as we grow older though....you get better at sensing what people are *not* saying...

I don't really know. Being I have Virgo mercury, I feel like I win 99% of arguments. Even if I don't, it never really amounts to much. So I can't really say what mercury is the worst synergy with me. Imo it is what it is in the end, and nothing more. I don't really hold any type of argument against anyone. Most people simply say things in the moment, and don't really mean it long term. I understand that to a degree.

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What do you think about Mercury in sinastry in your own experience? Which Mercuries was good/bad for you? What is your Mercury sign?

I wouldn't say any Merc sign is "bad" for me, some just create more of a challenge so I know my limits and when to just walk away mid-conversation. My mood really does influence how much time I will give a conversation I've determine is going no where. Given I am not one for arguing or giving energy to someone that is being disrespectful in their approach, I tend to shut down a conversation quite quickly (e.g. 2-3 back and forth exchanges max or 15 minutes, whichever come sooner).

^^^That tends to occur with Sq: We can talk in small 5 minute intervals and then I literally just stop listening/responding. One of us usually walk away angry, it's usually them lol. I have a way of making people more angry when I'm done with a conversation because it will literally be mid sentence/conversation. I had a Virgo with Sq Merc lose her sh*t once and that is a rare thing to see. It tickled me for hours lol.

Opp: Just annoy me after 5 min or so, so I rarely engage in conversations with them.

Trine: We speak a similar language, but we tend to have an immediate understanding---not necessarily agreeing, just an understanding. It's like looking at the colour pink and one calling it "hot pink", while the other calls it "fuchsia".

Conj: Highly depends on the moon.

Crab Moons, I find we pretty much use the exact same way to describe a situation/respond regardless of culture, ethnicity or background.

Cap Moons, like hanging/talking with your very chill/wise homey.

Ram, Leeb Moons their energy rubs me the wrong way, so it really doesn't matter if we are saying the same thing.

Mutable Moons, well...they simply make me laugh and I get them.

Leo, Bull and to some degree Aqua Moons....it's like we don't have the same Merc at all.

Scorp Moons: I understand them, but I am always left just....blank in response because of half of the sh*t they say lol.

Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





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Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





M

Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





M

Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

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Yep 😂😂😂

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





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Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

Yep 😂😂😂

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

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Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





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Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

Yep 😂😂😂

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Lol yea rough right? We get along as best we can but she lies like its going outta style . Last night was a great example but she is a great mom. Ill give her that

Posted by serenidad

i think you can have a peaceful conversation with any mercury sign if you really tried....and if you're really careful....

but i think i sometimes end up hurting water/earth mercuries without meaning to and i feel really bad/awful about it...😔💔

i have had some very deep conversations with scorpio mercuries...they gave me a lot of enlightenment which i'm grateful for....

my mercury is aries and i generally tend to have better understandings with fire mercuries and air mercuries.....

i think we all get better at communication as we grow older though....you get better at sensing what people are *not* saying...

Mercury in scorpio here and I always have great convos with Aries in mercury!

I was in contact with a Scorpio Mercury owner, and she told me that she finds Aries Mercuries interesting, but to her taste they are a bit too talkative. Is that the same for you?

Posted by Libra4rmTX

Mercury in scorpio here and I always have great convos with Aries in mercury!

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





M

Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

Yep 😂😂😂

😬

Lol yea rough right? We get along as best we can but she lies like its going outta style . Last night was a great example but she is a great mom. Ill give her that

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You always seem so respectful of her...i saw you say you still love her❤️

Do you meet very often? Why do you think she lies?

What’s her sun and moon?

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





M

Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

Yep 😂😂😂

😬

Lol yea rough right? We get along as best we can but she lies like its going outta style . Last night was a great example but she is a great mom. Ill give her that

You always seem so respectful of her...i saw you say you still love her❤️

Do you meet very often? Why do you think she lies?

What’s her sun and moon?

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I appreciate that!!! Im someone who would never disrespectful the other parent. Even tho she pisses...me royally. And I do but as a person not romantically. I just always look at her as a part of my very first family because I took care of her and her son before mine was born. She has alot of potential as a person and I hope she reaches it.



We meet a lot because of my son. We have him both daily almost. I keep him when she is at work or he stays days with me. So we talk a lot but its mainly about him. She has these venting sessions every 3-6 months lol but I let her vent.



I know she lies because Ive caught her in so many. And the ppl she lied on. Kinda scary because you never know what to believe but she lies alot. A whole lot lol. Ive even seen her switch her story twice in one convoy.

She is a libra with a pisces moon. Her personal planets are all water except her sun. She is....tough lol Ill say that

Posted by Som

What do you think about Mercury in sinastry in your own experience? Which Mercuries was good/bad for you? What is your Mercury sign?

I am mercury in Aries in the third house. I like talking directly, but approach things in an intellectual manner. I find mercury in pisces sometimes communicates ineffectively and misunderstands people's intentions because they either look too deeply into something or misread the tone as what the reason behind the concept is. Kind of hard to converse with them because they will want to take over and talk about something unrelated to the topic. I've learned to be more patient and understand their points of view. I don't mind the other mercuries, but merc. in pisces is the one I find to be a bit arrogant.

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





M

Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

Yep 😂😂😂

😬

Lol yea rough right? We get along as best we can but she lies like its going outta style . Last night was a great example but she is a great mom. Ill give her that

You always seem so respectful of her...i saw you say you still love her❤️

Do you meet very often? Why do you think she lies?

What’s her sun and moon?

I appreciate that!!! Im someone who would never disrespectful the other parent. Even tho she pisses...me royally. And I do but as a person not romantically. I just always look at her as a part of my very first family because I took care of her and her son before mine was born. She has alot of potential as a person and I hope she reaches it.



We meet a lot because of my son. We have him both daily almost. I keep him when she is at work or he stays days with me. So we talk a lot but its mainly about him. She has these venting sessions every 3-6 months lol but I let her vent.



I know she lies because Ive caught her in so many. And the ppl she lied on. Kinda scary because you never know what to believe but she lies alot. A whole lot lol. Ive even seen her switch her story twice in one convoy.

She is a libra with a pisces moon. Her personal planets are all water except her sun. She is....tough lol Ill say that

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It’s great you’re so tolerant of her (and her lies) and that you’re making such a good job of parenting together👍

All that water in her chart .... do you have Scorpio moon?

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Mercury in scorpio conj. Pluto. Also got uranus and saturn in the 3rd so communicating is very important. In synastry when its badly aspected for me it never works. The communication just kills it. Like rn Im dating someone who mars conj. My mercury. Its awful. She just starts arguments. Alot of gaslighting but other aspects point to this also.

My ex had a saturn square my mercury. Awful awful awful. Talk about a habitual liar. And then attempting to cut me off or control how we talk. Naw. Im good fam.



Its definitely the last planet I wanna have bad juju with in synastry. Met a girl who I had a few sextiles with to my mercury. We did alotta playful banter.





M

Was the awful synastry with the mum of your child?

Yep 😂😂😂

😬

Lol yea rough right? We get along as best we can but she lies like its going outta style . Last night was a great example but she is a great mom. Ill give her that

You always seem so respectful of her...i saw you say you still love her❤️

Do you meet very often? Why do you think she lies?

What’s her sun and moon?

I appreciate that!!! Im someone who would never disrespectful the other parent. Even tho she pisses...me royally. And I do but as a person not romantically. I just always look at her as a part of my very first family because I took care of her and her son before mine was born. She has alot of potential as a person and I hope she reaches it.



We meet a lot because of my son. We have him both daily almost. I keep him when she is at work or he stays days with me. So we talk a lot but its mainly about him. She has these venting sessions every 3-6 months lol but I let her vent.



I know she lies because Ive caught her in so many. And the ppl she lied on. Kinda scary because you never know what to believe but she lies alot. A whole lot lol. Ive even seen her switch her story twice in one convoy.

She is a libra with a pisces moon. Her personal planets are all water except her sun. She is....tough lol Ill say that

It’s great you’re so tolerant of her (and her lies) and that you’re making such a good job of parenting together👍

All that water in her chart .... do you have Scorpio moon?

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Preciate it!!! It takes work lol and I do not actually. I have a leo moon but it squares pluto and sextiles mars so its a lil intense at times. But I do have a mercury and venus in scorpio conjunct Pluto. Im pretty understanding of emotions.

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Posted by serenidad

i think you can have a peaceful conversation with any mercury sign if you really tried....and if you're really careful....

but i think i sometimes end up hurting water/earth mercuries without meaning to and i feel really bad/awful about it...😔💔

i have had some very deep conversations with scorpio mercuries...they gave me a lot of enlightenment which i'm grateful for....

my mercury is aries and i generally tend to have better understandings with fire mercuries and air mercuries.....

i think we all get better at communication as we grow older though....you get better at sensing what people are *not* saying...

Mercury in scorpio here and I always have great convos with Aries in mercury!

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that's great to hear, man! i was always wondering how they *really* (scorp mercs) felt about me...lol my former boss was libra sun/scorp merc like you! best boss i ever had!

it's strange 'cause everytime i meet a deep, contemplative libra, they usually have scorp mercury...lol

you've probably had people tell you you're deep too!